mummytotwo-yes,bt is 25th,get the results the next day probably...wannemum-get well hugs..phebee-af still heavy?..shan-good luck...mummydeb-get some rest before the bedfest...afm-cm is blood streaked again
Well that was the heaviest and shortest AF i've ever had! 2 days full on heavy then almost nothing today! I am a bit suspicious though cause she likes to trick me into thinking it's over and then there's more, so if I get none tomorrow I'll be surprised!
pheebee - hopefully it's over! Then you can get back into the good bit of ttc...
MM - I hope it's just normal bleeding - I've got everything crossed for you!
shan you're right - not getting the bfp is cr@pola. Takes the joy out of it all. I'm glad you are going to the dr to get things sorted out.
MummyDeb - how long for you before O? Do you get to relax and just live for a while? lol.
afm, still tired, but a much better night's sleep last night. DS is back to his destructive best, I've already cleaned several crushed weetbix off the floor after he got the packet out...
Off topic - Thinking and praying for everything caught up in Christchurch New Zealand, may they find many survivors.
ok ladies, provera in hand but will start taking tomorrow so we can get some practice bding in lol
My gyno says he thinks within 3 months ill get that beautiful BFP. Anyone else used provera before??
Am I terrible? A friend just announced her pregnancy on Facebook and my shoulders slumped. I should be happy for her but instead it makes me feel sad and impatient. I just want what I was supposed to have already been having! The next one better be sticky or I think I'll delete Facebook.
Hey Shan - good to know you've got something to get it all moving! I was given something to trigger AF after coming off the pill, but can't remember what it was, from memory it wasn't traumatic though. Just happened. Good luck!!!
Pheebee - I think we've all been there. Literally all my closest girlfriends bar one (who has a 4.5 month old) are pregnant, and my SIL. That's 5 babies to be born this year, two before and three after my EDD, all within 3 months. The sadness, ****ed-offed-ness and downright jealousy is completely separate from my absolute joy for them - especially for a friend who has had three ectopics. But it still sucks that I wont be having a baby at the same time as them. But you know what? The babies we lost, even though we loved them, wanted them and miss them every day, obviously weren't the perfect ones for us to birth into the world. The perfect ones are just waiting for us and our DHs to put together at the right time.
Bloody hard but. Sucks. But you're not alone! That's the main message I reckon.
AFM I spent this arvo at a friend's place - the one who's had the three ectopics, because she wound up in hospital this week, abdo pain and spotting. it's all good, baby was fine on u/s, she needs this pg to be sticky! So she's on bed rest, but she has an 18 month old! Tell me how?!?! So I'm going tomorrow when little Charlie gets up to look after our boys so she can at least not be lifting 12kg of little man. Another friend is coming over in the arvo so I can go to the acupuncturist, so we'll see how that goes. Took DS to the dr today, he's got a red eardrum with some fluid, but hopefully it'll improve in the next 36 hours or so and he wont need the antibiotics.
Pheebee, I know (and most ladies on here) how that feels. When i was pg with the twins i found out a friend was 4 weeks behind me with twins. I lost my twins and she just gave birth 2 days ago to healthy twin girls. I havent even said congrats to her or anything coz its unfair. I should have month old babies and just have the heart ache that comes with loss. Then whats happened with frankston hospital just made me so very angry. So as you can gather this month hasnt been a good one!
Some friends on fb of mine have announced their UTD with their 2nd or 3rd child and im super happy for them but when is my turn guna come? Girls at work always ask if i have kids and i always have to say no
I Know how you girls feel, both my sisters are due to have their babies in the next 2 months, we were all pregnant together before I lost my angel, but I am happy for them and looking forward to my new nephew and a lil surprise from my older sister.
Wannabemum: I won't ovulate for another 2 weeks so get a lil bit of a break, its my b'day tomorrow so going to enjoy that, going to my parents for a Pizza night, so will enjoy some drinks... We actually move house around time that AF is due so that will be interesting, so last chance to concieve another baby in this place!
I know this will seem a bit strange after my last post, but DH's cousin had her baby today and I am filled with nothing but joy for them. I think my feelings about other people's babies must depend on who and when it is. DH's cousin announced her PG not long before we conceived, so I'm thinking maybe that's why I don't have any bad feelings about it. Also because we are close to them, much closer than the other friend I posted about before. Either way, emotions are weird things! But YAY for them
emotions are weird things. It's so hard, Shan I can't imagine what you went through going past your EDD. I know it will be hard if I'm not utd by then (8 August)... Oh well, guess we keep on being happy for them and look forward to being ECSTATIC for each other!!!
Ugh, those emotions are tough girls - I've been there too.
MM - all the best for BTs tomorrow & hopefully some totally excellent news in a couple of days
Oh no MM!! That's awful. Oh I hope it's just a bleed (some people bleed...) but it doesn't sound promising does it. I'll still keep my fingers crossed for you and give your kids a cuddle.
I just had a m/c a week ago and it was the hardest thing after 2 years ttc to get a BFP and go from such a high to getting blood tests every 2nd day (cos my hcg wasnt going up as it should) to getting shifted to the EPAC (Early Pregnancy Assesment Clinic) at the hospital the next minute, to getting told it could be ectopic to getting told "we cant see anything" and then the next day getting AF and having the m/c
It was devastating for both DH and I bcos we thought FINALLY after 2 years we caught the eggie but NO! Anyways I have to think a little more positively in that atleast our little angel knows where we live now, so hopefully he/she is in the vecinity! LOL
I wanted to ask you ladies how long you waited before you ttc again? I'm going to try again this month but I have no idea if I'll O or not or when?? Should I just count the days as per my "usual" cycle??
I did like how you said that your lil angel is now in the vecinity! I asked almost the same question at the time of my M/C. Generally everyone started to try when they felt ready. Me.. straight away. But my cycle is all over the shop. Very hard to know when I O'd that first month.. and this month its getting more "normal".
Good luck. I hope your Angel is just hovering to return very soon.
Mia01 : I'm so sorry for your loss hun, its so horrible, and especially after TTC for so long. I also started TTC again and have just had my 3rd AF since losing my angel in November. I really hope you get a BFP straight away and that your baby is a sticky one... Big hugs
MM: Sorry that you have started to bleed no fair at all xoxo
AFM: My b'day today, was hoping that a BFP last cycle would be the best b'day pressie but I guess it could be this one... Just waiting to O now lol...feels like its going to be forever till it happens lol!!!
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it's all good, baby was fine on u/s, she needs this pg to be sticky! So she's on bed rest, but she has an 18 month old! Tell me how?!?! So I'm going tomorrow when little Charlie gets up to look after our boys so she can at least not be lifting 12kg of little man. Another friend is coming over in the arvo so I can go to the acupuncturist, so we'll see how that goes. Took DS to the dr today, he's got a red eardrum with some fluid, but hopefully it'll improve in the next 36 hours or so and he wont need the antibiotics.
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