Mollycat - Hope you're feeling a little better today. Wish I was spewing instead of sneezing (so long as it was MS)!
Easha - My LP is an average of 14, a minimum of 10, max of 16. All over the shop it seems!! I like the fact that b6 brings your O date sooner though ... just in case. Are there any side affects? Is there any reason why someone like me SHOULDN'T take it? Hope DH gets along ok with the jar.
Babyfever - Sorry those test are playing up on you. And I hope I don't upset you when I say this, but, if you don't love your current DH and you don't think you ever will, do you think it's fair on him to let him hang around? If you're not UTD now, perhaps you should hold off until you meet someone that you really do love. Do youalready have any children with him? Otherwise you might end up meeting someone down the track and then you might want to have children with them, and then it could end up really messy. I hate coordinating weekends with just one ex and one child. Christmas' and special days would be a nightmare. How old are you if you don't mind me asking? Is your biological clock ticking? Or do you have some years to spare? If you have some years to spare, as hard as it may be at the moment, I would put the bub on hold and wait till everything is sorted out. Please don't be upset by this, I just want you to be happy in the long run.
AFM - Feeling much better today, but still not 100%, so considering I don't often take sick days, I have decided to stay at home and will go back tomorrow. CD2 for me. I am a bit hesitant ... seeing I didn't conceive last month, and that was the month I took progesterone pessaries ... I don't want to mess with my body too much ... but considering 2 MCs in a row, may be it needs messing with a little bit?? I don't know? Do I use the prog pess this month? Do I use B6?? Do I go to the acupuncturist?? Ahhhhhhhhhhh!!!!
Joey- Me and DH have a child together and he has a step child from me. I'm 20 years old will be 21 September 19th (Yes Iam young). My first child which is DH's step daughter her name is Hailey she is 2 years old. Me and DH had been trying 3 years for a child together before she came along, We split up because he needed to finish college (I broke it with him) And he worked night shifts as a security guard at the same time so he was barly ever awake. I also left him because the connection and the feeling weren't there. I was told that I would never be able to have children because of the fact the depo provara. So, When I started dating a guy that I kinda knew in the past I told him I couldn't have any. Well, 1 week before I found out I was pregnant he left me. And well a week later boom I found out I was pregnant & totally wasn't expecting it. He the dad of Hailey ended up getting married to his ex fiancee 1 month after finding out I was pregnant with his child (he was in denial) He never called to ask if the child was okay during pregnancy nothing. I did call when I gave birth because she was almost dying because of her lungs HE came to see her and that was it. When she was 2 months old we did A DNA to prove to him it was his even though his mom knew she was his due to what she looked like everything. After Hailey was about 4 months old We had DH tested SA to see if it was him causing us not to get pregnant (since I got pregnant with HAiley I knew it wasnt me) His SA came back low, And he was told to take fertilty blend One month after him being on that we fell pregnant with our first child ASpen. I became happy with DH like I never have been before. After she was born he started going to work out of state with his new job which he got when I was pregnant. And worked everyother week one week home one week gone. And, he started acting like he never missed me or that his work was more important that his family so that made my happiness shot. I still never felt in love with him. But I was happy once. When I was dating My boyfriend (ex now) He wanted to have a baby with me even though he knew I was probbaly gonna leave him & I told him that I didn't want one because I don't want to put another child in that situation. Well, me and my ex broke up due to he smokes MJ, and immature doesn't know how to handle money lyes. And, Me and DH desided that we were going to try since I'm not going to be with anyone else and dont plan to. I plan on staying right were I'm at. The only reason I got with someone else was because it was an ex of mine from long ago that I still dreamed about and loved more than anything & I fianlyl found him & I though he would had changed after 4 years and he didn't.
Your post did not upset me hunny your just trying to help.
I also, Have HPV that is the 1-4 types that give off cervical cancer. Theres over like 245 types of HPV but only like 4 or 6 are cervical canceris. Also, the woman in my family have hystery of Uterine cancers and cystic fibroids I think thats what there called (and what my grandma had) the youngest was 23 and oldest 30. My mom is been lucky not to have on but she never gets checked out so we dont know if she has any of that or not. shes 40. So, I dont wnat to wait..
Last edited by Babyfever2007; August 21st, 2008 at 09:22 AM.
Joey- I don't know much about Progesterone suppossys, But maybe you could try a Acupunterist there really good on TTC and fertility etc. There will be lots of meds (herbs) to take with it (Depending on what your acupunterist has for you) But it still is good. I'm glad you are feeling better. Hopefully that extra day of rest helped a little.
Babyfever - So sorry that you have HPV. That is so great that you have been able to have kids even though you were told you never would. I love that name Aspen!!! Perhaps you and DH will just live happily ever after as best friends. Are you best friends? Cause ultimately that's all couples are anyway?? Once the initial steamy-ness goes away. It's so great that you have him, and that you are going to councilling. I wish you allllllllllllll the best of luck and I reallllly hope things work out for you both. How are your families? Are they supportive?
Thanks for the positive note on acupuncture. I am starting to second guess every thing now that I have gotten a BFN after trying something different. Perhaps it was just time for a BFN for me? I really do think acupuncture can't hurt.
Joey- I did the post thinking I might had confuesed you a little, But I guess you bet me to posting before i finished editing lol. I think you got the consept. He said he would never want to be friends with me if we split. But right now we are best friends and always have been. My family is very supportive. Thank goodness. Though its been a hard time for my family since my Granddad passed away so I havn't been able to talk to them much. My mom knows that I have had this problem with DH forever, And doesn't understand why I let him get me back. He always smothers me in gifts and everything till I Do. THis time I came back on my own. But my mom knows everything lol. She loves DH more than anything in the family she thinks hes a great guy. Thank you hun with the best of luck wishes. I hope it works too..
I'm sorry you got a BFN you don't deserve it or anyone else that is TTC. I never really though about doing actupunture but I ended up getting into it because my exes dad is an cyroprater and acupunterist so he had me come in since I sever left side cramping which we never found out what caused that but it did go away once he stuck the needle in. And, I got put on like 6 differant pills. And I very much enjoyed it it doesnt hurt its just a quick sting after the pull it out. And if you have POCS or whatevever other problems you have with TTC let them know so they can get the right actupuunter points. And herbs for you. Thanks for adding me on friends list.. I really hope that you get your BFP soon maybe without having to use an acupunter but using them during pregnancy is good too..
How are your families? Are they supportive?
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