thread: Trying to Conceive after Miscarriage/Loss - September 2009

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  1. #1
    Registered User

    May 2009
    Bendigo, VIC
    190

    Hi everyone,

    Coco - Thinking of you as your should of been due date approaches. I hope you find a special way to remember your angel on the day. You will never forget your angel but it will get easier. Wishing you all the best for this month.

    Murraycod - I cant believe that woman bragged about being pregnant. I agree that we all want of friends to be happy for us when its our turn but come on. Does she have no feelings at all. So rude and insensitive.

    Eliselouise - I hope you are feeling better and looking forward to ttc this month.

    Sunbeam - So glad you can get into IVF as a couple and move it along faster. I wish you all the best and hope you are successful first time round.

    Ferrals - Dont stress. (I know easy to say) Like you said you are very fertile people so there is no reason it wont work first time. I look forward to seeing your BFP announcement very soon.

    Huge hugs to everyone else. There are so many new people its hard to keep up. Baby dust to everyone.

    AFM - I had my ultrasound this morning. Last pregnancy i had m/c the day before my scan so i was very nervous but we have a heartbeat at 153bpm and are measuring to date. 7weeks and 6 days. Time is moving very slow but it feels very different this time. Was interesting to find out today that ff gave an incorrect o date. It says i o'ed on day 17 but according to the scan it was day 13 so a bit out.

  2. #2
    Registered User

    Sep 2009
    Melbourne, Victoria
    88

    Hi Girls,
    Sorry was at work yesterday and bank was too busy...
    Murraycod - what was that ????? how insensitive for that women. how can people ignore other people's emotions and pains, when happiness knocks at their door. and if she is a friend, she knows everything - she could have just passed the news rather than screaming and feeling sorry for your loss..i should not say this - but you know, people forget that anything can happen to anyone; and God is there. and why show-off man...she is not a friend, bcoz friend is the first to understand you, rather than a competitor.
    I feel bad hearing this Murraycod, i felt like crying listening to this incident.
    Coco - very touching poem, it reminded me of my loss as well, very touching lines.
    i am too desperate to be pregnant again.
    eliselouise - hope this is your month, all the best with TTC and BFP
    maddison - everything is going to be fine and i think your nervousness is normal
    hope everything goes in your favour.
    and too all the ladies i have missed - thinking of all of you.

    With me, i went to see my GP and guess what, since i told her that i am 5 days late for my periods and i did HPT (which was negative), i dont know whats going on? i asked her to do Blood Test to see whats going on. she commented- if your HPT is negative, no point in doing Blood test...what the ****, go home and wait....i am planning to go to other Doc now...
    I think you are right MurrayCod - that could be my early AF, after m/c, irregular one -showed early..so i am thinking to wait till 11th oct and then see other GP, bcoz my GP disappointed me, by not taking the blood sample
    DH says late AF is giving your body a chance to heal and recover and preparing for the next one...dont worry...
    but i am worried, i just want to start trying and see myself prego again...
    Good day to all.
    love, ric

  3. #3
    Registered User

    Jun 2009
    Camperdown
    421

    Evening all, no persies from me tonight sorry.
    Thankyou ladies for your kind words and good luck to me for TTc and BFP this month, but sadly this wont be my month. DB has been away since last monday so havent seen him for a week and a half. He has no idea when he will be home and im heading off to QLD for a week on friday, so by the time i get back AF will be due and will definately show up this time. Im feeling ok about it but have days where i just think to myself that it is never going to happen for us and get really upset
    So anyway i dont really feel like posting too much at the moment but i have been lurking and keeping up with everything that is going on. I will probably come back properly when i can actually get a chance to start BDing again which who knows with DBs work could not be till the end of the year that its not but its quite a possibility which is just not fair.
    Sorry for the whinge ladies but i just thought id let you know what is going on for me.
    Good luck to everyone and hopefully there are lots of BFP's really soon

  4. #4
    Registered User

    Sep 2009
    866

    Hi everyone,Maddison-good to hear things are doing well for you...Ric-I think the blood test they can do measures progesterone levels which indicate ovulation which in turn indicates when af is due if pregnant i've heard a blood test can show up early than hpt so i hope another doc will give you a test,it does seem common that af is mixed up after a loss...Eliselouise-sorry db will be out of town for a while,hope he will be home sooner than later.

  5. #5

    Oct 2005
    A Nestle Free Zone... What about YOU?
    5,374

    It's time for a new thread my lovelies. You will find it HERE