Trying to Conceive After Miscarriage or Loss October 2010

im glad ur at least a little closer and havent quiet given up yet....get some bding in and hopefully monday comes around quickly.......

Thanks Melster- It's going to be another loonnngggggg weekend ahead.

Wow it's soooo quiet in here today, hope I haven't put you all off on my downer yesterday, Sorry for being such a whinge bum yesterday ladies. Guess I'm stressed out more than what I realise about everything.

Clairesmummy- ha ha its not you! Silly billy! You are more than entitled to let it all out in here thats what we are here for!

Hello Ladies,

I got lost! A new thread started and i got left behind! I have read a little bit but still have so much to catch up on.

I'm sorry you are having such trouble Clairesmummy. I hope your Dr can help to get it sorted soon :hug:

I don't know what the heck is going on with me either. I have kinda started charting just using an iPhone app (P Tracker) but i don't really know what i am doing! I started taking my temperature (just with a digital thermometer, under my arm) but i was doing it at any time of the day until i read you are supposed to take it before you get up in the morning! Oops! So, i guess all i have done so far wouldn't really be that accurate! I have had very strange cycles for the last 3 months with NO EWCM (which is unusual for me) with AF coming late, then early, then even earlier. I am not having any obvious O signs and it doesn't help that my DH works away and is only home for the weekends!
I started getting sore BB's yesterday and i was thinking that it could be promising (i'm on CD16) but then this morning i woke up with blocked milk ducts that feels like it's going to turn into mastitis :wall: .... so there goes that theory!
I also had a bit of AF style cramping so maybe i'm O'ing late... who knows. I'm over it to tell you the truth... I am ready to be pregnant now... hurry up body. I had a bit of a cry last night.. i would have been 28 weeks last sunday. I miss my baby.

My 2 besties are both pregnant (one 20weeks, one 35 weeks) and i am supposed to be organising their baby showers. Awesome. I feel bad but i really don't feel up to celebrating their babies when i miss my own so much. Don't get me wrong, i am so happy for them... just sad, for me.

Sorry about the poor me post. I'm sorry i haven't contributed much but i have been kept very busy by my beautiful 10.5 month old who is getting into absolutely EVERYTHING at the moment! He keeps me sane, i just adore him.

I will try very hard to keep up from now on.. have a lovely day ladies.

xx

Stoked- I know how you feel hun. I should have been just over 34weeks.

AFM- I'm not sure if I will ever want to TTC again. I do know that right now I find it hard coming up to O because DP knows that it is time yet I am avoiding it. I was supposed to see him last night and cancelled because I got an almost + OPK yesterday and with all the other signs, I know that I am Oing today and if I seen DP then there would have been a chance of falling PG...

hi everyone,

clairesmummy: good to hear you are making progress with the dr, no matter what the blood tests say mon make sure you get that referral !
did you do another opt yesterday ? and did you dtd just in case ?

joeve: how long to go now ?


Melster: how are your opt's going ?

afm well my blood test results basically showed the bleeding i had was my period so i was torn about taking clomid because it is meant to be taken around day 4 onwards and im now on day 8 but after a lot of thought i decided i would as when i fell pregnant with my DD i took it on day 7 (because that happened to be the day i was when i saw the specialist), so i took it last night so i will see how things go, we may not even try this cycle, might just use it to hopefully sort out my cycle length and try next time.....who knows......

Clairesmummy....nah dont worry thats what this forum is here for....and i am sure with you with the downer posts so dont worry...mine aint been real happy thats for sure!!!!

Stoked...i'm with ya babe......How many cycles are you now? I know with me lately, i think i havent been o'ing...one cycle i was 5 days late then the next one i was 8 days early...and now i am on my forth after D@C...........i went to my dr and i am seeing my ob on monday....so maybe go to you're drs and see whats happening...its very frustrating isnt it and no wonder you dont have the energy for the baby showers...i handled a baby shower with drinking (not saying its the best option but worked for me LOl)

ATM....just waiting!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! and want to bang my head against a wall for not relaxing!!!!!!!!!!!!

damprye...are you going ok then?

