Trying to Conceive after Miscarriage or Loss ~ February 2011

[phebee]

Thanks melzi Looks like I had an 'implantation dip' at 6DPO with my angel, so we'll see what tomorrow brings!

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[WannabeMum]

I keep having to remind myself I felt no different until I was about 6 weeks pg both times so I'm not going to feel any different now if I am utd. Had acupuncture today, told him I might be utd and he said it was all ok to have Japanese acupuncture while pg so that was good news. I have little button needles that have to stay in for 5 days

[phebee]

I think I had some idea a few days before AF but certainly not this early. Biggest one was sore nipples that were ALWAYS erect, even if they were warm. Will have to wait and see!


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[WannabeMum]

your nipples get erect - lol!

My sense of smell was a bit heightened this morning, I was searching for the source of a smell DH couldn't smell. That definitely happened both times. Not testing not testing not testing!

[phebee]

Ooh promising! If that happened to me I'd know! My nose always seems to be stuffy. I can't smell things DH can, or if i do its a minute or several minutes later. He says my nose is deaf :P

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[LysnDan]

Ok, I think AF is on her way I've had cramps all morning...

Although I've had a few waves of nausea... Not sure if it's possible to be pg related but I doubt it considering I'm only about 7dpo... I've also had increased creamy cm. (tmi sorry) and sore boobies over the last few days... Not sure if either are a good sign or just an indication that AF is coming again. We shall see on the 14th... Although I really want to test early, but the last time i did that I found I had a positive one day and a few days later, a BFN. chemical pregnancy...

I've been really naughty and haven't been taking my elevit or even any folate lately. I think I should start taking that. And if nothing happens this cycle I thought that I should start taking vitex tablets again (i stopped them when i went to my dr) and buy some more preseed.


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[phebee]

Oh no melzi! I really hope it's not AF! Sounds like you have a few promising symptoms, but I don't want to get your hopes up either. Isn't waiting awful?

I am highly doubting a BFP for me. My temps are going down by a consistent 0.1 degree each day. Plus no other symptoms at all. Oh well!


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[LysnDan]

phebee it's not over till the big lady in red shows up... I hope she stays away for a good long 9 months and that you have a bubba growing instead xx

I don't know how much longer I can keep going like this. I'm running on empty. The doctors won't do a lot I had to push to get my cd21tests every month.

It's heartbreaking when I see a bfp announcement in a thread... (I know a lot of people feel like this) but jealousy is really taking a hold and life is just not as fun without my zach xx I miss him terribly.

How much longer will this go on for.

I think I'm going to give up before I get my bfp. I don't have the strength. This is eating away at me


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[WannabeMum]

Oh Melz, I just want to give you a massive cuddle You're still so young, if it's too much and you take a year off to give yourself a break, you have plenty of time when you're feeling stronger. I do hope the next announcement of a bfp is yours, you deserve it, but if it's not, take the time you need to be good to yourself, you deserve that too. If you can, go get a massage or something to help relax. Sending a big your way.

Phee - what Melz said - it's not over til AF shows up. I was looking at your temps, it's probably worth you investing in a double decimal point basal body thermometer. Your temp might have gone down from a 0.56 to a 0.54 which shows up as 0.6 - 0.5 on a one decimal point. If you don't get your bfp, go to the chemist, or look online for one, it helps the charting to be more accurate (I only got one this cycle though!)

I caved and tested this morning bfn. I don't think I'm pg, but as Melz - and now I - said, it's not over! I was only testing on internet cheapies. I've got a crystal clear one in the cupboard, I'll use that Sat. AF due Mon.

[Lilliansmummy]

morning ladies, well AF is still here but has been kind to me so far. Day 1 of clomid tomorrow and im off to the melbourne show grounds with DH for the top gear festival so hoping i dont get too many side effects lol

[MummyDeb]

aww sorry Wannabemum although its not over yet, I tested BFN on an internet cheapie a few days before i got my BFP on a FR

Shan I hope the clomid works this month for you and have fun at Top Gear!!

Melzi, still in with a chance and as you say its not over till AF rears her ugly head!!!

Pheebee, hope your going well hun

AFM... Still going along, had a lil drop in temp this morning but not getting hopes up... I just wish it was testing day already lol!!

