Kellie- Your FIL has a very hard decision ahead of him and it will affect everyone either way, all anyone can do in these situations is hope that he can get through this with as little pain as possible no matter the outcome We will be here for you

I'm not sure which day to test yet, I'm thinking to go by my ticker but I might test early incase I did O CD10 because there is still hope for a BFP then hehe. I have some internet cheapies left so I might use them to test on the 10th and then my FRER on the 13th and if still nothing and no AF then I will test again on the 18th like FF suggest lol. I'm hoping by then that I will get some sort of answer, if not then back off to the the docs with me.