Minniemouse.....havent got my OPK's yet..hoping they will arrive today...cervix feels at my finger tip...but no CM......i was hoping the news of the appointment would have helped me relax a bit knowing something was happening and it would help me o...but who knows....

Well at least you're on a roll now and have had you're period and you can get things started now...

Minniemouse - oh yay for starting clomid, what a weird period then??? Our bodies are crazy!!!
4 days of TWWing to go.................draggginggggggggggggggggggggggg ggg

Joeve...so when you going to test? or you waiting for af

Yes I am waiting like a good girl this month! Thats probably why I am so bored, usually I would POAS and spending hours analysing a single line trying my hardest to see to something else!:redface:

Stoked- Sorry to hear your cycles are messing you around darl, I know exactly how you feel though. Hopefully things get better for you real soon and wow 10and a half months old boy what a gorgeous age that is, even though it keeps us mummies hopping like crazy they are so adorable. Don't be sorry about your post darl, it's better to get it all off your chest than bottle it in there. Good Luck with O day darl hope your cycle settles soon for you.
Damprye- You must have the willpower of steel darl to avoid O time. Take some time for you and have a good chomp on some choccies. Hope you are feeling better soon darl. Sending you some hugs. I know how you feel though somedays I just wanna chuck it all in and totally give up, it makes you feel like you are putting your life on hold and not getting any where.
Minnie- Hope the Clomid works for you darl, FX for you. Have done more OPTs yesterday and today and they are all +ives and dark +ives as well so don't think I have O'd yet.
Melster- Please stay away from walls hun cause if you bang your head on them it's gunna hurt like heaps darl especially if it's a brick wall.......stay calm cool and collected and leave it and see what yah OB says when you see him/her. Just keep DTD and try to put everything else on hold. Yeah I know what a laugh hey me telling someone to stay cool and calm I can't even do it myself....lol.....ah well I'm here for yah if yah wanna vent darl.......
Joeve- Thanks for the kind words darl, hugs to you. I say stand your ground and wait don't test early cause we don't all get the +ive result early on and they say it's better to wait and see if AF is late or not. But then hey I'm now 10 days late and still no sign of AF and NO BFP, lol. But that's just me I must be special......lol...lol...lol.....kidding. I'm really just a lost cause. LOL....:dance:
~AFM~ Well I am now officially 10 days late with AF and still have no sign of her even coming my way as yet. No spotting a little bit of cramping yesterday and today but other than that nothing. Still have VERY VERY VERY sore tender nipples sorry if TMI feel a bit bloated today. So maybe she is on her way I don't know. Have been doing my OPTs I only have 2 left now so gunna have to get some more, anyhow they have all been dark +ives from Tuesday night not getting any lighter at all. Wish Monday would hurry up and get here. Oh and the good news is I have found an OB/GYN over in Toowoomba and I can get nearly straight in to see him only have to wait a week if that once I get my referral on Monday (hopefully) So FX I will get some answers to all my questions real soon. :pray:

Thanks hun. The thing I am most glad about atm is that I managed to avoid O this month, I was so worried I wouldn't. The 19th was the EDD of my first pregnancy. I hope that with you find out what is going on with your body soon.

Thank you Damprye, I think you deserve a good chocoalte moment darl for sticking to yah guns and avoiding O time. It must be hard when our due date of our lost bubs approaches and we still have no bub to hold. My bub was due on the 1st of November I'm trying not to think to much about it atm but as time gets closer I think I'm getting more restless about it.

Hi Lovely Ladies
Geez this thread has been moving in the last couple of days. Ive kinda been reading and keeping up a little :)

Clairesmummy ~ so sorry about your cycle being so all over the place - I know how frustrating it can be. Could it be your system still trying to get back to norm after your m/c? as I know that mine was still playing up even before I started the IVF - about 5 months after m/c. But I did feel it was starting to improve. I hope you get some answers soon no matter what though hun and hope you can continue to keep trying - I know you might feel time is going quickly and you still havent got there but 34 is a good age - you still have time and a precious DD already but Im sure you want to add to that family :). No need to apologise - we are all here for you. You might find that as soon as your cycles go back to normal again - whether its with medical help or without, that you'll fall PG straight away, really hope so for you. Thinking of you and hugs.

