SPF- yes it is right click to highlight the words then i left click on them to copy glad you picked up my typo thanks.
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SPF- yes it is right click to highlight the words then i left click on them to copy glad you picked up my typo thanks.
Craftymummy - sorry to hear you are headachy and dizzy. I hope you feel better soon. I've been feeling a bit dizzy and nauseous the last few days too. I will keep you company in the "feeling sorry for yourself" department.
Snugglybean - Ugh, I hear you on the pregnancy convention. I'm up to 6 friends PG and 2 maybes. I think they are all attending the same convention Where are our invites already? Glad you still had a nice week-end.
Emmy - i really hope your hysterscope goes well!
Matthew's Mum & Murraycod - I won't be testing until the 8th or 9th but I'll keep you both in my thoughts on Thursday.
Ferrals - Good reminder. Sometimes I do copy my posts before I submit them but this time I forgot. Oh well, I guess i won't forget again any time soon.
SPF - hope it stops soon!!
Had a really nice Halloween with DS (two kids Halloween parties, a birthday party, and trick-or-treating for the first time). It was a great week-end and then I had a really rough morning today. Almost all of my friends here are pregnant now, but my closest friend wasn't ready to start trying yet so I kept thinking to myself "well at least X isn't pregnant yet, we can be not-pregnant together". So today she told me (apologetically) that she too is now pregnant. Her DH and her decided to start trying since it might take awhile and they got PG the first shot. She was very tactful about telling me and even apologized (I told her not to be sorry, I was happy for her) but I still felt like I had been kicked in the stomach. I came home and cried my eyes out. So unfair!!
I have a whole week to wait to test. Please stay away AF! Please Please Please
Twin Sister I am glad your friend was tactful when telling you she was pregnant and acknowledged that you would be hurt by her announcement. I know it wouldn't make it easier as any pregnancy announcement seems like a kick in the guts but clearly she cares about your feelings which is such good qualities to have in friends. I am :pray: for you that your AF doesn't arrive and you join all your pregnant friends in been pregnant again. And just think you will have the youngest cutest one lol My friend told me and didn't even care to think how it would make me feel. She wasn't tactful at all and all she does is talk about her pregnancy. She is a midwife and should know better if you ask me and then another failed to tell me and I heard about it on facebook. I already knew but was so hurt she didn't tell me herself. Of course I am happy for them both but wished both had cared more for my feelings then they did. Now I don't want to see them as it brings tears to my eyes everytime I hate hearing about their pregnancies as I keep think well I would be so many weeks etc. Sorry for the vent.
It's true, I am lucky to have such a good friend. She knows how long we've been trying and that we had a m/c and she felt really bad telling me she was PG and knew I would be upset (especially over that fact that i am struggling to get PG and she fell PG so easily). It did make it a lot easier to hear. I actually felt bad when she apologized and I told her that even though I was totally envious I was really happy for her and not to worry about me.
Ha ha your comment about me having the youngest and cutest baby out of my friends made me smile, thanks. That's a great way to look at it.
I'm sorry to hear that your friend wasn't as tactful. I had someone do that to me too and it feels horrible! I also had someone not tell me and I found out on Facebook so I sympathize with that as well. People who haven't been where we are just don't get it. Feel free to vent anytime, we all understand.
Hey cherished1, I don't know if you remember me, but you told me about this group when I left our belly buddy thread and I joined but haven't postd/lurked in months. Just wanted to share a success story, I am now nearly 8 weeks. Not smooth sailing, but not immediate threat either (spotting, but no reason for it, fingers crossed it's just "Normal" spotting :{ ). Anyway, hope you and everyone here are getting your bfps soon, and I hope this post serves to help you all with hope.
Good afternoon Ladies,
Just popping in to wish everyone testing soon lots of :pink-babydust:
Hanging out to see all the BFPs that are going to roll in soon!!
