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Thread: Trying to Conceive after Miscarriage or Loss ~ July 2010

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    hi everyone,so much to catch up on,bons-congratulations,yes i've been lurking(feeling a bit quite of late)...kellbell& others testing soon-good luck...welcome to the new ladies,sorry for your losses...afm-af arrived (39 day cycle),so have started hormone replacement tablets,so fingers crossed for us all


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    Hi Mathew's mum: good to hear from you. Yay! start of a new cycle for you. Best of luck.

    Bons: Woot! Woot! That's fantastic news! Keep us posted.

    Welcome Melster. Sorry for your loss. Best of luck for your next try.
    Welcome lil'J: so sorry for your recent losses. Look forward to hearing some good news for you soon.

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    *Squeals* BONS!!!!! OMG!!! CONGRATULATIONS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Am so happy for u!! When did u test?? how far along are u now??? Oh u must be SO SO HAPPY!! Bet dh is too! Well done! Every 2 days must have worked a treat! xxx

    Forshelby-Well done girl! Excellent that u finally got to show that horrid lady exactly what u think of her! And isnt it the best feeling knowing ur boss cant exactly get angry at u cos really wat are they going to do??!!!? Are u getting them to write u up a reference? or not much point since u wont be working for a while now?? I hope u have had that chat with the universe tonight cos its bloody not listening to me!!

    Ajello- Oh ur sore bbs do sound awfully promising!!! Be sure to tell us all as soon as u test tomoro morning!

    Kell- So when are u testing??? I am getting so excited for u!! Af is late!! Woohoo!!!

    Matthews mum- Lovely to see ur name back in here. Hope everything works out perfectly this time around for u. And yes im crossing my fingers for us all too!!

    Melster- I think this is our first meeting too.. ?? Welcome anyway and i hope ur stay is a nice and short one Keep up that bding!!! Good luck!

    Lil'J- Welcome and i hope ur stay here is short also.. Good luck!

    Stoked- Oohh a bfp might be coming ur way??!

    Mum22- Going insane yet in the 2ww or staying nice and busy??

    Hi to everyone else too xxx

    AFM- Well i realised today why im feeling so sh*tty, sad and angry all at the same time! PMS!! What else! Ive been feeling like this since yesterday.. and pms shld start coming right about now i think. Havent had much experience with the whole pms thing since i havent had many cycles since coming off bcps.. but im pretty sure this is it!! Am thinking im going to be keen to test soon just so i show myself that im not pg and i can start being sad now and get over it sooner!! So yes ladies not much positivity going on here!

    Oh and my MIL is annoying me!!! Her and her partner are staying at our place at the moment.. sadly dh is away at work so im copping it all!
    Ok number 1.. 2 of our dogs escaped this morning because they left the door open.. one of them being heidi, our girl that is going to be put down if she has another fight with the neighbours dog, so i come home 4 hrs later and there both outside still! Grrr!! Thank god also that our pup hung around and didnt go missing again! I called them to ask if both dogs had been in our yard when they went out and they said defintely yes.. bullsh*t!!
    Number 2.. MILs partners son has cerebal palsy.. they cld have slept him on the foam mattress on the floor but instead they sleep him on the $2000 bed and he wets his pants! Our house now stinks!! The wee has gone right thru the mattress and bedding.. now forshelby thats something to vomit over! And they havent even commented on it or said they will attempt to air the mattress out or anything.
    Number 3.. MIL was trying to be helpful and hang my doona on the line once it had been washed but she must have let it sweep across the ground whilst she was hanging it cos it has a big dirty patch on it now! Grrrr! I left it on the line hoping she wld notice but she obviously hasnt. I know im being a bit silly being cranky about this cos she was trying to help but i cant help it!!
    And finally number 4! I went to put rubbish in our wheelie bin expecting it to be empty since it was bin day this morning and it is still chocabloc full..with maggots!!! I had put it and the recycling bin out last nite.. they must have heard the recycle truck go past assumed they had both been emptied and brought them back in!! GRRRRR! And to top it off i had put fish guts in there from a fish that dh had filleted a few days ago (it had been in the freezer since). I dont think they have noticed its still full yet.. they better say something once they do tho!!
    Its so frustrating cos if it was my parents i wlda had a big argument about all the things they did wrong.. but i just cant since its the inlaws!!!
    I told dh all about it before and he got really angry and told me to put them on the phone.. but i cldnt! that wld be worse!
    I also told him it was all just pms on my behalf and not to worry or get angry.. he didnt agree with me tho haha he said i defintely had reason to be angry! They are leaving on friday but will be back for a few days a week later.. i will defintely enjoy the break!! Oh and dont get me wrong i normally get on with my MIL really well.. we talk on the phone every couple days.. but this has just got me so angry!!! Would u girls be furious???!?