Minniemouse ~ GL on the clomid, really hoping it works and you can get that BFP very soon.

Damprye ~ yes you are very strong and Im happy that you are happy and can maybe take a break from TTC.

Joeve ~ FX and:bluedust::stickyvibesgirl: Are you going to come into the TWW thread?

Melster ~ hope time moves quickly for you and you can get stuck into trying again.

Stoked ~ welcome back and best of luck.

Hi everyone - :grouphug: Hope everyone is well - besides the stress and the colds going around.

AFM ~ My cold, doesnt seem to be getting any worse which is good but Im a bit worried its going to have an effect on my embies still. Im trying really hard to not read into any symptoms this time but ive had some weird kinda sharp jabs on the RHS of my lower belly. I feel it could be 1 of 4 things though, this cold and all the coughing, the Crinone cream im using and wind etc, AF going to come early or finally and hopefully implantation pain. I am currently at about 8DPO and 5DPTransfer - might test on Sunday but no earlier

joeve...you're such a good girl!!!!! So what day will you test then, when are you due?

Clairesmummy..my heads already sore anyways, so it wont really matter....My brain must be over thinking!!!!

Damprye...i hope the 19th is ok and you get through it!!! Maybe go out and do something nice for you're self

Loops....ohhhhhhhh i cant wait till Sunday then...we need some good, positive news around here to lift some spirits...you can start the BFP TRAIN.....TOOT TOOOOOOTTTTTTTTTTTT

ATM... i'm on day nine...so see how hubby feels and im hoping he will give me a massage and BD tonight and for the next week...I didnt realise my opks could take up to seven days so i am not sure whether i just miss this month or go buy the expensive ones...knowing me ill buy the expensives ones and the cheap ones will arrive that day........we have so much on i hope hubby doesnt make any excuses or gets too drunk!!!! He doesnt quiet get when i say we cant miss out on one day and he cant make up for it the next morning!!!....He doesnt get the whole technical side of things......i might try bding in the evenings and see if that helps..because its been a combo of mornings and nights..whenever we can sweeze them in..

hi everyone,

Melster did you get that massage and bd ?


Clairesmummy how are you ?

Joeve are you still hanging in there not testing ?

Loops: fingers crossed you have snuggling embies happening !

afm: well im having niggles in both my ovaries, it seems way to early but i didn't start the clomid late so who knows what will happen, im guessing they are just being "stimulated", might start doing opt's in the next few days and see what the story is

hi to everyone i have missed

Thanks lovely ladies - Ive got some AF type signs but also some PG type signs but then again its just about impossible to tell them apart, this TWW is starting to take its toll :wall: I do also have a temp of 37+ but that could also be because of my cold. GL with the O'ing and the BD'ing - have fun!

Minnie~ I'm still here hun, going ok I think just hanging around waiting for Monday to come around, DFs keeping me busy though so not getting any time to even think about TTC at the moment...lol....which is good though. Hope it's nearly O time for you darl, get to BDing, good luck and FX you catch that egg hun.
Loops~ I hope it's all PG signs you are getting I'm gunna be waiting patiently to read your BFP darl, I have everything crossed for you and sending you some :bluedust::pink-babydust::stickyvibesgirl::stickyvibesboy: Good Luck hun.
Wow where is everyone it's been so quiet in here today, maybe this is the calm before our big October BFP storm???? Hopefully. FX for you all.
AFM ~ Well nothing much happening here, but I think I have finally O'd FINALLY had a big temp spike this morning and my OPTs have now returned to -ive so here's hoping AF is not to far away now. O'ing at CD37 wow has anybody ever O'd so late in their cycle??? Ah well we have only DTD once since the +OPT might get one in tonight if DF is up to it. Well ladies here I sit until Monday when I return to the DRs yet again and I'm praying like anything she will give me my god dang referal PLZ. Hope you all have a great week end and hopefully it gets a little noisey in here soon the silence is deafening.....lol......