[Matthew's Mum]

hi ladies,sending lots of stay away af wishes...melzi19-sorry your having dr issues,this ttc after loss is hard enough...afm-have started bt's to monitor hormone levels for a frozen embryo cycle(last one in the freezer).

[phebee]

I don't know how much longer I can keep going like this. I'm running on empty. The doctors won't do a lot I had to push to get my cd21tests every month.

It's heartbreaking when I see a bfp announcement in a thread... (I know a lot of people feel like this) but jealousy is really taking a hold and life is just not as fun without my zach xx I miss him terribly.

How much longer will this go on for.

I think I'm going to give up before I get my bfp. I don't have the strength. This is eating away at me


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Oh melzi I'm so sorry hun. I really hope that it's not AF. I don't really know what to say but I am thinking of you and praying for us all that we will have our BFPs very soon!

Phee - what Melz said - it's not over til AF shows up. I was looking at your temps, it's probably worth you investing in a double decimal point basal body thermometer. Your temp might have gone down from a 0.56 to a 0.54 which shows up as 0.6 - 0.5 on a one decimal point. If you don't get your bfp, go to the chemist, or look online for one, it helps the charting to be more accurate (I only got one this cycle though!)

Yes, that's true. I was on the verge of buying a 0.00 decimal point one just before my BFP, but I decided to wait and there it was. So I didn't buy one. If AF shows up this time I might though. It wouldn't make much difference I don't think cause I still won't test unless AF is late anyway. My temp went up 0.1 a degree again today so who knows. I've looked at my previous 2 charts, one BFN and one BFP and the same thing happened in both of them. Really the only time I'd know is if I got a sudden spike the day before AF, as in my BFP cycle.

morning ladies, well AF is still here but has been kind to me so far. Day 1 of clomid tomorrow and im off to the melbourne show grounds with DH for the top gear festival so hoping i dont get too many side effects lol

Hope your day was good and side-effect-less Shan! xxx

AFM... Still going along, had a lil drop in temp this morning but not getting hopes up... I just wish it was testing day already lol!!

Me too!

hi ladies,sending lots of stay away af wishes...melzi19-sorry your having dr issues,this ttc after loss is hard enough...afm-have started bt's to monitor hormone levels for a frozen embryo cycle(last one in the freezer).

Ooh for you MM!!!


AFM: Zero symptoms. Temp went up again though. I have no idea. I was thinking of searching back in my BFP TTC thread to see if I had any symptoms at this stage back then. Would be interesting if I didn't have any then either!

[phebee]

Well, I found the thread. And I did have symptoms in the week beforehand. AF is due on Wednesday, so I'm pretty sure now that she will be coming But then again, this was my 'whatever happens happens' cycle, so I guess I didn't really try properly anyway :P

[WannabeMum]

Shan, my FS recommended taking the clomid at night, then if you have any side effects they happen while you're asleep. I didn't have any side effects that I know of. Good luck - hope this is the sticky solution!
MummyDeb - it's only 6DPO, might even be an implantation dip... for a nice rise again tomorrow.
MM - for you in this cycle! Keep up with the acupuncture and I sincerely hope this FET is the one!
Pheebee - as they say, every pg is different, just keep your fingers crossed and be MUCH stronger than me when it comes to poas!
Melzi - still sending a your way!

Thanks for the words re the internet cheapies. I've kinda put it down as an, "oh well" test rather than a definite. Just had some (.)(.) tingling again, so we shall see, that's not a PMS symptom for me, they're all abdo. I'll just hang out til Sat, then if it is -ve, there's always next cycle. I'm happy to wait for the perfect one, and it WILL happen.

[Lilliansmummy]

AF is not playing nice now, day 5 so just took clomid and AF is heavy now (which is a big pain in the bum as we r leaving for melbourne soon)
will it go with the clomid?

[phebee]

WBM: Yeah, I'd put anything before the day before AF down as an "oh well" test, especially cheapies! Knowing that for me a FRER didn't even work until AF was due means I don't trust anything less, lol

Shan: Uh oh! No idea about clomid, sorry, but I hope it leaves soon!

Hmmm temp is right up again. But that happened in my BFN cycle as well as my BFP cycle, so still no idea!!

[LysnDan]

Hey everyone how are you all today?

Well I'm quite indecisive! I don't know whether or not to temp if this month isn't successful. I'm sure it wouldn't hurt.

Thoughts ladies?


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