im after some advice from you girls, im on day 21 and for the last 2 days i have had really bad lower back pain (right in the middle) and tonight i have spotting (i guess not even that, more just a bit on wiping), we aren't ttc at the moment so not sure what is going on, any thoughts ? im thinking it is probably just a screwed up cycle as its only the 2nd since my last m/c or my pcos is playing up......
CONGRATULATIONS IONA!!! WOOHOO!! Am so so happy for u
Bons- Oh no about getting dates wrong! So frustrating! But spermies do last up to 3ish days so ur still in with a chance. Did u use opks this month?? Maybe test again?? or do u think u will just wait it out?? Good luck xx
Kellbell- So did u cave and test today???
Minnie- Im sorry i cant really help with ur problem.. my own body does my head in!! Have u been using protection tho?? Theres no way it cld be implantation bleeding??
Clairesmummy- Oh i wish i had ur randiness over O time!! Or anytime of the month for that matter Thats great ur having heaps of ewcm!! so are u bding everyday or only every 2nd??
Hello to everyone else!
AFM- Well went to drs today.. asked for a bt just to see where hormone levels are at. Shld find out tomoro. I reckon it will come back that I o'ed on monday.. hmmm but who knows! Aleast then i will know where i am in my cycle. I ran out of opks yesterday and didnt bother buying anymore.. im just wondering if they didnt work cos they were just internet cheapies.. i have had a +ive from supermarket ones but never off these cheap ones.. altho they always work for my friend. OOh i dont know.. if i do use them next month i will defintely buy the expensive ones.. and if they dont work then im never going to use them again!! (altho im hoping i dont need to worry about next month)
I hope ur all having a good nite.. Sleep tight!! xxx
Minniemouse- I had the same thing last month though I was def. UTD had most of the symptoms but then started with the brownish spotting then 7 days later AF arrived for me.
Reet- Only DTD the other night not really feeling like Im up to it atm feeling a bit run down and tired might sneek a bd in tonight though just in case if I don't fall asleep beforehand...lol.....I took another OPT this arvey and not sure I think there was a faint line, on my normal cycle tomorrow would definately be a db day (usually very randy on CD12) for me but since AF was late I have no idea whats going on now....very frustrating, thinking I will just go with the flow this month and get myself some more OPKs and see whats going on with me. But if it should happen before I work it all out I will jump for joy.
Hope everyone in here is having a great night.
Minnie - im not sure whats happening - could be implantation bleeding? is that possible FX
Reet - i used the internet cheapies too and they were rubbish for me. i refused to buy anymore this month. maybe if this month dosent work ill invest in some decent ones. I hope i dont need them
Clairesmummy - hope you dont need the opks either and august is your month
nope didnt test today! thought about it but quickly ran to the toilet so my fmu was goooone LOL
i do have one preg test in the house left from last month i found yest - it called me to pee on it but i resisted haha
think its still a bit early should be 9dpo today i think? i really have not been trying to keep track this month and go with the flow
Do i hold out and wait for AF or do it - that single line breaks my heart!
i just don't know!
i feel like AF is coming so maybe i should wait a bit longer
Kellbell- maybe u shld wait it out.. i know i wldnt be able to test early cos that single line wld break my heart too its not worth it.. But excellent if af decides not to show her face!!! Have u still got little symptoms happening??
your only three days behind me! we could be belly buddies
How are you feeling? you got any symptoms ?
when are you testing :-)
i still have sore boobs, thrush still here YUK, very tired and been starving all day
however had some AF like cramps today so think she is on her way
think ill def wait to see if she is late i dont want to stare at a neg preg test like a crazy person again seeing lines that arnt there - last month i even fished it out of the bin and it was still neg big suprise!
nah definitely not implantation for us, maybe its from ovulation, who knows, this is another reason i want to wait a couple of months until we ttc so i get a good idea of what my body is doing.
Reet: what happened with your dog ?
Kellbell: i'd hold off a bit longer if you can, you have the right idea going to the toilet before you can test for now ! fingers crossed for you
Mum22 - Serves me right for falling behind! I don't mind a marathon catchup here and there though, it helps that typing is my forte. I too would prefer preseed to eggwhites tho!
