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thread: Trying to Conceive after Miscarriage or Loss ~ August 08 #2

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    Dec 2007
    USA, Kansas
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    Mollycat- Thats funny about your cat.. lol.. Sorry your temp keeps dropping, Maybe if you like ice cream indulge yourself in a hot fuge penute parfat??? (sP?) lol. I'm not a big chocholate fan over here but I know when AF is coming when I get the wiff of lets eat chocholate. .

    KrystieLove- A girl huh? I got my girls 4 days before O I actully did the big BD 4 days prior to when I thought O was coming than didn't have sex after that last day and got them, At that time I didn't know anything about TTC for a gender. I also heard the Salt intake is very good, I don't think I have been eating much of that more like a mix of both salts and milk (been drininking milk and soda)..??? But, I would love to have more info if you wouldn't mind to help me if I'm not KU this cycle, Or for the next child.. Please and Thank you. Are you going to stick with Acupuncture when your pregnant too? I think I'm gonna tell them I'm gonna wait till after baby born to come back in once I find out, I started Acupuncture while I was pregnant last month and Of coarse I miscarried so I'm a little scared on doing it..

    Oh I have a question for you ladies, the day before AF comes or is near I always get really Um, high sex drive and end up masturbating in my sleep only to wake to AF the next morning. Do any of you girls ever find that happening to you? I have only found one person that has ever had that problem, And I always was kinda shy on asking anyone else because I found it simi "Embarrassing"..

    Oh, I always found myself going to an amusement park 3-4 days after Sex and found that I was pregnant.. LOL always worked, I did it with the 2 girls and the last one and BOOM I was sure enough pregnant. I always found that it was funny how some how upside down rides helped bubs stick.
    Last edited by Babyfever2007; August 13th, 2008 at 12:57 PM.

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    Mar 2008
    California
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    Rachel--Thanks, I hope when you return I'm a mommy to-be, too! Oh, and Krystie called Angel and I nuff nuff's the other day because we were sitting in the corner waiting for her BFP to come! She thought we were being morons! lol....



    B.fever--Hi Stephanie! Yay for +OPK!! Remember that once you get the + you should O within 24-48 hours-- Oh, and boy spermies swim faster than girls, so it's ok to do lots of it doesn't only have to be the day of the +OPK. I read that for a girl you shouldn't BD the day of O--or at all when you're having fertile CM, but that for a boy you're supposed to BD the day before, the day of O and the day after.... so keep up that BD'ing!!

    In answer to your question, that's never happened to me (at least not in my sleep!). ROFLMAO... but aside from AF arriving, it would probably be a great way to wake up!



    issy--Ooh, I'm your increased temp and sore bb's means a surprise BFP for you!! So what grade are you studying to teach in primary school?



    pbstar--Great BT results! Will look for some higher numbers in a couple days! Congrats, I hope it's giving you some peace of mind!



    mollycat--Hi Helen! For some reason I just assumed your name was Molly! lol... See why they say you should never make assumptions? So sorry your temp went down again this am... I know exactly how disappointing it is when that happens... Sending lots of chocolate and



    Krystie--Of course we'll be in the same belly buddy group! We'll only be a few weeks apart! I checked my mail today, and still haven't received that ticket.... I'm sure it's on the way, tho!

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    Mar 2008
    California
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    Oh, and Jen actually is my real name, which I'm sure doesn't surprise anyone! It's actually Jennifer, but only my mom's allowed to call me that when I'm in trouble! I don't even respond when someone calls me that--although it's not to be rude, it's just that I hear it so infrequently Usually go by Jenny or Jen... except for Angel who calls me Jen Jen!

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    Jul 2008
    Sydney NSW
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    Hi Girls,

    I really need some help today!


    I am pregnant again, after a ruptured ectopic in June.

    But Doc called me yesterday and said my HCG is very low, only 23.

    I would be about 4 weeks today, is this really going to be a problem


    PLEASE HELP

    had another blood test this morning, waiting on results.

    PRAYING FOR A MIRACLE!!!

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    Oct 2007
    Caroline Springs
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    LARZ! - I was just thinking about you while I was doing the cycle list and I went searching for you to see if you made any other posts

    Firstly, congrats on being pregnant again, and I sincerely hope that things go well for you!

    The hcg level does seem to be pretty low, but hopefully you either ovulated later than you thought, or perhaps bubba didn't implant until late?

