Trying to Conceive after Miscarriage or Loss ~ August 2006

Hiya girls,

Lisa no not long to go now YAY and I will pass that on to Naomi I am sure she will love to hear that, and I am hoping with all of my mite that you are not having af cramps I have my fingers and toes and everything crossed for you this month and hope it is a success.

Kelly i just wanted to say Hi and to let you know that my DH has only just accepted my love for BB LOL he was so angry when he found out that I was giong on here, and I think it was more out of fear thatn anything else, he had visions of me chatting to psyco's which is of course so not the way it is, I joined in November last year and now he has met a couple of the girls and knows I am taking to great people so there is no longer a problem although he would not be to happy if he knew how often I was on here as our house work sometimes suffers ( oops shhhh but dont tell him that LMAO ) Welcome to BB and to this thread I know you will find alot of much needed support here and just give DH some time to get use to the idea invite him to take a look around so that he can see it is just full of wonderfull people who offer great advice and friendship. Good luck sweets will chat to you again soon.

and welcome Kate and any other newies I have not said hi to as yet I hope your stay here is short and sweet I wish you all the luck in the world with your TTC journey.

Love to you all I hope you all get a BFP this month I am praying for you all

Hi Girls :)

Belle and Sez Yay for AF arriving :D I hope your cycles are not too battered and you get your BFP asap!!

Kate, Welcome. I hope AF comes for you today so you can get back on the wagon.

Lisa, It ain't over intil AF arrives, you know AF and early pg symptoms are veeery similar!! Hang in there :)

Kelly... Awww poor DH!! He sounds like such a sweety!! My DP doesn't mind me being on here. I think he knows that I need an outlet for all the stuff he doesn't understand. Although I am sure he thinks I am on here waaaaay too much!! (so do I!)

Michelle, I am soooo sorry AF arrived :(

Well I think O is imminent... I thought it was yesterday, but no temp rise... *sigh* I ran out of OPK's and I can't justify spending $20 on 5 of them at the supermarket. If I don't get pg this cycle I will order some more of the web.

TL
Tanya

Tanya, well you just do the bd over the next few days and hope for the best! Are you still following the boy thing?

Ok sorry to bug you gals again, but ive had weird discharge today, lots of all white / clear watery discharge and in the middle of all that I had the tiniest light brown spot on my knickers (sorry if tmi). Ohhh I just wish I knew one way or the other. Got a feeling thats af's way of saying, get ready coz im coming to visit!!

I sure hope she's not Lisa, not real sure what the discharge could be but it may possibly be implantation??? I hope it is.

Thanks Kirsty, I am hoping that its a little implant bleed.. If I O'd on the 6th then timing should be about right for an implant bleed. Its strange as Ive never had such strong symtpoms (ie the really sore and BIG bbs etc) and Ive never really gotten overly concerned with pg symptoms etc.. this month things have been a little wierd. I am having dull aches in the ovaries too atm on both sides. Well I think I might just try and forget about it and hope that this weekend brings a bfp or af. This is certainly the craziest tww ive ever had so cant wait for it to be over one way or the other!

I sure hope it is for you then Lisa. Personally I've never had an implant bleed & with my last pregnancy wouldn't have ever known I was pg until I POAS & got a BFP coz I had no symptoms what-so-ever.

I was the same with my first pg Kirsty, no symptoms whatsoever, I did have bigger bbs that were tender, but I didnt pay attention until a gf saw me and said 'omg look at your bbs are you pg?'. Thanks for that I had to have that little vent - feeling better already :)

Hi Girls,

Lisa, I had to laugh about when your girlfriend saw your BB's and asked if you were pregnant lol they must have got heaps bigger! Mine didnt change size at all (thankfully as i am already a 12E and was frightened i was going to end up somewhere up the other end of the alphabet lol). Not sure about the discharge but if you dont normally get it then i dont think that it can be anything bad...like someone said early prego symptoms can mirror AF on the way...i said when i was waiting for my bfp with Lucy that something should change at implantation so that we knew - like our mouth went blue on the inside or something lol. I am sure that you have to be prego how could you not wearing DH out like that! There is a BFP coming your way so hang in there.

Shell, I hope that you manage to catch that "accident" and you will be looking so hot from all your workouts at the gym that your hubby will be well pleased about a suprise BFP!

