hi ladies, yes ttc can put the best relationships to the test!! Still no AF so not sure whats going on, if shes not back next monday ill go do a test.
Hope to have an october baby/ies would be lovely
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hi ladies, yes ttc can put the best relationships to the test!! Still no AF so not sure whats going on, if shes not back next monday ill go do a test.
Hope to have an october baby/ies would be lovely
Still here, just wishing AF would just leave me! Onto day 6 of it but the 5th day of it being heavy/medium flow...
I was told by a friend that to much exercise can stop you from ovulating, do any of you girls know this is true or not? I'm going to google it lol!!
Shan I hope you have a nice BFP waiting for you :)
hi all, melstar-glad bubs is okay...alish-all the best...mummytotwo &mummydeb-sorry af arrived...cko8 & shan85-have you tested again yet?..jessicarabe-everyone different but i think my first af was about a month after bleeding from loss stopped. ..afm-af arrived ,so i'm on track now for a frozen embryo transfer cycle,1st blood test is the 27th,so fingers crossed my hormone levels behave & my little embie thaws okay & then sticks like glue
Hello ladies,
It has been quiet in here. Hope everyone is doing ok.
Matthew's Mum.. GOOD LUCK on the embryo transfer. Hope all goes according to plan.
MummyDeb.. sorry to hear AF is being her usual nasty self. Hope she leaves asap. Good luck for this month!
Shan85.. have you tested?? Hanging out to hear... FX!!
Everyone else.. hope you all are good. And getting ready to test soon!!! Surely we are all due for some good news...
AFM.. im on day 38 I think since my M/C. Im sure ive had a "normal" cycle. Im sure I should be expecting AF.. but had long cycles before falling preggers with my Angel. So kinda in limbo land. It could be too early to test.. it could be tomorrow I get AF. With all three pregnancies.. I found out the same way. Spotting. Thinking I had AF coming.. then it went away in 24 hours. So im playing it safe.. and waiting for that "sign". But then my mind says.. "i may not get that sign.. cause you WHERE preggers! Body isn't doing the usual IYKWIM." AAARRGHHH I need to shut that mind up really. Chocolate anyone???
Hi ladies. Yes, very quiet in here. Must be all out dtd. lol
Yes, I tested. It was a BFP. I thought I would be happy because of how disappointing the past few months have been, but it turns out I'm terrified and a little in disbelief. I had a blood test to confirm, and I'm going to have another on Thursday to see if levels are rising at a normal rate. I think if the next test is good I might relax a little, but for the past couple of days I've been crazily running to check my panties every hour to see if there is any bleeding. *sigh* I know that stressing out is not going to help the situation, but I can't help myself. I need to find a way to relax. I just can't believe I'm pg again.
A HUGE congrats ck, wonderful news and many happy sticky vibes to you.
AFM- No still havent tested as im poor til monday so i have to wait til then. AF still isnt here but im not hopeful. Been very stressed due to clinical placement. CANT WAIT til FRIDAY!!
ck08-congratulations!it must be scary but try to focus on the positive stories out there,there is a thread called pregnancy after loss where you will find lovely ladies ....shan85-fingers crossed for friday...tascha-how long will you wait to test?..hi to everyone
Congratulations ck08 :) so very happy for you and I hope your next test comes back even better... You give me hope :)
Shan I hope when you can test its another lovely BFP :)
AFM still going along... Finally got some BD in last night hehe after AF finally left me alone!! Now the wait until Ovulation...But this time will make sure I time it better! Pretty sure I missed O last month... Won't stop DTD until I'm way past CD20 lol
Matthew's Mum.. Im very tempted to test now. But really not expecting a BFP. I think I just need to confirm that. But would rather not spend the money... and get AF instead. *sign*
CONGRATS CK08!!!!! Hope you can relax and start to enjoy being UTD soon. HUGS!!
congrats CK08 - fab news. Sticky vibes heading your way :)
Any chance I can join in here?
I'm currently in the TTC 1-6 month thread but am feeling rather ignored in there.
We had a loss in Jun '07 @ 7 weeks and have only just (in the middle of last cycle) decided to start TTC #2
Welcome Dark Dreamer - lets hope you dont have to hang around in here too long!!
Hi to everyone else - bbl for persies x
Hello Dark Dreamer... Hope to see you here for a short but sweet time.
Hello Everyone else!! Sorry no time for perssies... 2 kids screaming for me... EEEK
Just wanted to give my update..
Tested today mid morning... BFN... still nothing regarding AF... Still confused what my cycle is doing. Day 44 today I think.
Anyway... time to find out what my kids want.
HUGS
Thanks for the welcome ladies :D
I'm hoping to not be in here too long too :)
I'm on CD10 and AF is STILL here, I've never had it this long before and it doesn't seem to look like it'll be easing up :(
Tascha- I've heard that average is 4 to 6 weeks for AF to return after mc. You're either on the long end of that, or maybe you have a BFP coming your way soon! People have fallen pg in their first cycle after mc before.
Dark dreamer- welcome. The other thread moves too fast to keep up with everyone. Hope you have a short stay in here.
