I had a natural m/c a couple of weeks ago after I started spotting and a u/s showed the baby didn't have a heartbeat. About a week later I started to m/c.
So... the Dr said when I first saw her that I should wait until after my first normal AF to start TTC again. Then when I talked to her again she said wait until I've had 2 periods. No, I don't think so.

I've been looking around for threads about how long and why you have to wait...but I have only found a few things and it seems like everyone's a little confused like me about why exactly you have to wait. My Dr said that there's a .01% increased chance of m/c if you get pregnant straight away b/c the lining of the uterus hasn't had time to build up again. But through all my googling I haven't found that mentioned anywhere. Is this right? I've seen it mentioned that the Drs actually like you to wait b/c it's easier to date the pregnancy and for emotional reasons.

I really want to start TTC straight away but I don't want another m/c of course. I just think, won't my body know what's right? If it's not ready to be pregnant again won't it just not happen? We have been DTD without contraception lately but I don't expect to be ovulating yet anyway so that's not really a big deal but I'm trying to decide if I should use contraception when I'm ovulating this time or not. I can't stand the waiting, I just want a baby. I want to look to the future but not TTC keeps me stuck thinking about the m/c. But I don't want to risk another m/c so does anyone actually know if there's a medical reason for waiting or know of any studies I can read?

Well, that was rather long, i hope I got my question across, lol.
Thanks guys.