So sorry to hear about your loss the exact same thing happened to me 3 weeks ago and it is so hard to take in the fact your baby has died. I had a D&C on sept 3rd and have been trying again since I stopped bleeding just want to fill this empty feeling I have inside. I have done this before and have gone on to have healthy babies so I know it will come right in the end it just takes some of us a bit longer and a bit harder but the end prize is what makes it all worth it in the end. So keep positive and soon you will be doig another test and seeing those lines change colour ! not too long for all of us I hope !
hey alx, welcome does not seem the right thing to say, as no one wants to be in this thread, but all i can say is i know how you feel.
craftymummy and snugglybean, it was the worst feeling ever and it's horrible to know you have been through the same thing. to get a third of the way through the pregnancy then to be told your baby is not growing is devastating. i knew straight away i could see the sac but no baby. my dh has not eaten since we found out and he is worrying me.
good luck with your amnio zstar
hey twin sister, were we in the belly buddies group together? i was due end of march. hope you are doing ok.
Last edited by scarypinkfairy; September 22nd, 2009 at 07:37 PM.
Scarypinkfairy and Alx, I'm so sorry for your losses. You'll find great support in this group. Alx, I also found out there was a problem at a routine scan at 9 1/2 weeks--I went home in shock. I was so excited to hear a heartbeat that day, and instead got the terrible news that the baby was underdeveloped. They had me come back for a more detailed scan two days later, and the little one was about 3 weeks too small with no heart activity.
I'm trying to not think about the TWW, as it's still about a week before AF would appear on schedule. I'm trying to do some nice things for DH this week, as his birthday is on Saturday. We went out to dinner last Saturday and I'm going to cook some of his favorite things this week. At least I got to enjoy the sushi on Saturday, as I try to look for positives in the current situation. I'll have to switch my choices around to the cooked items after we get a BFP.
Alx I'm sorry for your loss, I was just under 8wks, but even being early doesn't make it any easier my darling. I'm glad that you found this forum, we are all here to help and support you. DH and I started trying as soon as we had a fresh cycle. But decided that we didn't want to risk taking anoth 4yrs for a miracle to happen so began IUI treatment after 6months.
ScaryPinkFairy I hope that you and DH are getting through this rough time.
HannahS how are you?? .........
TwinSis hope you can get your cycled sorted out x
Bookworm looks like we are POAS buddies this month!
Bonelige have you caved at testing yet???? Good luck on thursday, sending fresh babydust your way XX
Zstar good luck with amino test, and to Chickybabe, TinaR, Maddison
Hi Ferrals I know youre lurking too!! XXXXX
Now hope I don't forget anyone, am so so sorry if I do,
Eliselouise
Tanya,
Hearts
SammyP,
Matthew'sMum
HubbaBubba,
Srarangelk
Milly5,
Snugglybean
Flowerchild,
Sparkles
CraftyMummy
Coco, geez I think we need some BFP's in here very soon
The sadest thing is that we are all here because we have lost something so very dear to our hearts.
I just want to thank everyone here for being so nice. You really are a great bunch of girls, this forum is a godsend for me
Have a lovely evening all XX
Last edited by murraycod; September 22nd, 2009 at 08:38 PM.
Twinsister-hope your body works out what it's doing soon...Bookworm-hope af stays away...Scarypinkfairy-Hugs to both you and dh,it's hard on them as well,when i had to tell mine that the baby's heart had stopped beating i saw him cry for the first time it's just heartbreaking for the whole family.There are councillors that who can see you as a couple.
Not 2 bad Matthew'sMum,
Thank you for asking X
I will be 9DPIUI when I wake up in the morning so I'm surviving let's put it that way!! The cramping I had on day 5 6 and 7 PIUI has stopped completely, feeling pretty normal
I hope that you are coping ok too
Murraycod that was such a lovely post thanks for including me on your list.
Its so sad we are all here for the sad reason we all lost a much wanted baby.
I see your chart is very close to mine so maybe we can have baby dust together sent our way. I am new to this and some of the shorthand is confusing to me can anyone tell me what all these symbols mean Afs and so on I have no idea ! must be my age I am one of the oldies on here at 44
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