Sez, Yay for AF arriving..so you have one more cycle to go before TTC again? You mentioned last night that 5 weeks ago was the last night that you thought you were happily pregnant (or something along those lines) i just wanted to share with you that the night before i found out Katelyn had passed away and i had to be induced i was out buying stuff for her cot and some little outfits etc. So there will always be days that coincide with memories...good and bad. Its hard to think back to how things were though isnt it...i often wonder how different my life would be and i would be if Katelyn had of made it to be with us...She would have been two at the end of this month...just where does the time go. I hope that you have a short cycle this month and then onto getting that BFP ASAP! GL.

Kelly, How is your TWW going? Im really sorry that you have got to go to a funeral of someone that you have known for a long time, i am also sorry that you lost your dad at 17, that must have been incredibly hard. My DH loves BB at times (when i am happy etc) but when i get upset over things that happen to people on here he worries that it makes emotions and everything worse for me (especially since i was on here everyday when pregnant with Lucy and then after i had her i was at home and didnt have a computer until recently) but i have explained to him that even if things on here make me upset that it doesnt actually change the feelings that i have in my heart and it certaintly doesnt make anything worse. In fact i dont know where i would be without all of the support that i received now and in the past. I hope that your DH comes around soon and has a bit of a look. Also Rowan has met a couple of the girls that i used to chat to previously and he really likes them so he knows that we are not a bunch of nutters (although i feel like it sometimes lol). If you got pregnant quickly before then there is no reason for it not to happen for you quickly again. I got pregnant first month with both my girls so here is wishing you a speedy BFP.

Keen, Its sounds as though things are going great for you...i tried to find your other thread but i must be blind, can someone tell me where it is i want to see what Keen is up too! LOL Keen im not stalking you but hoping hoping that there is great news somewhere waiting for me to see!

Belle, Yay on you TTC now its so exciting and i wish you that BFP pronto!! How are you feeling about all that??? Its exciting to start a new journey but daunting at the same time, i am here for you if you want to chat.

Kate, Welcome to our little group (not so little when will some ladies - read Lisa - get lost to PAML!!! We need some BFP's to bring some hope to all of us!) I am really sorry to hear about your losses but you are in the right place here for support. I too have a long cycle (about 34/35 days) and its so annoying because everyone always seems to get to stuff before me....anyway i wish you a speedy BFP when you are ready for it.

Tanya, I am still waiting to O aswell my friend (come on body sending myself positive O thoughts lol) so perhaps we will end up prego on the same day lol you have all girls and i have had two girls so who knows we might both end up with boys! I just want one though i dont care whether its pink or blue! GL for finally Oing and catching that egg!

Well i am getting ****ed at my body for taking so long to bloody O...its driving me mad, i wish that i just had a normal 28 day cycle rather than 34 days....it just seems to go on forever and then i think well once i O then i have the tww....waiting waiting waiting....Mind you i shouldnt be so selfish there are loads of women in here who have been waiting longer than me i just want the BFP's to start flowing!

Love Sarah xx

Hi again all,

Lisa, I've got my fingers crossed for you that it's implant bleed ...

Sez & Belle...Whoo hoo to AF arriving! I don't think I've ever wanted AF to arrive like I do now...lol

Sorry to those who didn't want AF to visit...pack your bags biatch!...lol

Have to split...sorry some drama has just popped up in the office...will try to get back on tonight!

Much love & hugs to you all,

Kate x.

Hi Girls,
Just letting you know that i'm still here. Just haven't posted much lately, but know that i'm thinking of you all and sending you all the babydust and preggie vibes i can muster.

Love you all heaps.:hug:

Just a quick one today. Flu has hit me (too much work with germy people) and I feel like cr@p. AF was sooooo heavy yesterday I felt like I was bleeding to death (sorry - TMI) but today has almost stopped so at least they are still efficient even if I haven't been going to acupuncture. Back on the clomid so fingers crossed for 5th time lucky.

LOL Sarah at the breast increase. I am 14E so I was the same - please don't grow!!! Goodness only knows what letter they could get up to with that head start.

Lisa - wishing you a BFP but if AF shows up I'll be with you for the next round of the journey. Fingers crossed you'll start the flow over to the PAML for us.

:hello: everyone else and I'll chat tomorrow.

Hello Again!

Well I've just returned home from the funeral I had to go to and am feeling a little emotional still. I had forgotten how terribly hard funerals are to get through and it brings back so many emotions from loosing my dad all those years ago. Nevertheless, am glad I was there for my friend - she's doing really well.

Anyway in response to your question Sarah, the tww is going ok. I'm still not sure if I've even O'd as I haven't really tracked anything and since my d&c, I'm all over the shop. I just can't seem to work the whole CM thing out either but lucky DH and I are loving the extra BD'ing so I'll pray that we haven't missed it. I'm just trying not to think about it all too much and will try and wait as long as possible before testing.

