It's true, I am lucky to have such a good friend. She knows how long we've been trying and that we had a m/c and she felt really bad telling me she was PG and knew I would be upset (especially over that fact that i am struggling to get PG and she fell PG so easily). It did make it a lot easier to hear. I actually felt bad when she apologized and I told her that even though I was totally envious I was really happy for her and not to worry about me.

Ha ha your comment about me having the youngest and cutest baby out of my friends made me smile, thanks. That's a great way to look at it.

I'm sorry to hear that your friend wasn't as tactful. I had someone do that to me too and it feels horrible! I also had someone not tell me and I found out on Facebook so I sympathize with that as well. People who haven't been where we are just don't get it. Feel free to vent anytime, we all understand.