    Anyway enough ranting and raving.. chat to u all again tomoro! xxx

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    Default Trying to Conceive after Miscarriage or Loss ~ July 2010

    OMG I had to pop in quickly and say congrats Bons!!!

    Now I'm just waiting for Kell to announce :-P

    I have been reading all of your posts! I'm on my mobile so I'll pop in tomorrow for a full catch up.

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    OMG Reet you have got a nightmare there!!! You need to get a serious mattress protector for that next visit!!! I agree with you re the can say anything....it is sooo frustrating!!

    Oh, am a little over the TWW already last cycle with the m/c I had a temp drop today followed by AF tomoz making my luteal phase only 5 friggin days. Today my temp has remained the same as yesterday so I am hopeful that Af will not be paying me a visit tomorrow at least. Tho by the cramps I am having I doubt she will be far off making a visit to me.

    Forshelby, I dunno, I just dont feel + this month. I just feel sad and depressed about it actually if I were to tell the truth and I know this is only my 2nd month of trying it doesnt make it any easier cos I am sick of having the dream of BFP and it just hasnt happened and I very much doubt I am preg as I said above by the AF style cramping I am currently having. It is in my tummy.....awful and my sides and my back.

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    Reet - i hope today is a better day for you

    Mum22 - felt sad here, tooooo....

    yeh.. did test this morning -!!!! So, what is it? Cycle got major delayed n mucked up? But my last AF was good n on time in terms of timing n volume n symptoms. oh dear will need to see if bb still sore today...

    woke up with sweat in the middle of the night for the last few nights and we don't run the heater all nite if not DH will nse bleed. Oh... my body is driving me crazy... i think i must be over analysing...

    ladies, do u all get really bad cycles AFTER M/C? I know the first one is a bit un predictable, but how about the subsequent ones?


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    Hello everyone..

    Reet it sounds like you're NOT having a good time at the moment...i hope things get better soon

    Bon.....WOW congratulations!!!!!!!!!!! very exciting..hope you're ok

    MUM 22.....i hope you get a positive soon and feel a little better

    Ajello..thanks for you're posts

    and thanks to everyone else..


    I finally had a positive OPK test yesterday....i was so excited so we have done the baby dance heaps in this last week and the last couple days....hopefully that sperm catches an eggie....now i have a 13 day wait.....i have to make myself not test early.....i always have a habit of testing early and then becoming obsessed...i know its silly but i already feel pregnant....and feel symptoms..my stomach is bloated and my boobs are hard and the veins are popping... but it must be because im o'ing or left over hormones...or just wishful thinking

    Would you're body react quicker to pregnancy being i only had the D&C two weeks ago???

    I hope you all have a good weekend...and loads of baby dust to everyone

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    BFN took a first response this morning and not even the hint of a line

    i have no idea where AF is - how can i go from a 26 day cycle last month to who knows how long this one
    and why are my temps still so high!!!!

    i hate my body today - im wondering if i need to see someone or wait it out a few more months

    and i let myself get my hopes up for nothing again

    i feel pretty low today - sorry to be such a downer

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    Kell sounds promising still. Maybe it just implanted later or something that all governs the preg hormone levels. Try testing again in a few days!! Very promising with high temps!!

    Melster, I think I may be over it....seriously debating if I can handle this whole TTC thing.....not that I have admitted it until just this very moment......I am thinking I will probably give it a shot this month (obviously since in am DPO) and next month and if it doesnt work I am going to count it as I am lucky to have 2 and stop TTC. That is what I am thinking!! Melster hope you caught the eggie!! Isnt it sooo exciting when you get that +OPK I find it hilarious how excited I get!!

    Ajello, it is crap having a downer of a day isnt it.....I feel like just sitting in the corner and crying....not sure about that one. Hope your day improves!!

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    The first response are pretty accurate arnt they?
    I feel pretty moody and *****y today so i think the witch is on her way

    Can i join you in the corner what a crap day!

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    afternoon all, kellbell-i'm sorry,it's hard not to get extcited when af is late,of course your feeling down,no need to apologize,i've been told cycles can change month to month,the only thing that stays the same is that af is usually due 14 days after 'o'.'o' is the thing that can change,so if you can pinpoint that you'll have a more accurate af date...mum22-hope af stays away...reet-hope situation with in-laws calm down...possummagic-thanks,how are you going today?..melstar-still got fingers crossed for you...ajello-sorry it was a bfn.My cylces have lengthen since suffering m/c,but my age plays a part in that...