I've also just found out that I have to head over to Sydney again next week with work. I can't believe it - I only just got back! Not to worry, I should only be gone for 2 days this time, so all is good.

Well I guess I should try and enjoy the rest of my day off work - might go and lie on the couch for a few hours and wait for DH to get home. Thanks for all your advice in regards to DH aswell, I'm sure I'm over-reacting about it all, am probably just emotional because of my friends dad and reading too much into it but will ensure I have a good talk to him tonight and make sure he's ok with it all. I just need him to understand that I'm not telling you guys anything that I don't already talk to him about anyway!!! I'm worried he thinks I'm keeping things from him. Poor darling!

Lots of love and *babydust* to you all. Talk soon.

Hi girls, sorry, no personals tonight. It's way too late for me. My little brother just got back from tour, he's been away for 12 weeks, so we had family dinner tonight to catch up with him. Very happy to see my little bro again!

Thanks for all the congrats on af arriving! Never thought I could be so happy about it! Really starting to get excited about ttc again.

Thinking of all of you, even if I haven't got the energy to sit here and type it all out!

BTW, if my DH knew how much time I REALLY spent on here, he would think I'm crazy!!! I think I'm addicted now! I know, I know, I was warned!

Hi Girls :D

Finally got my temp rise!! I still think I O'd Monday. Have you have heard of the method of sitting on a hard surface and feeling a pain in your lower ab, meaning you are about to O. Well I bounced up and down on a chair on monday and it was veeery painful!! Plus the ewcm I had yesterday was a bit scant. Whereas the day before it felt like I had wet myself. Oh well... I just hope the job has been done. ;)

Sez, what does you Bro do?

Kell, sorry to hear about your friend dad... just awful!!

Michelle, so sorry you have been hit with a bout of the flu!! I hope it passes quickly.

Kate, how did the drama's in the office pan out? Nothing too serious I hope.

Sarah, what cycle day are you up to? Any signs of it arriving any time soon?

Lisa, I hope it was implantation stopping!! any more signs!!

Well it is my brothers birthday today, he would have been 28 today :( He passed away in 1999.

I have to go and buy some gifts. We have a Japanese high school student coming to stay for a week tomorrow.

TL

Tanya

Morning all,

I hope everyone is ok today and that the AF pains (for those that have them) aren't that bad. I have some good news....AF has arrived!! WooHOO!!!!:p I did a step class at the gym last night so it must have been all the jumping around that I did. Now I'm back in the game..lol...I don't think I've ever been so happy to see the old girl

Kelly, hugs ... I know funerals drain you...so sorry for the loss. On the upside you could come and have lunch with some of us Sydney gals if you're going to be in the city...and we could organise a bit of a meet up...

Sez, how exciting to have your little bro back. Where has he been on tour?

Michelle - sorry for the flu...that sux. All the germ infested people should stay home. There's a couple in our office too.

It's a funny thing about boobies...lol...my girls don't need to get any bigger...they enter the room before I do...I hope nobody's grow too big...too quick...lol

Right I'm off...got work to do...*sigh*

luv & hugs,

Kate x.

Hello my sweets..

Well my dreams of a baby this month gone out the window! Af arrived in all her glory this morning :angry: I am disappointed but I am so angry with my body - normally I get some soreness and fullness in bbs a few days before af, but then they disappear just before af hits. Well I still have sore and full bbs and af arrived, not usual for me, but I guess its one of those things.

I bit the bullet and made an appt to see a 'natural' fertility woman, who has helped a few ppl I know achieve pg, given I only have one tube I need all the help I can get! My appt is on the 23rd.

Michelle - we gotta get outta here woman! I think our cycles are almost back in sync again, I hope its all part of the grand plan to make us belly buddies.

Sarah - IKWYM about your body behaving badly! Hopefully you will be able to pinpoint O time and send the troopers in get that egg!

Sez - im sure its so great to have your brother home. I know when my brother was away for 6 months I couldnt wait to see him, I cried and cried when I saw him at the airport!

Kelly - im sorry about your friends father. Im sure your friend really appreciates your support and being there for her. I hope your feeling better too. DH will soon realise what a great support network you have here and will embrace bb and leave any 'unsure' feelings behind.

Kate - thanks for your well wishes, but as you can see af arrived (argghh she is such a cow!). How are you doing matey? Did all the drama in the office get sorted?