Evening all,
Hosebeastess thankyou for popping in and sharing you BFP. It is quite comforting to see success stories and see that it will too happen for all of us, some may just take a little longer than others :stickyvibesgirl:
Emmy & Twinsis im sure you will both get your BFP's really soon and you will both be able to join your friends in the pregnancy convention :bluedust: to you both
Craftmummy hope you are starting to feel a little better, migraines are the worse i get them quite often and they are horrible. Hopefully you can get some strong positives on your OPK sticks and have a BFP to announce really soon :crossfingers:
Snugbug glad to hear that you had a great weekend (other than finding out your cousin is expecting). 23 kgs that is awesome work, the hardest part is definately keeping it off though. I lost 10 kgs just before i fell pg last time and i have now put 9 kg back on and im feeling like crap. Ive started my diet again today and im hoping to lose about 5kgs in the next 4 weeks just in time for my sisters wedding.
Matthewsmum good luck with testing on thursday im keeping everything crossed for you, i think a trifecta would be great especially at the moment with the racing carnival and all :lol:
Ferals & SPF i too always copy my big posts before submitting them coz ive been caught out a couple of times with losing the post and its so frustrating, hope you are both doing well :D
murraycod hope your cramping was just your little one getting settled in for the long haul. Hopefully AF stays away for you and you too can get a BFP this month :crossfingers:
AFM had a complete meltdown earlier. My mum rang to talk to me about my sisters hens party this weekend and i just lost it, i couldnt hold back the tears and she picked up on it and asked if i was ok which made it all that much worse. I went and stayed with db last night and we had agreat night. Had a few drinks at the pub and played ten pin bowling and golf on the wii and then cuddled all night. i didnt want to come home this morning but had to come home for work. I thought it would make things easier having spent some time with him but it just made things 100% worse and now im missing him like crazy. Also blurted out to mum in my blubbering mess that i just want to be pg and that its all just hitting me really hard now. I thought i was coping ok with it all but obviously not as well as i thought. Now just looking forward to the weekend and hopefully db will be home but if hes not im going to spend 2 nights with him again.
Anyway ive started my weight loss journey today, hoping to lose around 5kgs in the next 4 weeks, just in time for my sis's wedding. Hopefully i can keep going with it too and have dropped 10 by xmas. Big ask i know but im going to try really really hard.
Thanks for listening ladies it helps to get it off my chest, talk soon
Twin sister-We need someone to start our BFP run and i also had a bad morning today when a work friend (number 9) txt me out of the blue to tell me she was 19 weeks 4 days pregnant and having her morphology scan this week mind you she has no partner and been with numerous men in the last few months she has always wanted a baby and could never keep a steady relationship to have one so i supose she finally trapped some poor one night stand but the worst thing is she diddnt tell me sooner i have seen her a number of times and spoken about Abbi and our ivf ect and she gave no hint and now today at 19 weeks she decides to tell me i lost abbi at 19 weeks 5days WTF!!
Hi Maddison.
Eliselouise-good luck with the weight loss i have to lose 2kg and i am struggl with just 2 i ring my mum often and break down in tears i tell her i just want my girl back i want my life back i have a good cry then pick myself up and just get on with it i hate it and wish i diddnt have to but with my boys i have to keep going like normal for them why does this have to be so hard?
How are you going murrycod i am thinking about you.
ferrals4 omg how can people do this to you!! people can be so insensitive and to wait till now makes it so much worse!
eliselouise85 mums are good for talking to, though it does seem that i do cry a lot talking to my mum and it doesn't help she is so far away :( this is normally the time of year she would visit but didn't come this year thinking she would come over may next year... but not anymore :( sounds like you had fun with your db, good to take you mind off things.
Emmy83 hope your investigation goes well for you. sounds like it's worth having a look what is going on in there :)
afm, i am glad it's a new month. i feel like the last two months have been so draining. and what is even better, no more bleeding. so i am very excited. just waiting for my af now....lol
Ferrals :hug: Thank you sweety X I think I'm doing ok....
WTF is right!!!, hey my Xmas list is getting shorter by the day ATM!!! Atleast we can save on stamps together ;)
Oh the joys, gotta love mates like that.
Hey have you seen the thread called "What Youd Love To Say"????????????? Girls you gotta take a look, Snuggly think Iv'e seen you pop in hehehe!
Elise sounds lke you had a lovely night with DB, having a goal to have for your Sis wedding will make things worth working for X
Emmy83 I love camping, hope you had a great time, guessing you loved your shower though.
