thread: Trying to Conceive after Miscarriage or Loss ~ August 08 #2

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  1. #1
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    Jun 2008
    New Jersey, USA
    192

    Babyfever... most women don't show a real BFP till after 12-15 DPO!! I knwo about stressing about POAS.. believe me I got a BFP on cycle day 63!!! how many DPO is that??.. holy smokes!!! Anyways.. give it time.. I know you will roll your eyes at this... but be patient.. if you have a baby inside it won't go anywhere.. it will stay right there developing inside of you!! Stressing might make you miscarry again an I don't want that.. believe me I have had 2!!!
    Give it a couple of days... momma.. I know how you feel.. I have been 3 years at this and it sucks! 1especially when we want a child so bad!! I know you might think.. its easy for you to say you are pregnant now.. It not easy.. cuz it took me 3 years of being a lab rat taking meds and having my heart shattered when I lost 2 babies I wanted really bad.
    Momma.. I will be praying for you.. I hope you find patience wherever you can and hold a few more days!!

    for your


    Ruthie

  2. #2

    Dec 2007
    USA, Kansas
    824

    Ruth- Well, The reason Im testing early this month is because I had a BFP at 7DPO last month thinking I would get one this cycle too... I lost my pregnancy at 6 weeks 1 day, And well, I jumped the gun and started TTC right away I couldn't wait anymore. Also my chart almost looks dooplicate to last too kinda a little off by a bit. Maybe it was just too early to TTC right away .
    Thanks for the support. I really do need to let go of my addiction anyways, I think now is the time to start (POAS addiction). And, Yeah that was a long cycle for you but I'm glad you got your BFP. Must had been a struggle of frustration for you. Happy 8 Weeks hunny. And, I'm not thinking that it was easy for you for any of us girls that have to go to a TTC site its not easy to get pregnant for us at all.. I would never think that about someone. All, my friends were pregnant when I was TTC and lost my baby and one more just found out, The others had there babies. I was proud of them.

    I put a photo of the Evap I got yesterday if anyone wants to look at a pee stick.
    Last edited by Babyfever2007; August 21st, 2008 at 04:23 AM.

  3. #3
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    Jun 2008
    New Jersey, USA
    192

    Babyfever-Oh hun..All i want to say is I know how you feel and I am here for you!! I'm a POAS addict myself.. and your fear about the 6 weeks!!!! OMG I have that too!! When I went to do the u/s I thought I was 6 weeks so when she did the tummy u/s and said she saw nothing my worst fears were lingering in my head... when I saw the screen when she did the vag. u/s.. Momma.. my tears??.. they were of relief,of gratefulness, of joy .. I don't know of many feelings. When she said I was 7 weeks that was 1 week away from miscarriage week for me!! I'm proud that you have held on.. I wish I could make it all better bu I know I can't.. I do understand how you feel and just know that I'm here for you!!!I am praying for you and I hope you get that BFP on time for you to see a doctor and have a chance to finally have your baby nice and healthy in 9 months! 1good luck to you and I am sure for you!!



    your friend always,
    Ruthie

  4. #4

    Dec 2007
    USA, Kansas
    824

    Ruth- Thanks for the support I'm hear for you too if you need me. . how is the weather in NJ?

  5. #5
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    Jun 2008
    New Jersey, USA
    192

    babyfever: thanks hun Well we have clear beautiful blue skies today and it's not as hot.. ( well at least in here..LOL) I bet if you go outside yo would sweat up a storm!!
    So far so good.. OMg hubby said he is bringing pizza when he gets home from work! 1YUM!! I can't wait!! heheeheh

    Where are you now??.. What is the weather like over there????

  6. #6

    Dec 2007
    USA, Kansas
    824

    I'm in Kansas, Its cloudy, I guess it rained last night and warm but not to hot, its about 75 degrees or so. Nice enough to go on a walk. To bad the kids are being rotten my oldest 2 years old has been kicking her sister which is 1 years old & not listening. UGH!!!... I Wish my 2 year old would give me what normal kids do good days and bad days no shes always bad!!.. Ahhh.. lol..

    Oh pizza sounds good what kinda pizza?

  7. #7
    Registered User

    Jun 2008
    New Jersey, USA
    192

    Well I love Pizzahut with onions, peppers and pepperoni and extra cheese!! OMG my mouth is watering already!! heheeheh
    My son today has been at his worst!! He is 3 and a half and OMG today he is running all over the place.. I home school him preparing him for Kinder ( when he's 5) and he didn't even pay much attention today!!! UUGHH ( I was a teacher but quit to be a SAHM)
    I hear ya on that one!! eeeww he is spitting on the TV!! OMG!!!!! Are you kidding me???
    Be right back... EEWW!!!

  8. #8
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    May 2008
    North side, Brisbane
    754

    BLOG!!

    I've started my own blog. Yeah!!