Keen - matey looks like your in the lead in getting over to PAML this month, we need to have someone graduate, Im really hoping and praying you get your bfp this month. How are you feeling?

Belle - yipeee for you sweets, I cant wait for you to announce a bfp very soon. So have you got a ttc action plan or will you just bd the nights away and hope for the best? Good luck missy.

Tanya - have you O'd yet?? I wish you loads of luck for the upcoming bd fest - sending you loads of baby dust and 'boy' vibes...

I hope I havent missed anyone :)



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Gooooood morning ladies!

Kate, welcome to the group! I was hoping you would join us when you felt ready. You couldn't find a lovelier bunch of ladies to share the TTC journey with :grouphug: Here's hoping that AF arrives for you very soon so you can start TTC again!

Kelly, it's great that your DH is coming around to you being on BB. If you keep the communication going I'm sure everything will be just fine. Wow, you sure do a lot of travelling for work! Do you love it or do you get tired of it after a while?

Tanya, the supermarket OPK's are expensive huh? I just ordered 20 from Fertility Naturopath for about $20...and it comes with two HPT's too. Hopefully you will catch the egg this cycle and won't need to buy anymore OPK's!

Lisa, honey I think your symptoms sound GREAT! My bb's grew an unbelievable amount long before I even got a BFP. I had an implantation bleed at 12DPO too, so I'm hoping that that's what you've had! Are you going to test??? :pray:

Kirsty, I hope you're well sweetie!

Sarah, are you still waiting to O? It must be frustrating having long cycles, especially because it makes the waiting seem so much longer! I'm feeling really positive about TTC again. It's funny but I'm actually REALLY excited about it! I think I'm even more excited about it than last time! LOL

Shan, we've all missed you sweetie! How are you going? Please come back in and say hello when you have time. We're all thinking of you too :hug:

Michelle, you poor dear! I'm so sorry to hear that you're battling the flu AND AF is being nasty to you. I'm sure it'll be 5th time lucky for you, honey.

Sez, it's funny how excited we both are about AF arriving huh! LOL I was almost as excited when I got a BFN after my D&C. Who would have thought I'd ever be celebrating about getting AF and a BFN?! LOL Let's hope that we both have normal cycles from here on in!

I'm just waiting to O. Hopefully my OPK's will arrive today so I can start using them. DH said to me last night that we're going to BD every single night this month. LOL Gotta love a man who's as enthusiastic about making babies as I am! :D

He's been spoiling me rotten lately. He bought me an iPod Nano last week with a gorgeous pink leather case so I have something to listen to on the train every day. He told me this morning that he bought me two pairs of strappy sexy shoes from Victoria's Secret which should be delivered by the end of the week. AND he's flying me to the Gold Coast for the weekend (gotta love being married to a pilot!) Now tell me I'm not the luckiest girl in the world?! LOL *sighs*

Love & babydust
Belle
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Lisa so sorry that AF has arrived for you, & feel free to vent away any time you like. That is what we are here for to help you through this often frustrating TTC Journey.

Can I jump on the Ecup boobies line?? I am so hoping that when I am pg next they so don't get any bigger.

Huge hi's to everyone else, I am still here lurking mainly & popping occasionally. We are now on a countdown to our specialist appt, only 20 more sleeps to go. And just 5 more sleeps until my little man's 4th birthday.

Lisa, we posted at the same time. I'm so so sorry, sweetie. I really thought that you'd done it this month :crying: I hope that the natural fertility woman can help you out. Does she use herbs or acupuncture? I had a girlfriend who'd been trying for 4 years to fall pregnant. She went an saw a naturopath and was pregnant 3 months later. I've heard so many great stories like that...these people seem to create miracles! Go and spoil yourself today, honey ;)

Tanya, yay for the temp rise! I hope you caught the egg, honey!

Kate, WOO HOO for AF arriving! Now you need to get a ticker so we can keep track of your cycles! LOL I hope that AF is kind to you this month. Are you going to chart, use OPK's, etc or just go with the flow?

Have a great day everyone!

Love & babydust
Belle
-xxxooo-

Looks like a few of us posted at the same time!!

Tanya - oohh I hope you did the trick missy, sounds like you O'd nicely this month!

Belle- thanks hun for your sweet words. OMG how spoiled are you?? Enjoy it and you have to show us those shoes!! I love shoes. Good luck sweety, hope the OPK's arrive in time and you have great success.

