thread: Trying to Conceive after Miscarriage/Loss - September 2009

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  1. #1
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    Sep 2009
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    Bonelige & Snugglebean-Ifound naming my baby helped,hope you found that as well.If you feel like sharing [what's their names]

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    Jul 2009
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    Hi ladies

    I know you what you guys mean about friends and people either saying the wrong thing or not knowing what to say. Even today my best friend asked me if my issues would be because of "the other business" I know she didn't mean any harm but by speaking about the mc like that, it seems like it is something not to be spoken about whereas I am quite happy to discuss it, in fact it helps.

    AFM - this morning I got took a HPT and got a positive. Because I didn't believe it, I took another test. However, I am not really feeling excited, just more scared. I am a tiny bit excited tho. The main reason I am not excited is because I have been spotting since last Saturday and I would say I am having a very very very very light flow. Actually it isn't really a flow as it is mainly there only when I wipe but it is bright and red. So that is all very scary to me as I associate bleeding with mc. The dr assured me that it could just be implantation bleeding and we just need to wait and see what the BT bring. So just waiting waiting........

  3. #3
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    Sep 2009
    866

    Starangelk-Sounds promising,waiting hard but hopefully the outcome will be worth it.Good Luck

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    Jan 2009
    Perth
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    yeah sounds good to me staranglek

    i went to hospital today and had the tablets, and they are doing the trick but so much cramping. well i hope they do work so i don't have to have d&c. i've never had a general anesthetic before. have to go back friday and have another ultrasound to see if the tablets have worked

    i went to hairdresser earlier to have a dramatic change just to do something for myself, and when i got there she was discussing with another client how her 18 yr old niece was accidentally pregnant and she and her partner had no where to live, and the client had a similar story. it's like everywhere i go it's baby talk

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    Sep 2009
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    Scarypinkfairy-sorry about the pain,I didn't wont a d&c ,was waiting to see if my body would do what it had to do and it did 3 days after we found out he had died,thinking of you.

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    Aug 2009
    Murray River Victoria
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    StarangelK, Sweetheart congratulations getting a BFP!!!! I completely understand how you are feling right now, like you can't celebrate or get excited...attatched. I can't wait to get by BFP but am terrified of it at the same time. Rest easy,

    Craftymummy sounds like we gotta get a hattrick going!!! POAS buddied we are, see who can hold out POAS the longest!!!! (Peeing On A Stick) U'll get the hang of it babe!
    Bet u I lose!

    SPF I had to nurse a lady at work a few months ago that had to take those dreaded tablets you have taken, they work well but can get painfull, hope your sitting round in your PJ's resting up watching DVD's with DH.

    Snugglybean....Soft cheese and lots of wine!! I'm craving now!!!!! The wine that is!!!!
    When I got AF at the start of the month DH took be for a booze cruise down the river with the dogs, drowned my sorrows with a few JBeam and Coke!! Loved it. Mmmmm

    Hope the crampyness settles by tomorrow for you TwinSis, I could blabber and blabber about the insensitive mates I have to put up with...avoid, but I'll save it no doubt I'll have a bad day soon enough and let it all out!!!!!
    Big hugs for you X

    Matthew'sMum how is the clomid going?? When do you test???

    AFM just feeli'n pretty normal, I have BT next Wed TwinSis, that will be 16DPIUI. Still seems so far away. I will POAS wednesday bf going in to have BT so I can prepare myself for the phonecall if it's BFN. Or mabey i might POAS Tues......
    Any earlier and the Pregnly inj I had 2days ago will give me a fake positive like last month....won't be doin that again
    Heres hoping for no AF before then

    Hi to ALL XXX

  7. #7
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    Sep 2009
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    murraycodfingers crossed no AF

    scarypinkfairyhow far are you? i was induced with tablets at 16weeks. the pain was awful. really thinkin of you right now.

    strangelkgood luck!!

    matthewsmumwe named our little boy harry

    will write more tomorrow. good night!

  8. #8
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    Sep 2009
    866

    Bonelige-Harry is a lovely name...Murraycod-i'm on cd18,so taken all the clomid tablets&bding every 2nd night,bt on day21,poas day 30.i'm able to do 2 more cycles of the clomid,if unsucessful ,we'll have other fertility treatment,but hoping dont need to go there.Thanks for asking