AFM- had my BT and my levels doubled like normal. One more on Monday and then u/s on Friday to see if bub implanted right. It's scary but exciting. Still stalking you ladies and hoping for more BFPs soon.
afternoon ladies, well still no AF so iv started back on the herbs again so will see. Doesnt look like iv o'ed this month so im seeing the gyno first thing thursday morning to get clomid as he said he would be happy for me to go on them so we r hoping within the next 3-4 months ill get my own BFP. guess i just need to play it by ear once on the clomid. Iv warned DH about the mood swings etc lol
Well im off to water aerobics soon to move some more fat off me lol
hi everyone, shan85-good luck with the clomid,i didn't find the side effects to bad.have you been on it before?...tascha-sorry it was a bfn...ck08-good news about your levels...darkdreamer-welcome,sorry for your loss...joeve-how are you?..mummydeb & mummytotwo-conserving your energy for the b'd fest?...afm-had acupuncture on sat to help with hormone levels,blood tests to track 'o' start on the 27th..l
lol yes Matthews Mum, we are saving energy for the big BD fest hehe, already started lol... Don't want to miss O this month!!
Shan Good luck with Clomid, I really hope it doesn't take long for you to fall preg
Tascha Sorry about the BFN, I'm sure AF will be here soon
ck08 Great news hun :)
Darkdreamer Welcome hun, I hope your stay is a short one and so sorry for your loss :( I still think about my little angel to this day!
AFM Not much going on here, just enjoying my freedom now I have my licence! Its so good just going out and not having to ask someone to take me! O isn't that far away now, i think if we just try and BD every night or every 2nd night we should be fine until early Feb hehe!!
mummydeb-i bet dh is loving your plan.they say it is good to b'd a couple of days before "o" to get rid of old sperm & make room for some fresh little swimmers,so it sounds like you have that covered...hi to everyone,how are you all doing this morning?
Iv never been on clomid so will hopefully work well for me. Well its coming up to the twins "ment to be" birth date so we r both feeling rather down :(
oh well hopefully it all works out for the BFP
shan-thinking of you as your edd nears,like so many of the days,it's a hard one.Sometimes the lead up to the day is actually harder than the day.I found doing memorial things on the day helped me,but everyone is different,lots of hugs.We're here if you ever want to type...
Sorry I've not been in much - I've had a few busy days with work and doctors and physio appts. Hurt my knee at work on Saturday night and Monday morning, sent to the work drs and now off for workers comp
lol DF isn't complaining!! I'm really enjoying sex with him atm... Sometimes it feels like a chore...but for once I'm actually looking forward to it, hoping having a more positive feel about it will help us make a baby!!
Dark Dreamer: Thats no good you hurt your knee, hope it all gets sorted out with workers comp
Shan: Big hugs for you and your DH... must be so hard with EDD coming up...for me that won't be till June... but most days I think about it... I hope you can do something that will help you heal a bit more xoxo
darkdreamer-hope your knee heals well & it doesn't interfer with b'ding...mummydeb-it's good when we enjoy the egg hunt...afm-blood tests started today,so when they show the 'o' levels needed for transfer,i'll have a date of when they'll thaw one of my frozen embies...hi everyone
well my gyno appointment was yesterday. He has done a blood test to see if i ovulated the other month. He is starting me on 50mg on day 5-9 so just waiting for AF to come. Im so late but sore boobies today (lol) so she should show her ugly head in a day or 2. If nothing by monday ill get AF induced.
On a non-baby note, I got a new job today :D start monday so it will be my first job after my twins were conceved.
Love to all and TGIF!!
Thanks ladies :)
Shan, congrats on the new job :)
:hello: ladies :)
AF is almost gone - just got the last two days of spotting - 16 days for AF is long enough! I need to stay away from Google too :(
Hey girls
Shan, congrats on the job!! I hope AF comes soon so you can start on the clomid... Good luck hun, i really hope you only need it for 1 month!
Dark Dreamer, wow 16 days is long!! I hope you can catch the egg this cycle :)
AFM: Giving everything a good shot this month! DF and I were very busy last night and this morning hehe!! I'm either ovulating today going by a 31 day cycle or tomorrow, either way I think we have it covered!! Had 2 nights break in between the last lot of BD hehe...
Lots of :bluedust: and hope we get alot more :bfp: :)
well ladies this time last year i was in my beautful wedding gown cooling my heals as i wanted to marry my man already. Been very spoilt today and coz its so bloody hot here in melbourne we went to the beach this morning so my guess is plenty of BDing tonight lol
Im starting to wonder if i utd, still no AF and im still taking the herbs. might go see my gp tomorrow after work.
Good to see im not the only one doing the deed all the time mummy deb lol
Shan - congrats on the new job - what will you be doing? ? Yay on the FS appt too & the clomid coming up - lets hope it works wonders for you!
DD - wow that is a long af. Lets hope something good comes from it? Whatcha been googling?????? Hows the knee btw?
MummyDeb - glad to see someone enjoys the bd fest - thb I find having to do it more than once a week a bit of a chore :)
I am about 5 dpo I would think & feeling neutral about this cycle really.