Thanks Kirsty, looks like we will be on the ttc train together after all!! Hoping you dont stay long though (I mean that in a good way :))

As for the bbs, well blessed are those with big hooters, but ive always had little apples, since my loss last year they have grown susbtantially, and heres to them getting even bigger when I do get pg!! I'll be wearing the lowest cut tops etc when Im pg! Im going to be one of those slu**y mummy's hehehehe.. when youve never had big bbs, you make the most of it when they do grow a little!

LOL Lisa...you make me laugh...slu**y mummy...:p ...that';s the spirit...get the girls out to play!

You guys *frown* I can't keep up in here :) there's far too much going on for my brain to handle. ha ha ha ha...

Well, yesterdays office drama hasn't gone away...somehow I've gotten dragged into it and have a meeting with a HR person this afternoon. I'd like to know whatever it is that I've done...bloody women...none of them in here are acting like professionals...more like a bunch of girls in a high school playground! I'm hoping to play Switzerland in this....

Lisa, I'm so sorry that AF has arrived. I've organised to have her beaten up for you.

Belle, I'm charting...doing everything I can to make it work this month. Day one and my temp is 36.5...have to do the chart tonight when I get home as we don't have access here. And I'm glad I came to visit with you guys, I'm getting comfortable with the whole process now.

Sorry to all that I've missed...I'm really really trying to keep up.

Hoep you're all having a good day,

Kate x.

Kate - thanks hun. PMSL at beating up af for me! You go for it girl! I hope everything settles down at work and things get resolved without too much hassle. I hope all your charting etc pays off with a bfp! Im glad you feel comfortable here, and dont worry you will get your head around everyone soon enough, it takes a little while. I was a confused chicken too when I first started, but there weren't this many of us then.

Really gals, we need bfp's in here....we need to clear this thread!!

Oh BTW my fertility woman called and had a cancellation and Im going there today, she is in the city and around the cnr from my office! Yippee - hopefully she can give me some herbs etc to start me off given its day 1 of my cycle. She does herbal tonics and accupuncture (I know someone asked me this - but dont remember who)

Thanx Belle :)
Your DH sounds like a real sweety!!

Lisa, I am sooooo sorry Af turned up!! Nasty beast!! I am glad you got in to see the fertility lady.

Kate, so glad you are able to start over. I hope AF is kind.

Tanya

Hello Everyone!!

Wow, I really am having trouble keeping up. Just when I thought I'd worked it all out!! It's fantastic though, what an amazing group. Thanks so much for all your kind words and nice thoughts - I'm feeling much better today and just found out that I don't have to go to Sydney again next week afterall - yippie!! :)

Tanya - I'm so sorry to hear about your brother - bithdays are so difficult when you've lost someone! I hope you get through the day ok - I'm thinking of you! I also hope the tww isn't too bad for you!! Good luck with the visiting students!

Kate - Thanks for suggesting the catch-up, it would have been great to meet you but I am releaved that my trip has been cancelled, I hate being away from DH.

Lisa - I'm so sorry that af arrived :( and hope you're appointment goes well - let us know?

Belle - Lol - you make me laugh but it's so great to hear you sounding so positive (and great to hear DH is spoiling you and as enthusiastic as you are!!) Enjoy the trip to the Gold Coast!! As for me, I really don't have to travel much with work, it just seems to sound that way at the moment, so I can't complain!

I'm afriad I have to cut this post short as I have to go into a meeting, so sorry to those of you that I haven't included. It's so hard to do this at work!!!

Take care and to everyone with the big bbs - send some my way - I can't wait to fall pg and get some cleavage happening!!!! :p

Lisa best of luck with your appt. I went to a naturopath when we were TTC with James & were in our 2nd year of TTC after going to OB's & using clomid. I fell pg after 10mths with her & I think she cried as much as I did when I went & announced it to her. I'd seriously consider going back to her but she moved to Melbourne (boohoo)

Kirsty - Im a believer of trying everything! I know many people that have had success this way so I figure it wont hurt, and im wrapt and getting an appt today! I will let you guys know how I go (but might not be able to get back on until tomorrow am). One of my close friends went to her and was pg on the 4th month after ttc'ing for two years. A bit of foul tasting herbs and accupuncture wont kill me I suppose. Im looking forward to it, I know its only been 8 months since our loss but given I only have one tube I want to make the most of my chances with the good side iykwim?

Thanks gals for your support, hope you all have a lovely arvo.

I so know what you mean. I took yucky smelling liquid herbs twice a day plus ones that looked like ball bearings once a day & had acupuncture once a fortnite & as far as I'm concerned it worked & that is all that matters to me. Wishing you every success Lisa.