Craftymummy hope youre resting up, and hope your head is starting to feel better X
Matthew'sMum I'l be testing on Wednesday B/C I gotta work on Thurs. I usually have AF day before BT is due, so already knew what the last 2 phonecalls were going to be, prob esier though, better than geting sad news over the phone whilst out shopping or something.
Snugglybean 23kg is a huge effort well achieved! Well done!
OOOh Wine!!!............tell you what I'll either be getting stuck into it Wednesday night or not!!!!!!!!!!!!!
TwinSis, ScaryPF hi girls, sorry so vague tonight, not many persies XX Hi to everyone I did miss XXXX
HI MADDISON!! Hope you are feeling great, and all is healthy XXX
AFM, well not much, a bit of a lull, dunno what I feel,....lost? Scared S@#%LESS.
Pretty much at the end of my IUI journey and seriously, am just numb. For the first time I have no idea what the next 2 days is going to bring, I'm sure hundreds of up's and down's, I don't feel enough hope to be excited, but don't think it's over yet either, so I'm just gunna sit on the fence and see which way I fall :pray:
Take care all, thanks girls for the support this month, you have no idea how much you have all helped me get this far X
Hi girls.. just popping in quickly to see if anyone had tested yet!!!
good luck to all the girls testing in the next couple of days!!!..
we have had a pretty ****ty weekend my 2yr old DD ended up in hospital we still dont know what is wrong with her but she is starting to improve so after24hrs on the drip they let her go home...
just to top it all off though i woke up in a hospital and was greated with AF... i wasnt ready for that i thought i was going to get a BFP but obviously not to be.. oh well today starts a whole new cycle!!!
once i have got DD settled back at home i will be back, have a few questions about OPK's and stuff!!
i hope everyone is doing ok, and i am really sorry for all of you girls that have had yet more pregnancy announcments...
Bobbie
xoxo
Mummyof4 I hope that your DD is feeling better, and so sorry to hear that evil AF has arrived, I have a feeling she might visit me tomorrow, I can't sleep the cramps are much stronger now :redface:
Murraycod, i hope that af stays away... :goodluck::SAAF: i really hope that this month is your month! we need some good news around here!!!
Morning everyone,Emmy-Hope all goes well with the investigations,my fs is going to do some on me if not utd this cycle or next....Snugglebean-congratulations on the weight loss...Craftymummy-hope your feeling better today,don't need any headaches for bd'ing time....Twinsister-hope af stays away...Eliselouise-Were all prone to our meltdowns i think;it seems to be part of this very emotional journey...Hosebeastess & Madison-Thanks for your positive posts...Ferrals-Hope your feeling a bit better,i to try to keep up a sense of normalacy for my other children,it hard though,when they catch me crying i tell them i'm sad about Matthew dying but happy they are here .(read a really sad story about a little boy telling someone that mummy & daddy aren't happy because they dont want a little boy they only want a newborn baby).Loss is devastating to the whole family isn't it...Scarypinkfairy-That's great that you can start ttc soon...Murraycod-Good luck for Wednesday,hope those horrible cramps subside,and you see that elusive 2nd line...Bookworm-How are you?...Mummyof4-Good to hear your 2 year old is home,it must of been frightening for you all,i know when my ds4 got sick after my loss,i prayed please don't take another one away from me.Sorry af turned up...
Where are all our BFPs! We are definitely due for at least a few (hopefully more).
Hosebeastess - Congrats on your pregnancy, that's fantastic news. Hopefully the rest of us will be able to join you really soon!
eliselouise - Aw hugs to you. Seems to be the week-end for melt-downs, I totally had one too. Good luck with your weight loss plan. Hope you get to spend a nice week-end with DB (You're going to laugh at me. I'm used to seeing "DH" or "DP" and for a sec I couldn't figure out what "DB" stood for. Then I thought, oh of course "darling brother". As I kept reading I realized you wouldn't be snugging your brother all night and I realized it meant meant Boyfriend. Ha ha Whoops :)
ferrals - ugh poor you! You are just surrounded by pregnant people without tact! 19weeks? Why'd she wait so long to tell you? And in a text no less. Nice! She could have told you a bit better. As for starting off the BFPs', Thursday seems to be the day of testing, and I'm really hoping to hear some good news. I'm also hoping to jump on the good news bandwagon on the week-end.