    My thoughts are with you sweetheart and I hope that your next blood test shows a lovely increase in hcg for you and bubs.

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    Jul 2008
    Sydney NSW
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    Thanks Kristielove....

    My herbalist said I did ovulate late and I'm about 3 days behind in hcg levels....

    but just so scared cause 23 is so low

    get results a 5pm today, going crazy thinking about it

    but thanks for all the well wishes

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    Mar 2008
    California
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    Thanks for the updated list Krystie! I'm so grateful that you always keep up with everyone's info! I really appreciate you, Pill Girl!



    larz--Oh, hon... I'm not really sure as there's such a wide range between women. I'm with you for your miracle, sweetie! Will you have to wait until tomorrow for your BT results? I'm sorry things are so stressful for you right now during a time when you're supposed to be rejoicing. Please let us know if there's anything you need--we're all here for you! Sending tons of



    Nuff--Are you (as my DS2 would say) freezing balls yet? Hope you can check in and let us know how you're doing! I'm those "sticking" herbs are doin' their thing! Shaky shaky!

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    Mar 2008
    California
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    Sorry, larz, we posted at the same time--I see now you'll get your results today. You're in my Sending loads of



    Krystie-- Who woulda thunk it?



    Hey Toccara!

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    Oct 2007
    Caroline Springs
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    Cycle List for 13th Aug

    Jodsan - CD2
    Krystie - CD3
    Chappas - CD4
    Smilanatu - CD8
    Toccara - CD10
    Megsmum - CD18
    Vanaithi - CD18
    Acria - CD21
    WTH - CD22

    Babyfever - 0DPO
    Jen - 4DPO
    Joey - 8DPO
    Easha - 9DPO
    LizJessie - 14DPO
    Mollycat - 16DPO
    Sandygirl - 17DPO
    Larz - 18DPO?
    Rachel - CD18
    Angel Babies - CD22
    Issy - CD31

    pbstar - 4w3d
    Tutmae - 5w1d
    Ruthie - 6w1d
    Tina - 8w5d
    Bettyboop - 10w
    SaraJane 13w1d
    Laura - 14w
    AJC - 16w2d
    Mel A - 16w
    mmteacher- 17w4d
    Canary - 18w
    plc - 18w4d
    Katiegirl - 27w4d
    Nickster - 29w6d


    If I have anything wrong please let me know

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    Oct 2007
    Caroline Springs
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    Mollycat - Huge hugs for you sweetness

    Babyfever
    - If you could pm me your email address I'll email you the study and a webaddress
    But sorry, nope, never had that happen to me just before AF. I seem to have a bit of a higher sex drive during the tww, but I think it might be because I won't have sex in case it "mixes things up" too much, so it might be a case of "you want what you can't have"
    I think I'll still go to the acupuncturist maybe once a month or fortnightly when I'm pregnant. My best friend went all through her pregnancy and loved it. Plus if I get a massage each time.... hehe

    Jen - Serious?! No ticket yet?!
    I'm flabergasted that your real name is Jen! Who would have thought?!

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    May 2008
    U.S.A
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    Issy~ sorry AF is on the way I'm with you on getting pg in 2009 I'm thinking I wanna have a end of 2009 baby or new years 2010 baby ...

    Chappas ~ Hey girl I know you going to miss your DD while she is gone ...

    Easha you got that BFP !!!

    KrystieLove the acupuncturist sounds great I hope you get a sticky lil bub this month ...
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    May 2008
    U.S.A
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    Jen I hope you get that BFP you are wishing for !!!

    Rachel Thanks for the well wishes but my cycle has been off so I dont know when I am going to O I will just Bd once a week maybe I kinda wish I know when I O'ed so I could bd that day I'm going to the doc soon to make sure I am O'ing ...

    Mollycat I would have never guess your name was helen I just assumed it was molly lol ...

    Larz congrats on the BFP I everything if fine and you just o'ed late ...

    Pbstar Yay I'm so happy for you those numbers look great !!!

    Hey Jen Jen ... I can't sleep its 12:14 am here ... lol

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    Oct 2007
    Hunter Valley, NSW
    624

    Jen and Tocorra - only a special group of people get to call me "molly" or "mollycat". All the regular people refer to me as Helen (or as the kids say Hannan). Honestly, I never really liked Helen as a name - probably wouldn't like molly either if it was my name. LOL. Just really suits my cat - and I think she was on my desk or something at the time when I was registering and there was already a helen.