Pleased I am not the only nutter taking herbs and having acupuncture. And Lisa - they don't taste that bad ... really!!! Well, mine don't. And they worked last time. The best part about acupuncture this time is the efficiency of AF. Almost bled to death on Monday (sorry for TMI) but they have now gone which is fabulous!!!! So they are really over in 2 days. Gotta be happy with that.

Still feeling fluey and trying to keep up with all the chatter - my goodness we need to clear the shelves in here (in the nicest possible way of course :) I'll be back later to hopefully catch up and do personals. :hello:

Hi Everyone...

Lisa - I'm so sorry to hear that AF arrived for you. I really thought that this was your month. Oh Well..onwards and upwards i say. Good luck with this cycle hun..:hug:

Kelly - Yay that you don't have to go to Sydney.

Kate - I hope your little work problem gets sorted out soon. I used to work in a place that was all women, and i was the youngest, and boy, i tell you what, sometimes i even thought i was the mature one when it came down to these women. Always fighting amongst themselves etc. It was horrible...GL.

Belle - I'm doing okay thanks. Just plodding along. Not sure when we are going to start actively TTC yet. Dh's job will be finishing up soon thanks to the lack of snow, so we'll see where life takes us from there. He's applied for a job in Melb, so that might see us heading down south a bit...we'll see what happens. Glad to hear that your DH is spoiling me rotten. You thoroughly deserve it.xxx

Tanya - Happy Birthday for your Brother. Do you and your family do anything special to mark the occasion? Sorry if that seems a bit abrupt. You don't have to answer me if you don't want to....big hugs sweety...:hug:

Big hello to everyone else, and wishing you all lots of luck for your current cycles...xxx

Okay ladies, we really need some of you to get lost, quick smart! Straight into PAML , of course! It hasn't been 24 hours since my last post, and it has taken me ages to read through everything (and I'm a fast reader!). I can't even remember what everyone said! Here goes....

To those who asked, my brother is a muso, he has been on tour in the UK, Europe and Japan. He was with two different bands at different stages, and a bit of a hol as well. I'm v. jealous, it sounds like he had an awesome time!

Tanya, I'm really sorry to hear about your brother. I hope you have special memories today. :hug: Bouncing on a chair? PMSL I'll have to try that one sometime! Really hope you caught the eggie.

Kate, how good is it when af arrives? I'm so happy for you! :dance:

Lisa, I am so so sorry that af arrived. :hug: On the up side, that's great that you got into the naturopath so soon! I've heard so many good stories about natural treatments, I'm sure it will help you get that sticky BFP !

Belle, I've never been happier to see af! Even when it was pouring out of me this morning (sorry for TMI!) I was smiling. Crazy girl! Our cycles might be a bit in sync now, I really hope that we announce our BFPs close together. I remember you posting your BFP when I was still lurking, and I followed your journey. I was so upset for you when I read of your mc, the same day I had mine. Good days are coming sweetie! (A pilot? I am jealous!)

Not long to go now Kirsty! Counting down with you. I hope your little boy has a great birthday.

Michelle, I'm so pleased af has ****ed off. I'm sure you are too!

Shan, it's nice to see you in here. Would you be happy about coming to live in sunny Melb? (It really is at the moment!)

BTW, I feel a bit alone! :( I have very small bbs, I was very disappointed when they did NOTHING while I was pg. Here's hoping for next time.......I wanna be a ****ty mummy too Lisa!

Lisa - so sorry to hear AF showed - gawd I just hate her and all her evilness. Why cant she leave us all alone? Hope your appt went well - hope she can bring you your miracle. As for me I am feeling plenty of pg symptoms this cycle, in particular the sore bbs and tiredness, but am sure it is just my body messing with my head.... again.

Belle - you got yourself a hell of a man there sweetie. I really hope you guys can do it quickly again (with all the bding you'll be doing - Im sure you will!)..

Kirsty - 20 sleeps aint long, sweetie! And Holy Moly on James turning 4!


Bring on lots of BFPs so we can all be big boobed sl**ty Mummies!!

:crossfingers: for you Keen! We'll have to start a new thread.......****ty mummies! :p

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Shan, it's nice to see you in here. Would you be happy about coming to live in sunny Melb? (It really is at the moment!)

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Sez - I was born in Melb but moved to the country when i was 8, so i'm a country girl at heart, but DH and I spent 3 years on Melbs, and i absolutely hated it, but where we are looking is right out in the outskirts, so still a bit of country, so it shouldn't be too bad. DH would be based at Tullamarine, so about 1/2 out from there, and then at least i'll only be a few hours from here. Last time we lived in Glen Waverley, and it was way too busy for me...i like the quiet life...even though i do miss the beach fishing. :p

Hey Shan, I am in NE Vic too :D I'm in Shepp.
We don't do anything for my brothers birthday... I suppose we should. Bit slack of me really!