:hide: still not testing but slowly feeling deflated by lack of any pregnant type symptoms........ AF due Monday not testing til at least Tuesday if she doesn't come...

Joeve- I have all fingers, toes, arms, legs and everything else I can cross crossed for you darl. Good Luck I am praying you get your BFP.

Awwww thanks. I am not feeling very positive for some reason.....I am impatient though!

We need to start getting some BFPs in here, I'm starting forget how to type BFP.......lol....maybe you and loops will be our good luck run darl? I hope you both are any way, praying praying praying hoping hoping hoping please dear sweet mummy nature let there be some BFPs in here in the next week or so please please please.......

Joeve: you are doing well, i hope the weekend passes quickly for you and you make it to tues without af !

Clairemummy: i ovulated on cycle day 30 the time i fell pregnant with my DS, so it can happen for you too ! also its time to practise the assertiveness with your dr, you are not "asking" for a referral you are going to say i have made a specialist appointment, i need my referral made out to dr x :-)

Loops: i hope they are pregnancy signs for you !

Minnie~ Wow, I can't believe i still have a chance of getting UTD when O'ing so late in my cycle. But that's awesome news thanks Minnie. I was looking at my charts last night and we have been DTD up until 2 nights before O'ing and all this time I have been thinking we have been getting it done right on time...lol...I guess there's a reason why you do your charting and LOOK at and STUDY them as well.....lol......:redface::hide: Gosh what a nit brain I really have been for the past 3 months.......how embarassing....lol......Anyhow if it is O that I have detected on my chart this cycle we actually did DTD right on O day this time anyhow and again last night.....Ah well I guess I'm now in the TWW finally :2ww:. Ah here's to learning by past mistakes......lol.....
Hope we all have a great week end ahead of us.
Melster~ How are going hun, hope you are getting your BD on must be nearly O time for you. FX for this cycle.
Loops~ Going to be stalking you all week end darl, Good luck I am praying for your BFP.
Joeve~ Not long now, Stay away from Joeve AF please. Hope you are keeping sane through your TWW darl.
Stoked~ How are you going? I hope your cycles are settling down for you darl.

morning ladies...

wow.....good luck clairesmummy....i wonder if that b6 really messed ur system up....i hope u get a bfp

joeve...not long now hun...keeo ur spirits up

minniemouse...how u going now with the clomid

loops....how u going? Anymore pregnancy symptoms

atm...im up early at accupunture...and its my dd bday today so we have to get everything set up.....hubby gave me a beautiful massage with oil and we bd...havent had the paid massage yet tho...he said hed give me another massage tonight.....got my cheapie pee sticks and there ok...got a line last night but not dark...will do two today....i think im due to o on tuesday........im praying and hoping....

Heres to the pregnancy train.....toot toooooottttt its coming round

Melster- Could of been the B6 not sure wasn't gunna chance it though and stopped taking it about a week ago now and waalaa I have now O'd so could of been. Not sure how long it takes to get it out of your system. Maybe I should of only started taking it after I O'd to lengthen my LP as it's been around the 3-9 day mark averaging at 5-6 days. So only guessing but I really don't think that's long enough for implantation to happen but I could be wrong. Depends if my egg and DF swimmers are running on Diesel or jet fuel I guess.......lol..Ahhh who knows. Oh a massage that would be just awesome I would love one of them right now....oh the bliss you must be feeling from it. How's the acupuncture going? How do you cope with them putting needles in you? I would be freaking out big time, not a huge fan of any needles. Lol.......like I keep telling yahs I am a huge sooky la la.......lol.....let us know how it all goes darl and let that egg of yours roll free soon for you. Have a good chat to that chook in you and tell her you would like a big juicey fresh egg this cycle......Good Luck.

