Trying to Conceive after Miscarriage or Loss ~ April 2009 #2

[boble]

sunny i am so sorry to hear RB (aka AF) is being so hard on you this time around. Hopefully it eases up soon and lets you go on with it. *hugs*

I find the start of AF, those first couple of days, I'm always so down. I always say mid 2ww if Im not preg just give me af already.... but then, when i do get it im so so sad. By the time AF is over, or near over, I feel a little better and ready to try again for the next month.

so.... I have just had some spotting. I normally have spotting from about cd28, 7 or so days after O... but this is a little early for that. Gee, i really hope im not going to spot for the next 2 weeks before AF comes. grrrrrr. Its far too early for implantation. I have had a few cramps tonight while i was cooking dinner but wasn't expecting to be spotting

[charm]

Omg I was offline for one evening and wow so many posts to read.

Jules-Huge hugs for you I cried when I read your posts Best of luck I am thinking of you Life just isn't fair.

Mollycat- CONGRATS That is the best B'Day present in the world .

I can't remember who was talking about the subaru liberty? Sorry I have an Impreza and it's the best car I have ever had My neighbor just bought the new Impreza also and loves it and the liberty is the model above me thinks buy memory You and DH will love it I am sure.

Well today I tested early because the DR wanted me to have an Xray on my back and so I am hoping for a decent AF this month and hoping next month I will have better luck and hoping my back should be better I am going next tuesday to a lady who does kahuna massage and emotional work so i am thinking it is exactly what I need. It is so good to see so many ppl this month BFP let's all keep up the fantastic work and share it all around so everybody take care everyone have a great evening I am going to heat up my heat pack and relax goodnight..

[Shortcake]

cherished-I pray that you are pg again! Sending you lots of no af vibes!

boble-hope your taking time for yourself in your busy days!

Rhi-Send you lots of baby dust!

Sally-Aww hun you are not a horrible person. Its hard for all of us to find out someone else is pg because we want to be so badly we feel cheated.

smallfryplus- Send you lots of baby dust!

juleswa- I am so glad you are "happy" with your decision. I pray that you and bub say your goodbyes and bub leaves you peacefully.

Mel-I hope your enjoying your new car.

Greenslw- I hope your step-sister-in-law send you your forever bub soon.

Sunny- Sorry to hear RB (AF) arrived and is being so terrible.

Charm- Sorry about your BFN. Maybe it was just to early to test?

Jen, erybery, megsmum,mollycat, and everyone else!

AFM- Not sure what is going on. Today is my second temp below my coverline!?! I'm very confused as to what is going on.

[sallyk61]

SO I tried my maybe baby tonight, just to see what it shows and it showed me HUGE ferns...
Im thinking maybe it could be left over from being pregnant??
Any thoughts?
I did a opk and nothing so Im not ovulation.

Can some one tell me whta happens temp wise if you are pregnant and when you o?

[boble]

sally - not sure with the maybe baby - i have only just started using the one Rhi sent me over the last 4 or so days and i haven't seen any ferns yet.. but I am sure that O happened over that time from so just not sure.
Temp wise - from what I understand you often get a dip just before you O and then your temp goes up. If you are preg it stays up (or you can get an implantation dip around 5dpo - i think), If you have a look at my chart it has an old chart on there from when I got pregnant last time. I hope that helps answer your question.

Shortcake - not sure why it would dip down like that again. are you taking your temp at the same time each day?

Charm - I know.. we have been chatterboxes :P hehe. I hope that it was just a little early to test and you get a sneaky bfp - look after you ok!

good night everyone. I will probably be back on tomorrow while I am at work... Tomorrow is one of my slow days. At least in the afternoon my casual comes in and I will have at least someone to talk to... I so need a new job - one that I can actually be somewhat busy at so the time goes faster... and pays really well too lol.. but for now, my wish is for my bfp

[Greenslw]

Sally enjoy your trip, lost of people have good news when they relax on holiday

sunny things sound rough at the moment, hope you have lots of cuddles and a heat pack from your DH.

I agrea Boble if your not pg you may as well know asap.

here comes mrs impatient again it must be close to clinic time I am so predictable.

Can't sleep at all tonight, must be the big day. DH is out like a light and I'm up thinking. dam brain shut off........

[juleswa]

I'm just reposting this so everyone can get my thanks and hugs -

just want to day thankyou all soo much for the advice and support, guess there's no-one really that understands what you're going through than other women experiencing the same emotional rollercoaster, and what a rollercoaster it is. I'm trying to be strong as i also have ds(9m) to look after and he needs me.
made the decision to wait out the week and book in for d&c for next week. i couldn't go through with it this morning. don't think i was quite ready to let go of my bubba just yet. i'm just going to stay close to home for the week and just nurture myself and ds and if bubba wants to say goodbye then all good, if not i'll say goodbye next week. think i need this time to give bubbs some little chats and say goodbye in our own time and personal space. also dh will be back and i'll have him at home with me at night rather then being alone which is awful at the moment.
what more can i say than a huge thankyou for being my shoulder to lean on and i'll hover around to let you know how we're going and also to send you all the very best of baby luck and love.
huge hugs to you all.