SPF - I'm so glad the bleeding has stopped. On to the next phase of waiting. Come on AF.
Murraycod - Wow what a roller coaster. I really really hope the cramps are just your uterus stretching and growing. I really hope this time worked and you will be getting your BFP on Thursday. Fingers and toes crossed. Come on, be the one to start our string of BFPs!
~mummyof4~ - I'm so sorry to hear your DD got sick. I hope she is feeling better really soon. How nice of AF to show up as the icing on your cake. What bad timing. Sorry hun.
Hi to everyone else I've missed.
Afm - just waiting impatiently for next week-end to come so I can know what's up. I have a lot of symptoms right now that could go either way so of course I'm over-analyzing everything. I just want my ticket to the pregnancy convention so badly.
I had an interesting conversation with this girl I met yesterday. She has a 19 month old son, and she said it took her 8 years and finally IVF to conceive him! She said she got so tired of living in 28 day cycles, it was a relief to have no idea where she was in her cycle. It was so funny to think of it like that. I totally live in 25 day cycles, and at any given time I can tell you exactly where I am in that cycle too. It'd be so nice to be counting the days in our pregnancies instead of days in our TTC cycles.
Well the cramps were the bad one's girls. Got the better of me and I POAS first thing thismorn, and as I was starring at the stick sitting on the loo, I began to bleed. Of course I got a BFN.
I have no uplifting comments about dusting myself off or positive thaughts about the long IVF journey we will go throug in January, I just feel devastated and I'm not a mum.
oh murraycod i am sorry you did not get the result you are after
HUGS
Murrycod-I am soooooooooooooo sorry hun AF is a biaaaatch!!!!! so what now just try the natural way until you start the ivf road i was hopeing you wouldnt have to go there.
Twinsister-got my fingers crossed for you someone has to change our luck in this thread.
Hello to all you lovely ladies i have not mentioned i am off to work be back at midnight.
AFM-3 days until AF is supose to turn up and then the dreaded BT that will be the no go or the green light oh my god i hate this please please please let me have at least one go at pgd ivf please please.
aww murraycod hun, so sorry af showed up. Hope you are feeling ok and hopefully you can get a BFP naturally and dont have to go through IVF
Twinsis you had me :ROFL: at your comment about darling brother, must have seemed odd reading that i was snuggling up to him all night hahahaha
mummyof4 hope your dd is ok. Sorry that af showed up, shes so rude showing up unannounced.
SPF that must be hard your mum living so far away, mines only 45 mins away and i still dont see her as much as id like, there always good to ring for a good ol cry though
Hello to everyone else ive missed.
Ive just got out of bed (night shift this week) and just waiting for my sister and her 6 month old bub to turn up. Cant wait for lots of cuddles and im not going to let him go the whole time haha
Talk soon
Murraycod-I'm so sorry af turned up,it's not fair!!!You gave iui your best shot,let's go to the next step,you've still got ivf,this is not the end of your ttc journey,we'll all beat this together,but for now cry as much as you need to,hope dh is home soon for some hugs.i'll ,like everybody else on this thread will be thinking of you,hugs,Hugs & more hugs
:)Hi everyone
Just took me best part of an hour to get through all the threads I had missed the last few days ! soooo many people on here its just not fair for us all to be here !
Murraycod I am so sorry its not to be this month :hug: I really thought you done it with the IUI after the rollercoaster ride last month you surely did deserve it, cry as much as you need too and then get those positive thoughts back its not over yet just don't give up we are all behind you sending our positive vibes !
Matthews mum and bookworm its down to you now :goodluck: we need some good news on here. Twin sister your on the TWW so goodluck with you too,
maddison and hosebeastess CONGRATULATIONS on you BFPs and your ongoing bubs its so nice to know people can move off this thread eventually ! how long were you TTC after mc ?
Eliselouise85 so sorry you hit a bad patch it happens to us all but your on the way to o so need to think positive and get some good :bd: seems we will be on the TWW together this time if my stiks tell me I have O that is !
everyone else I have forgotten hope you are all well and still getting on with this cycle business its doing my head in wondering what day it is ! just not fair is it ladies !