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    Oh kellbell that SUX!!! Im so sorry u had to see that single line. Ive been thinking i might do an early test but i know even tho im pretty sure im not pg i will still get very disappointed.. its just not worth it! Maybe ur luteal phase is lengthening to a normal 28-30 day cycle?? Ur body might have just needed a bit more time after ur m/c to sort itself out. I am hoping it is somehow too early for u tho. Damn it! I really thought when i saw ur name it was going to be good news and it wld be me that broke the bfp trend that bons has set this month.
    Lets all feel crap together.. i know im far fro feeling positive right now. I'm so craving chocolate.. am thinking i will defintely have to go and buy some.. maybe u need to too??! Stuff buying hpts.. lets buy $20 worth of chocolate instead!!
    Thinking of u xxx

    Ajello- Sorry to hear of ur bfn too It does take ur body a few cycles to work itself out after a m/c.. it took mine 4 months to even get af after mine! Maybe u need to feast on chocolate too? xx

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    Already started my chocolate binge - yum yum yum

    Peanut MM's to start with for me

    Lets see what else i can raid the cupboard for!!!!

    Reet i hope you get a BFP dont give up yet FX

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    at the moment coles has got huge blocks of cadbury chocolates for $4-50,peanut m&m sound good though,their one of my favourites

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    thanks ladies...

    kellbell - lets just start a chocolate binge party!! My BFN is making me depress, toooo.

    I had a two big scoop of ice-cream w toffee bits after lunch- so for now, I am really feeling sick due to over-eating!!

    Massive headache after the depressing morning(or from over-eating?) . I will give myself another week before seeing the GP if the sore BB is continuing since that get pretty bad by afternoon. Since I got cramps yesterday I OPK to see if I really really late for O. Not even a line not to mention a faint one. So here I am, NOT pg, NO AF (7days late), NO O, but sore BB. Great !! Terrific! Body (esp the womb department) on major union strike! Now a headache! Wonderful!

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    Okay lets all sit in the corner and eat chocolate and cry!!! That sounds like exactly what I need. Add to that a hot water bottle cos these AF style cramps are really annoying me and I have just taken panadol for them. Probably another **** early short whatever luteal phase for me and I will have to see a Dr this month re this......

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    BONS - congratulations on that BFP girl..... you are now betwixt and between.... the fear is paralysing huh? Sweetie just take it one moment at a time and if you can each day put your hands on your tum and be grateful for that moment. Even if all you can eek out is one moment a day.... after a while ( a long while) those moments add up and the fear is not quite as overwhelming. I am just so happy for you.

    Loops - Ahh, bills always consume our money... just glad you had some left over. I am getting excited for you. I am resting..... still. I think despite how hard it has been for me, giving up work so early was the best thing I could have done. I realised the other day I have not been at work or had my old life for almost 6 months. This is my new life now and with luck it will shortly change to something different but entirely welcome.

    Reet - oh blossom. I do know what you mean about in laws... except mine is a step mother. I wouldn't have gotten them on the phone either.... it's almost like dobbing and all you wanted to do was vent.

    Forshelby - LOL re the ****roach induced vomiting. When you're UTD things are much more sensitive than they are normally. LOL. I get the whole germ thing but I have decided it's something that I need to get over or at least relax a little on. But in my defense it's not all germs that I am hypersensitive about... mostly just gastro ( but then again after one bout of gastro I ended up with what the specialists called "post viral complications..... I had relatively intense nausea 24/7 for about 3 years...all the investigations under the sun were done.. at least I had nothing nasty....no wonder I became hypersensitive about gastro). I am with you on the spiders too. I am so pathetic, it drives me insane. Usually before I can stop myself, if a spider is near me I squeal and run away. Very brave, especially when I weight about 1000 times more than it does.

    Mathew's Mum - thinking of you and hope that this cycle is the one that brings the next bfp and sticky bub. I didn't know cycles got longer with age...

    Welcome to the newbies - Ajello and Melstar and Lil J - hopefully your stay in here is short, and I am so sorry that you had to experience the anguish of losing your angels to find your way here. I still lurk in here but don't always post.

    AFM - well 34 weeks now. I am completely and utterly amazed that that number can apply to me... I adore my new shape, even if it's inconvenient at times. Time for me to start changing my head space to labour being something that is ok & good rather than the harbinger of heartache. I am still not converted to the idea that this little one will be ok, but I don't think I could expect anything else of myself really. What's cute is DH is actually really excited. Thanks for the girls in here who really helped support me in the early days ( as you know it took me a long time to find the courage to move to another thread) - you really helped me through some very dark & lonely days earlier this year. I appreciate it and am ever hopeful you'll need that same help soonl

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    Ok ladies ive got a question that seems to be asked alot.. cld this be implantation bleeding????!
    I went to the toilet just before and when i wiped i noticed i had white cm which was a tinge of pink. Im 10dpo so i gues it cld be implantation bleeding or is it too late???!
    Forshelby- Was urs actual red blood when u had it or 'pinking'. And how many dpo were u???
    I know this is a question that u guys cant really answer.. all i can do is test or wait for af to arrive but im a tad bit excited.. altho im still feeling as tho i will defintely get a bfn this month. Im sure its just my body being its usual messed upself!
    There is a glimmer of hope i guess tho! (all ready to be shattered when af arrives in a few days)

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