    Jen - your force field is still in place (can you take it down now???) i'm so over waiting for AF - i just hate it when she's late, early I can handle but late is annoying. I really wish my temp hadn't dropped.

    Larz - that everything will be ok for you.

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    Jan 2008
    South Australia
    522

    Babyfever - I dont have a chart at the moment, I used to chart on FF (my account is still open) but havent done it for ages. I stopped temping a few months ago and now only temp the last few days of my cycle, just to see when AF will arrive. But thanks for the offer

    Jen - My degree is a 4 year degree in junior primary/primary teaching (or a Bachelor of Education), which means I will be teaching students from Reception to Year 7 ( 5-12 years olds). I already have a diploma in childrens services which means I am qualified to educate children from birth to 12 years old. I dont get to choose which grade I teach, I just have to study for them all, and take the job in which ever grade it happens to pop up in. I really enjoy it, hard work, but very enjoyable. Speaking of which, I saw on Oprah the pay rate for teachers in your country....WOW, its not very fair !!!! (thats what the show was about) Teachers here are paid $30,000 more than the teachers in America. We are fighting hard here at the moment to be paid more too. I hope they award the pay increase before I start in June next year

    So anyway, after that little rant....I POAS and it was a VERY CLEAR BFN! What I expected really, but just thought Id check. As I said im pretty sure I didnt ovlulate this month.

    Oh and how could I forget.....YAY YAY YAY for pbstar!!!!! Those numbers look great...cant wait to hear of those doubled numbers in a few days!

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    May 2008
    NSW
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    Jen, KrystieLove, AJC, AngelBabies, Joey, Smilantu, Tocarra, PBStar, Easha, Tocarra (and any one I have missed) - Thanks for your recent messages. I have read them. Just have not always been on here long enough to reply. But it does make me feel a little special to be in your thoughts and to catch your positive vibes.

    Issy - You returned while I have been MIA. It is so good to see you on here (though looking forward to finding you on the PG thread very soon!)

    LARZ - best wishes for you. Hopefully it is just very early days and your HCG levels will sky rocket.

    KrystieLove - I am thinking of seeing an accupuncturist. Not sure I want to do the whole chinese herb thing, though. Will do a general post to see if anyone can recommend a good one South of Sydney or in the Illawarra region.

    AFM - Was tooting along just fine (all things considered). DH, DD and I had our break away. But came home to a very sick cat. After 5 days in the vet's care, then 24 hours at home, I had to make the heartbreaking decision to put her down, on Saturday afternoon. This was my breaking point - like the final straw. My cat was very old - her kidneys had packed it in - but she had been around nearly half my life. I cried more over this then my recent MC. I was just feeling so jinxed. Why now? When would this damn run of bad luck end? I am going ok now. Just ready for some good luck. I will put away my violin now...

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    issy-- I missed that Oprah--but Wow! $30,000 more? That's crazy... I knew the teachers here were underpaid (and overworked), but didn't realize it was that bad! They only get paid at the end of the month, too--is that how it works there? Seems like it would be hard to have to wait the whole entire month for your check--it should be every other week. I love the teachers at DS's school--they're amazing, and it astounds me that they can handle all those kids! How many kids are usually in a class there? DS's 1st grade class last year had 20 kids, but then my DSD's 5th grade class last year had about 30 kids! I could never be a teacher--I just don't have the patience! Good on you for wanting to influence the lives of so many children!



    Toccara--OMG, can't believe you're still up! It's almost 9:30 here, and if I weren't typing right now, I'd be That's why I can't ever sit down on the couch--as soon as I sit down, unless it's at the computer, I fall right to sleep! But I do get up really early... Hope you get some sleep soon!

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    Jul 2008
    Sydney NSW
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    wherethereshope - I see a great Herbalist in Coogee, she specialises in fertility, and got my ovulation from day 24 to day 16 in just 6 weeks.

    Have a look at her website parentingnaturally.com.au

    Thank you all for your support, I will let you all know my HCG levels tomorrow.
    Last edited by larz; August 13th, 2008 at 02:48 PM.

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    May 2008
    U.S.A
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    WTH ~ I'm so sorry to hear about your cat and that you are felling down right now and I'm for you ...

    Jen I have not been sleeping well for about 3 or 4 days now ...

    Molly ~ Well I don't like for people call me by my full name either I tell them to call me Tee some of my friends call me Tokyo for some reason though ... lol

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