Keen, I have everything crossed for you!!

Kell thanx for the good luck this cycle.

I agree there needs to be a clean out in here... the BFP's are to few and far between!!

Not much going on here, getting the house tidied ready for our Japanese guest. I went and bought a Japanese/english dictionary, jic.
I had an awful night with the girls... I was sooo tired last night too, so it was really something I could have done with out. I ended up with Violet in my bed (Wato is on Night shift) because I was just to tired to keep getting up to her.

TL
Tanya

Good morning everyone!

My oh my, we certainly have a full house don't we! I agree with Sez, we seriously need some BFP's soon! Come on girls, who's going to be next to graduate to PAML??!!

Lisa, how did your appointment go yesterday, sweets? I hope you're on a plan of action now. And I'm sure you'll agree that it wouldn't matter how awful the herbs taste if they help you fall pregnant! I was PMSL over your sl*tty mummy comment! :cryinglaugh: You are just too funny!

Kirsty, that's great that you only have 19 sleeps to go now! I bet you can't believe that your gorgeous little man is turning 4 in a few days!

Kate, I hope thing were sorted out in your office yesterday. I work for a sole practitioner (lawyer) so fortunately I don't have to put up with any office politics. Well you're in with a great shot this month if you're charting and using OPK's, honey. I'm doing the same! We've got to give ourselves the best possible chance, right? ;)

Kelly, YAY for your trip to Sydney being cancelled! It must be hard for you to be away from your DH when you have to travel for work...especially when you're TTC!

Michelle, I hope you're looking after yourself and taking plenty of vitamin C to get over this nasty flu! I'm still recovering from it...it's certainly a nasty strain going around this year. WOW @ having a 2-day long AF!!! That's excellent! Mine's usually 7 days long *boo hiss*

Shan, glad to hear you're doing well, honey. Whereabouts are you living at the moment? I'm from Melbourne originally but moved to Sydney when I was 17. I still have family down there so I visit at least once or twice a year. I'm sure that you'll be ready and raring to go when you start actively TTC again after having a nice break. Are you charting or anything at the moment to keep track of what your cycles are doing?

Sez, it sounds like your bro has an awesome job...I bet he loves it! Yup, I was over the moon when AF arrived too LOL And yes, we're almost cycle buddies! Here's hoping that we announce BFP's together, honey!!

Keen, I had another look at your chart and I must say, it looks FANTASTIC! When are you going to test, sweetie?? Those symptoms sound excellent too. Please please PLEASE let it be your month!!! :pray:

I was sitting here cracking up over everyone's bb's comments! LOL Mine are already a size 12D and I couldn't believe how much more they grew when I fell pregnant. I got out of bed one morning and almost tripped over them! LOL I'm actually a little scared about how they're going to look after having a bub and breastfeeding, etc...I'll go from having nice pert bb's to things that resemble two deflated balloons! :p Eh, but what does it matter in the scheme of things. I'd cut them off to be able to have bubbas!

Have a fabulous day lovelies!

Love & babydust
Belle
-xxxooo-

Morning all

Hope we are all feeling well and ready to start the day with boundless enthusiasm!...Cripes...where did that come from?! I'm in my lovely little office, not being spoken to by an immature woman in her 40's...but you know, I don't care...oh, and after the dramas, I got called into a managers office and warned. Apparently I called someone a loser...of course I told her it was all fabrication and lies b/c anyone who knows me knows that I wouldn't call someone a loser....maybe d*ckhead or F***wit :p but not loser...that's so 20th century! Anyway...I don't care, they are all bloody immature anyway.

So when are we starting up the sl*tty mummies thread? How about when we get some BFP's and we can kick some people out of here :p

I can't keep up with all the personal's so I'm going to do a group congrats/commiserations/pats on back etc for everyone. Please don't hate me:rolleyes: for that...I'm just a simple girl...ha ha ha ha...

Hope you all have a fantastic day,

Luv & hugs,

Kate x.

Belle - LMAO at the image of you tripping over your huge bbs!! :cryinglaugh:

Hi Girls,

Wow i have actually had to make notes to make sure that i can remember what everyone said so sorry if i miss anyone!! We HAVE to get some BFP's soon hey!