AFM thanks for all your concern I am much better today 5 days of it and was ready to chuck the vitex down the toilet but was so scared I wouldn't O again so carried on pooping the pils and looking on the web for side effects and so on. Anyhow seems taking vitex can give you dizzy spells and bad headaches and nausea until your body gets used to it and taking pronatal as well didn't help so I have stopped the pronatal and just take folic acid as well as the vitex and today for the first time NO HEADACHE ! well so far anyways so will see how I go I have to do a opk today and will do around 3pm as someone suggested so will see how I go as its day 11 for me !
Anyhow will pop in later to see whats happening in here Bye for now ! :)
Awwwww..... murraycod that sucks sucks sucks sucks sucks. So that's it for your IUI journey, huh? How are you feeling about the next stage?
AFM finally hit dentist today. All 4 wisdom teeth must go! He reckons he can get it done before year's end though, so hooray!
Afternoon everyone :)
I am in the TWW too, I think I am 6dpo...if not then I am 7 or 5dpo. Somewhere about there anyhow hehe
Murraycod, so sorry to hear! I too thought it was the month! Hope that you're ok xxx
Everyone else, so sorry for no personals, love you all and hope you're all well! Anybody doing a TWW list?
Eliza
Okay, well Iv'e had my HissyFit, couple panadol, nana nap on the couch and some chocolate, feeling a lot better, esp after reading such lovely posts from everyone :grouphug:
Made a phonecall to the natropath I was seeing last year, and he is working out a plan for me for the next couple months, and Iv'e also made an appt to Accupuncurist to get my cycle back on track, because I would have completely no idea girls, how long my natural cycle will be or when I will 'o' naturally, since my body has ben stimmed for the past 3 months.
I know this seems like a lot of things for me to be doing today, but I just need to feel like I am doing 'something', since no more needles and scans to count down too.
Usually as soon as I get AF, I only have 4 sleeps then back on the injections, so this month will be very different for Dh and I.
Sounds weird but I think I will miss doing the IUI treatment, but on the other hand I think a psychological and physical break will do me good!
Might go and have a shower, put some decent clothes on cuz I look like I'm homeless right now, get stuck into the make up and have a couple glasses of wine, day off tomorrow.
Snugglybean I am much more confident that the IVF will work, but sooo long between now and January. Will you get all 4 wisdom teeth taken out in the chair?? Too brave!!! Hope they got plenty of happygas for you!:redface:
Crafty thanks for the PM :hug: Goodluck with the opk's and glad youre feeling better X
Coco best wishes this is your month babe X
Matthew'sMum, Twinsis, Mummyof4 thanks for the support you have shown X You are all such lovely ladies X
Mumof4 hope that DD is feeling ok X
Eliselouise hope you enjoy time with sis today, thank you for your words X
FERRALS my darling !!!!!!!!!!!!!! OMG it's November already for you!!!!!!!!!!!!!
All of your hard work will be so worth it, I'm praying your BT gives you the green light. I will be glued to your every post to learn what you are doing!X
It will be you and I against the IVF world!! (just praying you are already UTD when I start though!);)
I love you girls X
Hello all, just wondering if I could quietly sneak in with you? I am currently going through my third miscarriage in eight months. I have been posting mainly in the TTC 1-6 months thread, but after this third miscarriage, I would like to start posting here, if you'll have me :)
A bit of a backstory, I am 19, DF is 19 in december. As of yet, we've had no testing to find out the cause for all our m/c, although with the first an emergency d&c was required, and the complications from that resulted in me getting PID, which left some minor scarring. We both want to continue TTC naturally. We cop a lot of cynicism from people about our age, but before TTC, I had this yearning to have children, and now that I have experienced how difficult that can be, I'm glad I'm doing everything I can before I get older. My biggest fear is that I'll never be able to carry to term :(
Although I'm still bleeding from the m/c, my doctor says that we are good to TTC again once it stops, although we'll probably be dedicating this month to looking further into our health and finding some answers about the reason i've been miscarrying.