How is everyone else faring? BBL for persies x
Hi ladies. Well I had a bfp on an Internet cheapy and now- gone... The doc thinking early miscarriage/chemical pregnancy.
:( waiting on bloods to confirm.
Also had another pg loss 4 years ago in June.
Don't know how much more of this I can take!!
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sorry to here melz
im doing pca work at a nursing home so while im studing i can be working and ttc too lol
got an appointment wednesday for the gp to do a preg test and if BFN then ill get AF injuced. I thought it was gunna be normal now and its not so im a bit upset about that :(
Morning again ladies. Hope ur all well...
Well I spoke to DH and we have decided to try straight away... So cycle number 5!! Let's hope it's a lucky one!!
The differences are going to be-
*no temping
*no charting
*not really obsessing about cm... (easier said than done - trust me!)
*not using opk's (or using minimal when and if I get o pains!)
*use of preseed when I am in my fertile time. (cd11 to cd17)
*chatting with the doctor about my cd21 tests every month. (he's agreed to do then if I like!) I think this is a better idea as I won't pull out the hpts if I know I haven't ovulated!
So that's my plan. Let's see if I can stick to it and see if I can get a sticky bubs out of it
Thanks ladies for being here xx
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Hey All, I've just read a whole lot of posts, but thought I'd join in - otherwise I'd just feel like a stalker. :o
I've just got back on here since a miscarriage on New Years Day. :cry: We knew we were losing the baby NYE when a scan showed a baby 6weeks gestation (I was 8.5...) I feel like I shouldn't be as sad as I am because it took us 12 months with assisted conception to get pregnant the first time (and wound up getting utd with a naturopath while the clinic was closed!) and I'd only had 1 period since his birth - not until he was 13 months old! So here we are after the m/c and I can't help but hope we get pregnant soon. It seems to have been a pretty normal cycle and I o'd on day 28 (normal for me) so we are tww-ing. I hate that. :crossfingers:
We had been due early Aug, and I have friends due early June, July, late Aug and early Sept. I just hope I am utd before all the babies come along. I flicked to the pregnancy tracker on fertility friend yesterday and had forgotten I'd set it up, just seeing how far I was meant to be along now made me sad. DH is great but it seems to be a lot easier for them.
Well I checked my temp this morning after I swore I wasn't going to and kind of wish I hadn't...was only 36.41...normally after I ovulate its well over 36.70...so does this mean I haven't ovulated or I should just disregard the temp and continue on...My fear is I aren't ovulating :( I think if I get AF again, I will go back to temping just to see how my body goes... I don't want to miss catching the egg... I've also still got creamy CM... I dunno what to think!!
Good Luck Melzi, I was trying to do the same as you, not concentrate on TTC as such...just let it happen but now I'm kinda obsessing!! Alhtough I don't track my cervix, just check my cm and normally temp!
Wannabeamum: So sorry for you loss hun :( I hope you aren't in here long and can have another beautiful baby this year xoxo
Big hellos and hugs to everyone else... hopefully i can get some help with the temp issue...might ask about it in one of the other sections :)
xoxo
MummyDeb: Thank you for the welcome :) Did you have any fertile CM (EWCM or watery CM) before you thought you o'd? If not, I'd say by the temp that you haven't o'd yet and to keep on BDing!
I hope we ALL have beautiful babies this year! Babyfest 2011. Anyone who wants a baby this much deserves to lavish that love on one! It irks me when people who don't want to get pregnant do so unintentionally, not fair!
sorry you have to join the group but welcome wannabemum!
Well I had to have a blood preggers test yesterday along with a blood test for gout and a BFN for utd but a positive for gout :( I asked the gp (my regular one wasnt in today) about getting something to induce AF and she said no as i could still be pregnent and im like WTF??!! so im on tablets for gout but she refused to give me something to let AF come so im going back sunday to get em off my regular gp. Iv got clomid waitin for me at home but no AF to have it with :(
Hi shan - thanks for the welcome, hopefully AF is just late for the other reason - hopefully another test with your usual GP will shed some light. It took me 3 months to get my period back when I went off the pill (PCOS too) and even then it was triggered, naturopath has successfully triggered me since when I needed it. Good luck, I hope the BT was just early and it's a sly and hiding BFP. :crossfingers:
Heh, every second post is me at the moment, sorry girls guess I needed someone to talk to about TTC now all my friends are pregnant... Damn them (in the nicest possible way)
Hey WannabeMum....
How are you today?? I understand your need to talk... Im not a great chatter on forums. But always here to chat regardless!!
Shan85.... Sorry to hear your bt didn't come back with happy news. I hope your regular dr will shed some light on that. Hugs..
: )
wannabemum- im always on facebook and can inbox on there if u wish to add me and chat. look for stuandshan mouton and ad me as a friend if u wish xx
I'm here for you as well hun :) U can add me on FB as well :) - Deb Bryant with a pic of my lil man
I did have fertile CM before I thought I o'd so I will just hope I did when I thought I did...cos we haven't been BD since our love fest...Hopefully it was successful!
Shan I hope that something happens for you soon, no good about gout :(