Trying to Conceive after Miscarriage or Loss ~ July 08 #6

**RachelSwirl** · July 26th, 2008, 02:24 AM

tut--Yeah, don't think I'd recommend testing at 10DPO....although it's been done, and there have been BFP's on that day....just such a bummer to see that BFN.... That's why I don't even want to bother testing just yet....

Ok maybe I shouldnt have tested today then... I'm a poas addict though!

Last month AF showed up on CD29 (which is today) so we'll see how it goes.....

I have all my fingers and toes crossed for you!

**jen805** · July 26th, 2008, 02:24 AM

Rachel--Probably just a little too early still...give it another go in the morning! What's the lowest hcg those internet tests will read? I'm

you get your BFP so you don't need the lap!

Toccara--A lot of people would call me a "skinny minnie" as well, but that's just cuz they've never seen me naked!

**jen805** · July 26th, 2008, 02:25 AM

Thanks Rachel--ditto!!

**RachelSwirl** · July 26th, 2008, 02:29 AM

Jen... thanks for all your good wishes. I havent had a lap and dye before, I'm worried about the wound when I go abroad the week later... as well as pain.. grr
As for trying again in the morning- I will be lol! I am a poas addict..
The internet sticks I get are early ones so I think its 10 miU...

**tutmae** · July 26th, 2008, 02:34 AM

Rachel- If there was a faint line in the morning it's probably because there was a higher concentration that in the evening of HCG. Keeping my fingers crossed it's a BFP for ya hon!! If there is a faint line you should post a pic for us all to see! Some of the girls on here are pros at the faint line spotting!!

**RachelSwirl** · July 26th, 2008, 02:43 AM

I have tried posting pics in the past to another site I use (Its no longer a baby focused site so not as good)... the photos never turned out.

**Toccara50** · July 26th, 2008, 03:07 AM

lol

your silly Jen I'm sooooo tried right now but I refused to sleep right now ...

**RachelSwirl** · July 26th, 2008, 03:17 AM

what time is it with you?

**RuthiePCOS momma** · July 26th, 2008, 04:33 AM

Hey mommas!!! How are my girlies????

Well... I went and I had an abdominal u/s done.. the nurse said she saw something veeeeery small.. and she said my uterus is bigger and "that there is something up".. the only thing is.. she said it looks like it's too early to tell. She said I'm not even 4 weeks.. I'm less than that. So I don't know if it's good or bad.. she said that it's not ectopic, or molar, or nothing bad.. she just said it's too small (early) to see a bean.

(it was more like a dot in the ultrasound screen)

In a way it makes sense cuz I knew all along I wasn't 9 weeks. I have told every one of you how I know I conceived much later in this cycle.. so it makes some sense that I'm way much earlier into this pregnancy.

She told me to go back in 3 weeks.. but she is concerned about my past miscarriages and she referred me to this hospital so I can get the progesterone shot.

So I guess not good or bad.. she said looking at my uterus inside she can see "there is something up" and it's bigger.

This is all the info I have so far. Please pray for me so that this bean keeps growing and so that I don't have a miscarriage again. I would be most devastated.

again.. not good or bad... it's just looks like it's even earlier than I thought.

I don't know how to feel.. I'm just hopeful I guess. We did see something... just not what I was picturing ya know?.. so disappointed is the best word I guess. but still hopeful for what she old me.. all my worries about ectopic or molar or you know.. those things that can go wrong were ruled out.. so far.

**jen805** · July 26th, 2008, 04:46 AM

Ruthie--At least you get to go in for a Prog shot, so that's GREAT! Plus, at least she saw something, tiny or not, your baby was there! So big

and Congratulations! I can understand your anxieties, especially due to what you've been through in the past....but continue feeling hopeful and keep your faith that all will be ok with this pg'cy! I'm saying lots of

for you, Ruthie!!

Toccara--Why are you refusing to sleep???

**jen805** · July 26th, 2008, 04:49 AM

I'm not sure if we're actually allowed to post pics within the thread--I think the mods take them out due to some people having slow computers...think the pics make it slower loading pages for them. You may want to check the rules and regs first, just in case! Think you're supposed to put them in the gallery--you can always PM one of the mods to find out for sure so you don't get an infraction!

**RachelSwirl** · July 26th, 2008, 04:56 AM

Ruthie... I am praying for you sweetheart.

**RuthiePCOS momma** · July 26th, 2008, 05:05 AM

Thank you Jen... thank you Rachelswirl.
I just can't wait for 3 weeks go by again.. she said I can go again to see if she can see if it has grown. (should be by then)
So I guess I am in another waiting game???

Thank you girls for being with me in this rough journey.
I still have my hopes up..
I always get "warnings" when I post images.. so I'm posting the link to an image of an ultrasound that best looks like what I saw today...
(except the dot was smaller)
http://i241.photobucket.com/albums/f...asound-sac.jpg

**Toccara50** · July 26th, 2008, 05:10 AM

Jen I don't wanna be up all night because I work mornings ... I'm just really worn out from dh wink wink *** lol
Ruthie I'm praying everything is ok with you sweetie !!!