Again, hope you'll have me lol
Xx
Pumpkin welcome and I am so so sorry for what you are going through, RIP little Angels X
You are so most welcome here, I have never met such a wonderfull bunch of truly friendly girls ever, and I am so proud to be posting in this part of the forums and I'm sure you will make great friendships here too X
Hi everyone,Murraycod-Seeing a natropath & acupuncturist is a great thing for you to do,you never know ,might get a sneaky natural bfp.A couple of wines sounds like a good idea too...Pumpkin zula-Sorry for your losses,hope the bleeding stops soon,don't worry about the cynicism,i'm twice your age and i think it takes more than age to be a good Mum.Maybe talk to your doc about some testing.some are just basic blood tests.Hope your ttc again journey is a short one.
Welcome PumpkinZulu. I am so sorry to hear about youe m/c's. Hope you find this thread as kind and supportive as I do.
murraycod so sorry to hear stupid AF arrived. I was sure this month was your month.
Hello to everyone else.
mummy of 4 hope you and your dd is ok, and sorry to hear af turned up. could not have been at a worse time for you being at the hospital.
Twin Sister i can agree with that, i always know exactly where i am in my cycle. have been charting since jan so have been doing it for a while :) just out of sync at the moment but hoping to get back on track soon.
murraycod so sorry iui didn't work for you this time. could you not try naturally till you have to do ivf? (sorry not sure of your reasons for iui)
ferrals4 i will be thinking of you on friday :crossfingers:
craftymummy9 sounds like you have worked out what was causing your dizzy spells. glad you don't have any more headaches :)
PumpkinZulu sorry for your losses that must have been really hard on you. i think you should possibly look at genetic testing for you and df as there may be a reason for your recurrent miscarriage. i think after having 3 maybe you should do some investigations, maybe have a chat to your doctor. i think the group of girls on here are really nice and it helps knowing we have all been through the same thing.
afm the bleeding came back this arvo. i had nothing at all for 2 days so why would it just start up again? now it's gone over the 14 days that they said it would stop. i'm getting really confused by it all, and annoyed with myself and my body for not behaving :(
Craftymummy9, I was TTC for over a year after my first two angels (while overjoyed they did, I was not TTC when they showed up, and supremely devestated when they left) which resulted in my gorgeous DD. My two most recent angels were 1st cycle TTC, and this time took about 5 months. I know that may seem like no time at all to some of you, but I am sure you all understand how upsetting even that amount of time is. The fact that the only one before this that took any time to show up was the only previous sticky one gives me hope this one will be sticky too.
To all of you who have recieved bad news, I am so very sorry to hear it. Please don't ever give up hope.
And to all who have offered me congratulations, thanks :).
Murrycod-glad you are feeling better and its a good idea to see your natropath to help with nature while you wait you never know you might hit the jackpot before january and I KNOW! november got here pretty quick i am so nervous about this blood test just hoping AF turns up on friday so i will have BT saturday cross thanks for the well wishes you always know what to say to make me feel better.
Coco- good luck!
Snugglebean yuk! dentist wisdom teeth not a good combo you poor thing.
Pumpkin-sorry for your losses and age has no meaning in our thread everyone is welcome.
I'm off to work i will be back to do more personals later.
You guys are all so great, I always feel so much better after coming here
Murraycod - I am SO sorry to hear that this cycle of IUI didn't work out. I'm heartbroken for you. You seem to be handling it really well though. I hope the acupunturist helps. That's be great if you fell PG naturally before IVF begins.
Ferrals - oooh good luck with your BT. I hope you get the all clear!
eliselouise - lol I did think it a bit strange to be so close with your brother lol
Mathew's Mum - oooh not long now, please please give us some good news!
craftymummy - glad to hear your headache is finally gone. That would certainly put the damper on TTC. Now that you are feeling better, go catch that egg!
snugglybean - 4 teeth at once? Ouch that does not sound like much fun! I had mine pulled separately!
coco- you're around the same DPO as me. When are you going to test? I'm hoping to hold out until Sunday or Monday. I'll be thinking of you as I test.
SPF - Ugh how frustrating!
PumpkinZulu - I'm so sorry to hear of your loss. There are a great bunch of ladies in this thread and you will find amazing support here. No one here will give you a hard time becasue of your age either. We are all here for the same reason and we all want each other to get pregnant and stay pregnant.