Lisa, I am so sorry that AF arrived i am in total shock! I was sure that this was your month...How are you doing with it all? Do you think you O'd from your good tube this month? One of my best friends had an ectopic and lost a tube. It took her 9 months to fall pregnant with her next baby and then one month with her second baby (who is 3 days younger than Lucy) so it HAS to be just around the corner. I know this probably doesnt help you at the moment because you must be extremely frustrated. I am dying to know how your appointment went, i am really interested in what you and Michelle have said because i have 34 day cycles and 6 day AF. LOL about being a ****ty mummy too!

Kate, Yay on AF arriving, I cant believe you got accused of calling someone a loser when you didnt....how annoying and immature of the girls you work with....honestly sometimes its worse than high school. One of my best friends (not the one mentioned above) has just started talking to me again after 7 months and not inviting me to her wedding because i sold our house through and agent that wasnt her mum - how crap is that we were so close and had known each other since we were 12 also i didnt intend not to go through her mum we just had 24 hours to do something including flying to Adelaide with Lucy for the first time so it was all very very stressful. Anyway my point was that some women can act like schoolgirls! I hope it all resolves soon without you being implicated further.

Shan, Glad to see you popping in and i hope your DH gets the job if thats what you want.

Kirsty, How are you going? Getting close to your appointment now, sending you positive vibes!

Michelle, I hope that you are feeling better from the flu and gearing up to bed this cycle! Bring on that BFP for you...i cant wait!

Kelly, Thats great that you dont have to go to Sydney now, how are you doing?

Sez, Sounds like you had a good catch up with your Bro? Are you guys close?

Tanya, Bummer about a bad night with Violet, she is only 20 days younger than Lucy so they are very close in age. I hope she sleeps better for you tonight. GL with the Japanese student! Hope your tww goes quickly and gets you that BFP. I am sorry about your brother too, it must be very difficult.

Belle, You are a spoilt girl! Wishing you all the luck in the world this cycle, have you used OPK's before? LOL about your hubby suggesting you do it everynight! My hubby changed his mind about that too and wanted to go down that route (so to speak) rather than the if we catch it we catch it but he still doesnt want to know anything!

Keen, Oh i am so hoping that this month will bring you that happy healthy baby you deserve, it sounds great with your symptoms, how are you feeling?

Me - Well i think that i finally O'd today (judging on my bodies symptoms), its CD21 - thankfully i guess i am now officially in the tww.....wishing away the next two weeks! Bring on BFP's for ALL of us!

Love Sarah xx

Geepers creepers, how busy have you all been in here the last two days!!!

Lisa - Hun, I'm sooooooo sorry that AF crashed your body. I was sooo thinking that this was your month and I'm very, very disappointed in Mother Nature. Surely she would have taken the hint that she's not wanted? BOL with the fertility lady. I'm dying to know how it went. I can't wait to hear what she's got in store for you!!!

Sarah - Oh yay, you're getting NAKED tonight! Woo hoo! At least I know somebody is getting some loving! You go grab your man matey!

Belle - Oh yes, I have been in hysterics about the bb comments too. Mine are a 14d and DH reckons they're getting bigger, I wouldn't really say bigger, but maybe fuller if that makes sense? I was a bit jacked off this morning because my nips are spreading and getting darker! Aaarrrggghhhh. For a woman who doesn't have much confidence in her bb's, that certainly hasn't helped!

Tanya - Don't you hate it when the children have a bad night's sleep! It's like you've had something stolen from you! I sometimes put Jess in bed with me so I don't have to go backwards and forwards all night long. She doesn't play up often but when she does she does it good!!

Keen - Looks like your next in line sweetness. No pressure!

Michelle - Lets hope it's round 5 that works for you with the Clomid. I'm still devastated that you got AF, I really thought it was your turn! I will get my angel to tell Caitlyn to pull her finger out and pick somebody for you!!!!

Me - I'm 10w tomorrow! WOO HOO! I'm having the 10w BT on Monday and then I book in for my scan for 12w. The morning sickness has been easing off but I have the headcold now and I can't take anything for it. I ordered a doppler today to use to reassure me that bubs heart is still beating. I should get that early next week. That's exciting, but Alan is not very impressed. He thinks it'll cause me more stress if I don't find the hb all the time. Oh well, too late now though! LOL. Just waiting for Jessica to wake up so we can go for a walk in the sunshine. It's been raining constantly in Perth and I'm over it! We're not used to that here!

Love to you all!

PS _ Two more ladies have vacated the PAML forum, so come on girls! GET NAKED! LOL.