thread: Trying to Conceive after Miscarriage or Loss ~ February 2011

  1. #253
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    Aug 2009
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    MM - good luck with your BT's thursday - i got a few bfn's for HB's pregnancy before a bfp..... hoping it was just too early? Great that you're getting some symptoms..... FX

    Bec - GL with your appointment too. People do achieve a pregnancy with only one tube! You can too.

    Melzi - why the change in screen name? Took me a while to work it out.... thought there was someone else with your avy and sig..... GL for next week..

    AFM - think I led you and myself on a wild goose chase... temps down, and Cm not right really and did an internal and good god is the cervix really that close to the entrance? Blah for unrealistic expectations.

    baby dust to everyone else....

  2. #254
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    Sep 2009
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    hi everyone,i had bt a day early as yesterday started bleeding,not sure what my next step is going to be yet.Thank you all so much for your kind words & thoughts.

  3. #255
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    Oct 2009
    Frankston
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    well i had 2 days off and now AF here again just to make matters worse DH is being a ****

  4. #256
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    Mar 2011
    queensland
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    hi everyone

    MM - did you get the result back from the BT? FX it is just some spotting for you?

    Phebee - hopefully FF was a little off and you still were able to catch O!

    Bcnxavi - how did your doc appt go today? hope she had good news for you!

    melzi/lysndan - hope you are doing okay and feeling positive, that is great news that hopefully it wont hold up your TTC plans too much!

    AFM - finished the clomid yesterday so now just waiting to see when I O. i was on clomid day 2-6 so when should i start doing OPKs? and should we start BDing now? Hubby is away on friday night till sunday mornign so hoping to BD before he leaves friday and then sunday when he gets back. hopefully we dont O on saturday but if we do im hoping we can still catch the that way.

  5. #257
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    Mar 2011
    queensland
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    shan85 - that is horrible news that AF has shown again! was that supposed to happen? wat has your doctor said about it coming again? its only been a couple of days!

  6. #258
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    Shan - did you still go to your u/s? Sorry that AF is joining you again....

    Mini - can't help but hopefully you O and catch that egg.

    Mathew's Mum - oh sweetie, I am sorry about the bleeding... hope the bt's show some nice hcg for you. Hugs.

  7. #259
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    Sep 2008
    Sydney
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    Hi Girls,
    I have been reading but not posting as I don't really have much to say I had a blood test to check if I was ovulating and of course I wasn't, so looks like I won't get pregnant anytime soon, so I'll still read but until I start clomid again (prob about 3 months time) I'll prob not post much!
    Babydust to all of you

  8. #260
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    Apr 2009
    Melbourne
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    Hi ladies!
    Matthews Mum: Sorry to hear about the bleeding. Did you get the BT results yet? Fingers crossed hcg is good.

    Shan- darn AF! I hope she knicks off soon for you

    mini- It depends on your cycle as to where you need to opk. My first clomid cycle I started opking at CD10, and then I ovulated at CD21! But at least I knew. My FS says to DTD every 2nd night from CD10 anyway. HTH

    erybery- sorry to hear you aren't o'ing. I know how you feel, I don't o without clomid at all. Rest up untill you start clomid.

    HI everyone else!

    AFM: My FS appointment went well yesterday and she said we're cleared to start whenever we're ready. I have decided to induce a period tomrrow (seems good to begin on the 1st of the month!) and see what happens. DH is being very supportive so far, but we'll see how he goes once I start injecting myself with high levels of hormones and being CRAZY!!! It's nice to have to option to start, but I have enjoyed being off the TTC rollercoaster for awhile. So here we go again!

    Stay well everyone,

    Bec

  9. #261
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    Mar 2011
    queensland
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    becnxai that is great news you have been given the go ahead! i hope your TTC journey is a quick one!

    normally my cycles are about 39 days in length so wouldnt O till about day 24/25 but hoping the clomid will help this! so i have bought about 50 OPKs on ebay lol and will start testing from tmrw i think. we are going to DTD every second night to make sure we dont miss it, but i would like to know when and if i do ovulate - it will just make me more prepared for if an when a period will be due. i foudn that the most annoying thing about my cycles the waiting around for AF to appear and not knowing when it was actually due!

    fx it works and i ill be looking at testing easter weekend - which would be a great easter present!

    hope everyone else is doing okay!

  10. #262
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    Nov 2006
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    Hey Girls,
    Sorry to hear things aren't going as well as they could for some of you - MM & Shan - hugs to you both!!
    Welcome to the newbies - hope things start looking up for you on your ttc journey.
    Not a lot to say tonight other than looks like I might be joining you ladies again soon as things aren't going quite to plan for me - will know more after the docs tomorrow.
    Anyway, babydust to all & catch up with you ladies later x

  11. #263
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    Aug 2009
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    Mathew's Mum - thinking of you....

    BecnXavi - that's awesome news from the FS..... and yay for starting on the first of the month... hope you don't get too crazy.

    Mummytotwo - GL with your appointment tomorrow...

    Ery - thanks for the update.... sorry you didn't O.

    No news here.

  12. #264
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    Sep 2009
    866

    hi everyone,bt came back negative ,which was no surprise,i've got an appointment with fs next week to discuss another stim cycle,still questioning what to do?

  13. #265
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    Nov 2006
    675

    D&C for me Monday & then some pretty extensive testing over the next 6 wks or so.
    Gotta get to the bottom of this - can't do m/c no. 5 - not going there!!
    MM - sorry about the -ve BT. It gets tough making the decisions about now huh - we just want something that works!!
    Hi to evryone else - I will still be popping in here even though ttc is temporarily on hold.
    Good luck to all xxxx

  14. #266
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    Oct 2009
    Frankston
    214

    looks like a D&C might b the option for me too as still bleeding
    love and hugs to all

  15. #267
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    Aug 2009
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    MummytoTwo - thinking of you on Monday..... never a nice process but necessary sometimes.... GL with the testing too.... it is emotionally draining, but as you've said can't do another one.... hugs...

    Shan - you too - sorry you're still bleeding.....how are your energy levels going? You'd be pretty worn out and fatigued.

    Mathew's Mum - I am so sorry the BT was neg..... I say if you're up for another stim cycle, then do it.

    Not much to report here. Just thinking of us all.

  16. #268

    Oct 2010
    Baldivis, WA
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    Posted also in the LT TTC Taking Clomid/metformin section too... So I apologize for any double up posts...

    Ladies, due to everything that is currently going on with the lumpectomy and my health, and also the pressures of my business and my photography diploma, hubby and I have decided that we may not be ready for drugs such as clomid or other fertility drugs or intervention.

    I think we are going to just have sexy time when we feel like it and if we get lucky then we get lucky. So NTNP as such. I will not be temping. as much as it's going to be hard to 'let go and let it happen' I think it's the best thing for us to do.

    I may still go for the cd 21 bloods to occasionally check my progesterone levels, and make sure everything is in tip top condition. But this TTC is honestly doing our heads in.

    There's lots more to focus on then me having a baby in my belly (as much as that's what I've longed for... For so long) it's just not practical to stress myself out like I'm doing.

    I'll pop in from time to time but I'll be pretty quiet.

    Here begins our not trying not preventing (as such) method of TTC.

    I hope you all get your very very sticky babies very soon x

    Love LysnDan xx


    Sent from my iPhone (via Tapatalk) so please forgive the spelling mistakes...

  17. #269
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    Sep 2009
    866

    hi all ,mummytotwo-i'm sorry,thinking of you...shan-thinking of you as well...lysndan-best wishes with the new approach...

  18. #270
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    Aug 2009
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    mummytotwo - hugs for today blossom.... go gently.

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