I'm feeling a bit anxious today. My past two cycles I started spotting at 9DPO and kept spotting until AF showed up at 13DPO. Thusday is 9DPO and I soooo don't want to see any spotting. It's making me feel a bit ill thinking about it. I'm just so tired of TTC, I just want to be PG again.
Hello everyone,Scarypinkfairy-maybe talk to your doc,it might ease your mind...Twinsister-hope your days are spot free...Snugglebean-Good luck with the denist...Murraycod-hope you managed to have some rest last night...afm-feeling nervous about tomorrow's testing if it is a bfp have decided not to tell anyone(except for you girls & doctor) as this month also is Matthew's 1st anniversary and i want to give this month to him.It's been the worst year of our lives,so hopefully we can end with some joy
Hello everyone
Hope we are all feeling ok & thinking only positive thoughts today.
Murraycod hope your feeling a bit better today and AF is kind to you I still feel so bad for you its so not fair ! I :pray: you have a natural conception before Jan and then we will all be smiling,
Matthews mum phew 1 more day if I was you I would be on the loo every hour and got a sore toochee by now ! its so hard waiting and then the day before all you want to do is know the answer but you are scared of what the answer may be :goodluck: we are all behind you either way !
Hosebeastess thanks for your reply it does give us all hope I am at the older end of the age range and I know I would be lucky to fall pregnant again before a year of trying but there is always hope !
Ferrals4 hope your bloodtest gives you the answer you want and can go ahead with your IVF you have waited so patiently go girl !
Twin sister hope you don't do any spotting and get your BFP god knows we need some good news around here can't beleive how many of us are on this thread all in the same boat with a lost :angel: makes you feel sad that so many of us have to be in here.
pumkinzulu welcome sorry your on this thread but we are all here to give each other support and lots of :pink-babydust: I am 44 and my age is something people always have to mention so don't worry about it I had my 1st baby at just turned 20 he has just got married but I have not given up hope of having another baby even at my age, life is for living the way we want !
everyone else I forgot sorry soooo many people now we all need to move out of here onto the belly buddies thread !
FF just told me that I ovulated earlier than I thought...which I thought I did anyway, but it means testing can start sooner!!!! :D :hooray:
Yeah Coco. I hope this is it for you. You have waited so long for a BFP then for another. :pray::pray: for you
Hello, everyone, apologies in advance for not writing personals tonight. AF showed up Friday, just as well I had decided to wait until Saturday to test--one less wasted test. At least AF has gone back to pre-m/c levels, it was very heavy bleeding the last two cycles. I thought I was doing all right with the disappointment, but today has been really hard. Work has been stressful, and now DH's bicycle is out of order. I had to take him to work today, and we couldn't even drop the bike off at the shop for repair because they were closed for their founder's funeral. That means we can't drop it off until tomorrow and who knows if they'll have the necessary part in stock. It could be a few days before we have it in working order again. It saves us money to have only 1 car, but it throws a wrench in the works when the bike is broken. I bought chocolate on the way home from work, it sounded so good and hopefully it lifts my spirits a little. (Not that it'll lift me anywhere else, lol.)
Hey all!
bookworm - my DH does all our bike repairs. Pity we're not closer, he would fix you up! He services all the neighbours' bikes too! We don't have a car, sold ours nearly a year ago, and decided to see how we go. Sticking with it!
Matthew's Mummy - fingers crossed for two lines tomorrow!
coco - hey, I O'd a bit early this cycle too! We're not actively TTC, but the early O cuts it a bit fine and means I'm in an unofficial tww with you! When are you testing?
BUT the unofficial tww means I can't get the x-ray for my wisdom teeth until I know. Grrr!
Mathewsmum-i have a good feeling i will wake up and see your post with a BFP i have to leave to go to work a 10:30 so please please don't make us wait and let us know early i am so excited you will be our first in a run of BFP's
Thanks for the messages everyone :D Matthews mum I hope I see your double lines tomorrow!!
I am not sure when I am testing.......LIAR!!! Im going to do one tomorrow morning because I am impatient :P
See you all later!!