thread: Trying to Conceive after Miscarriage or Loss ~ February 2011

Hybrid View

Previous Post Previous Post   Next Post Next Post
  1. #1
    Registered User

    Nov 2008
    Melbourne, VIC
    707

    emotions are weird things. It's so hard, Shan I can't imagine what you went through going past your EDD. I know it will be hard if I'm not utd by then (8 August)... Oh well, guess we keep on being happy for them and look forward to being ECSTATIC for each other!!!

    MM - good luck for your BT tomorrow!

  2. #2
    Registered User

    Nov 2006
    675

    Ugh, those emotions are tough girls - I've been there too.
    MM - all the best for BTs tomorrow & hopefully some totally excellent news in a couple of days

    xxxx

  3. #3
    Registered User

    Sep 2009
    866

    thanks ladies for your well wishes,i woke this morning to af bleeding,got to have bt so the ivf clinic can confirm it.

  4. #4
    Registered User

    Nov 2008
    Melbourne, VIC
    707

    Oh no MM!! That's awful. Oh I hope it's just a bleed (some people bleed...) but it doesn't sound promising does it. I'll still keep my fingers crossed for you and give your kids a cuddle.

  5. #5
    Registered User

    Apr 2009
    1,103

    Hi Ladies

    I just had a m/c a week ago and it was the hardest thing after 2 years ttc to get a BFP and go from such a high to getting blood tests every 2nd day (cos my hcg wasnt going up as it should) to getting shifted to the EPAC (Early Pregnancy Assesment Clinic) at the hospital the next minute, to getting told it could be ectopic to getting told "we cant see anything" and then the next day getting AF and having the m/c
    It was devastating for both DH and I bcos we thought FINALLY after 2 years we caught the eggie but NO! Anyways I have to think a little more positively in that atleast our little angel knows where we live now, so hopefully he/she is in the vecinity! LOL

    I wanted to ask you ladies how long you waited before you ttc again? I'm going to try again this month but I have no idea if I'll O or not or when?? Should I just count the days as per my "usual" cycle??

    Appreciate any help

  6. #6
    Registered User

    Oct 2007
    Brisbane, QLD
    412

    Mia01..
    I am so sorry for your loss. ((HUGS))

    I did like how you said that your lil angel is now in the vecinity! I asked almost the same question at the time of my M/C. Generally everyone started to try when they felt ready. Me.. straight away. But my cycle is all over the shop. Very hard to know when I O'd that first month.. and this month its getting more "normal".

    Good luck. I hope your Angel is just hovering to return very soon.

    N

  7. #7
    Registered User

    Jun 2007
    Morayfield, Qld
    712

    Mia01 : I'm so sorry for your loss hun, its so horrible, and especially after TTC for so long. I also started TTC again and have just had my 3rd AF since losing my angel in November. I really hope you get a BFP straight away and that your baby is a sticky one... Big hugs

    MM: Sorry that you have started to bleed no fair at all xoxo

    AFM: My b'day today, was hoping that a BFP last cycle would be the best b'day pressie but I guess it could be this one... Just waiting to O now lol...feels like its going to be forever till it happens lol!!!