Hey Ladies

Joeve ~ Everything crossed for you too! Will be thinking of you.

Melster, Clairesmummy, Minniemouse ~ thanks heaps ladies, really appreciate your support once again. Hope you're all ovulating on time, FX for lots of BFP's very soon.

AFM ~ Starting to go pretty insane now - really scared. Im even too scared to test. Although I think Ill just have to bite the bullet and do one tomorrow as I have to find out sooner or later, right. Sometimes its better to just keep guessing than get that BFN. But I am feeling quietely confident to be honest with the signs but then again still terrified - so as you can tell all over the place LOL. Last night I had bad lower back pain and thought AF is coming for sure but then I remembered I had bad lower back last time I had my BFP so I googled it and a lot of people tend to get back ache. I also had shoulder ache which I had last time too. My back ache has gone again - shoulder aching a little still. I think if AF coming it would be here tomorrow or Monday and Im not really feeling as though she is coming - the odd twinge in my tummy though. I wonder if I can hold out on testing until after AF would be here :dunno:

:grouphug: for all!!

Loops~ I'm getting so excited for you.........I'm praying AF stays away for you and you get your BFP hun. Good Luck.... Be stalking you tomoro and Monday all day.....lol......I am so hoping you and Joeve break the BFP drought in here. We need to be getting some good news in here soon.

Loops- LOL I want you to test now :p but that is my own impatience. I can't wait to see your BFP :D

Loops, I am feeling the same as you. VERY quietly confident, as i have a few symptoms, but don't want to get my hopes up. Goodluck! Fingers crossed for a BFP!!

Clairesmummy, so glad you have had a 'light bulb' moment! Hopefully now you'll get your BFP!

Melster, hope your family all have a lovely day for your DD's birthday :)

Joeve, Oooh.. you don't need symptoms to be UTD though! I didn't get any real symptoms til about 6-8 weeks with DS! Good luck!

Minnie, GL on the clomid :)

Damprye, Good on you for avoiding the egg. If it's not the right time, it's not the right time. You're very strong.

Hello everyone else!

AFM, My tummy is doing this strange thing that it only ever does while UTD. It gets sucked in under my belly button but bloated above. It does it on it's own, especially when i need to pee! I showed my DR last PG and she was stumped! It is so strange! But, anywho, i am getting it now so am quietly confident although i don't even know when or if i O'd so who knows!!

Hi Ladies
Thanks heaps - I think I spoke too soon maybe though as I went to the loo before and had a tiny bit of pink on toilet paper - oh pretty please dont let it be AF rearing her ugly head!!!

Stoked ~ that does sound weird but good if you get it when PG, Fingers crossed you are hun!

Loops~ I hope it's not AF darl, FX for you. Stay away AF please let Loops get her BFP.
Stoked~ Wow that does sound a little weird but hey whatever works. FX for you darl, praying you get your BFP. Good Luck.

Thanks again Cliaresmummy - really appreciate it xo

Loops - FX!!!! High temp could be a good thing. I hope the pink isn't AF....

Joeve - I had NO symptoms before my BFP and it came up clear as day on 11-12dpo. Don't lose hope yet.

Stoked - Now that's an interesting symptom...... how strange! When are you testing :)

Hi to anyone else I missed, I'm still floating around in the background here keeping an eye on things.

Thanks Forselby - must have just missed you. Really appreciate it. Hope everything still going well for you!! Good to see you floating around :) xo

Loops - All going well almost halfway now. I'll continue to float for a while yet, let's hope for a BFP for you tomorrow!! How's the pink spotting going?? Hopefully no more.

Did POAS and as suspected BFN! 10-11DPO

I wouldnt even call it spotting just some pink with bit of CM and Crinone (Progesterone) gel and that had gone but Ive had a headache all afternoon and that is not a good sign for me considering AF due. Im ok at the moment but think I dont really know how Im gunna cope.

Loops I am crossing things for you! I had a headache with my BFP so that could be a good sign!
Hello everyone back for persies later!