Iona - You've made me want gingernut biscuits now... mmmm. Sugary! CONGRATULATIONS on a strong hb!!! I'm so excited for you.
Clairesmummy - It doesn't seem to matter where I move, there's always one of THOSE noisy people. LOL... Live and let live, I suppose. You're lucky to have such privacy! And yes, yay for 8 weeks! Won't be long before I'm at 9. Exciting. I'm not sure what's up with your OPKs, I say just DTD in case, and make sure to keep testing every day. The surge is quite short so if you skip days you might miss it. I think a + OPK is just around the corner for you though.
Kezzy - So not up for starting something with the neighbours. Their dog hardly barks, but they are just annoying in general with their parking wherever they feel like with their 4+ cars in one house. Really not worth a big fight though. I was just irritable that night.. haha. Hope you enjoy your preseed! To answer your question, around O time DP and I only ever did it two-three times max. I think he just has great swimmers, and the OPKs helped us to time it well. Sometimes there was a gap of up to 3 or 4 days between sausage sizzles. Still, it did the trick!
Reet - Ahh, I remember the days of being 56kg. LOL.. I miss those days sometimes. I'm getting rounder by the minute, so it seems! For a good reason though so that's ok with me. As for the neighbours, wouldn't it be funny to superglue their wheely bins shut? Haha.. that's mean though, so I choose to just rise above their annoyingness and ignore them. It is fun to think of amusing pranks to pull though! And yes, my next scan is the nuchal trans. That's on September 2. Can't wait to see a real little bubby growing away in there. I struggle to keep it short and sweet, so much to say to you lovely ladies. I like having lots to read, too.. so I'm trying to set another trend. LOL. Try not to feel down about your bd attempts. You don't have to DTD on the day you O to get pg. Trust me, if that's the only day you missed you're totally in with a shot. Remember how seldom we sizzled the sausage??? Well, I got UTD somehow, so don't panic! The way your DH goes at it, you're fiiiine
Bons - Sorry to hear DS is still unwell. I still think you're in with a good chance this month, since you DTD close to O. I hope this is it for you!
Minnie - It could be any of those things. Or implantation spotting. Mine was very subtle, only a speck here and there when wiping. Hoping for a happy result for you!
AFM, Had a really rough day at work today again. I've typed and re-typed this part over and over again, and all I can say is I'm tired of the injustice. I'm tired of them taking advantage of my good nature. I'm tired of being treated like crap, and then reprimanded because they overload me with other people's work. This is bullying, and I'm OUT. I'm resigning tomorrow. They can shove that in their pipe and smoke it. And if they find it hard to replace the only person who's trained to back up other staff members when they're on leave... TOUGH! That's their poor management, and not my problem. I'm doing this for the sake of this baby. I can't be subjected to this kind of stress any longer, and nothing I say will make them do things any differently. *big sigh*
Hope everyone is well, and sizzling those sausages!!! Oh and wish me luck for tomorrow. It's going to be a bloodbath, and I know I'll be falling on my own blade here, but it's just the way it is. I know it'll be a relief when it's done.
OMG where to begin lol. It has been sooooo busy in here.
ForShelby- Do what you have to do hun.
Kellie- Good luck with the wait lol.
ClairesMummy- I hope your body hurries to O day
Reet- FX that you don't have to worry about next month.
Iona- CONGRATS on the HB
Sorry I missed so many people and posts.
AFM- I didn't get my liver scan today so I am booked in for tomorrow morning when i should have been having my ovarian scan done but that has been postphoned until Monday. AF has come and gone so it was about time I updated my ticker lol.
My m/c is starting to hit me harder this month, would have been 23-24weeks roughly but to top it off I keep getting phantom movements and I look like I could be that far UTD cos my belly is being that nice to me atm stupid bloating for no reason grr. I still have a MASSIVE acne breakout, it seriously is starting to get annoying.
Good new is I have a job trial on Saturday FX I can finally get work.
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Thats great ur having heaps of ewcm!! so are u bding everyday or only every 2nd??
its not worth it.. But excellent if af decides not to show her face!!!
and it was still neg big suprise!
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