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thread: Trying to Conceive after Miscarriage or Loss ~ November 2010

  1. #145
    Registered User

    Nov 2009
    In Paradise
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    Goodluck for tomorrow Joeve.

    I really havent had the energy to post in here lately as things don't go to plan as usual. Dh and I have been having problems and I don't know whether we will even be trying this month to be honest. it doesn't seem his heart is in it at the moment and although he was really happy when we were pregnant he has been really depressed lately.... And avoiding me....etc.

    So goodluck to everyone else, I will be lurking but I don't know if it's even worth testing for ovulation, it will probably just make me mad when he doesn't want to try, ... I don't know anymore......
    Lots of love and baby dust to all

  2. #146
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    Aug 2010
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    Hey ladies...

    Just wanted to let you all know im thinking about you!!!

    Mum2romone...im sorry things arent good at the moment...keep you're chin up!!!

    ATM.....im back at work and went to sleep at 7 last night...didnt even unpack i was so tired...have dr's app friday so i will let uno how i go......i have fear at the moment which im trying to combat!!

  3. #147
    BellyBelly Member

    Apr 2010
    PROSTON QLD.
    604

    Joeve~ Good Luck today hun and hope your appointment goes wonderfully darl, thinking of you and can't wait to read all about it.......I haven't O'd yet so we might get a sneaky one in...lol....but I won't hold my breathe this month....lol

    Sweetie~ I'm AF stays away for you hun and you can get your results back asap darl, good luck.

    Mum2Ramone~ Sorry you are having some problems at home darl I know how you feel right now, my DF seems to be in the same boat as your DH. He was telling me yesterday he doesn't know what's wrong with him he feels depressed and just doesn't want to do anything at the moment and he is also feeling really tired as well. Hope things get better for you soon darl, sending you some cyber hugs. Take care of you.

    Melster~ Good Luck with your appointment I hope it all goes well for you and your little bub in the making, sending you lots of sticky vibes.

    AFM~ Nothing to report at all today pretty boring in my neck of the woods this cycle. No O as yet and still no DTD. Poor DF is going through a bit of a rough trot at the moment feeling a bit down and very worn out. Making an appointment for him to go to the DR and get a BT done just to check him out. I told him this morning I am gunna put him out for a spell like we do with the horses and hopefully he will come back in feeling refreshed and full of energy.....lol.....so next month when I start the Clomid he is full of beans and can rise to the occassion for me IYKWIM.......lol....instead of falling asleep at the drop of a hat.......lol.....At least I made him laugh though he wasn't a happy camper yesterday at all......

  4. #148
    BellyBelly Member

    Mar 2009
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    Hi girls!

    Sorry I've been MIA. On my phone now so no persies but I have been reading, just feeling a bit slack!

    I'm on CD17, 6DPO I think. Feeling a bit bloated and have slightly tingly nipples but that is all. Bit tired too.

    Really hope we get some more BFPs in here soon! Hope you are all having a lovely day! Xx

  5. #149
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    Oct 2006
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    Hi girls.
    Thankyou all for thinking of me. I have been given an IVF timeframe for March next year and FS wants me to have a crack at Clomid, he warned me of the side effects so I am a bit freaked out!!!

  6. #150
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    Nov 2009
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    What are the side effects Joeve?

    hope they answered whatever questions you have, so are you thinking about clomid or going to keep trying a la natural?

  7. #151
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    Aug 2010
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    Clairesmummy...Maybe he needs a massage or something he really enjoys to relax him...what about a little getaway or something...i swear having that massage near o helped me relax and concieve...

    Stoked....hey..ill x fingers for BFP

    Joeve....try not be too freaked out....maybe ask some of the ladies who are on clomid...good luck darl

    Mumtoromone..hope you're feeling a bit better

  8. #152
    BellyBelly Member

    Apr 2010
    PROSTON QLD.
    604

    Stoked~ Got everything crossed for you darl. let us know how you go not much longer left of your 2WW hun. Good luck.

    Joeve~ What were the side effects your DR warned you about on the Clomid hun mine never said anything about SE.....Should I be worried? And how are you going in your 2WW darl? Hopefully you will get a sneaky BFP and won't need the Clomid. Good Luck.

    Melster~ Thanks for the advice on the massage wouldn't mind one myself but I got high hopes of that happening, by the time we get all the work done here when DF gets home from work we are lucky to get a snuggle in....lol.....oh well all good thing come to those who wait I guess.....lol

    AFM~ Well it's CD18 today and haven't O'd as yet, we did DTD last night though. The only thing I have at the moment is a HUGE desire to DTD all the time......lol....sorry if TMI ladies. Had a bit of a headache on and off today and some cramping on my left side so O time can't be to far away I hope.....FX... Praying I don't have a 45 day cycle this time around......

    Minnie~ Where are you? And how are you going, hope you are getting plenty BDing on before you O darl. Good Luck

    Loops~ How are you going darl, hope everything is going well for you. And bugger about me missing the clip last night on CMC, I wasn't a happy camper.

  9. #153
    2014 BellyBelly RAK Recipient.

    Feb 2010
    Gold Coast
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    Hi ladies, just popping my head in to check on you all and let you know I'm still lurking on and off.

    Sorry no persies, there's a lot to go back over, this thread flies, just like the good old days!

    Thinking of you all

  10. #154
    Registered User

    Nov 2006
    675

    Hi Ladies, I have been stalking for a while now but think it is time I joined you. I must warn you though I don't plan on staying long (famous last words?).....
    A bit about me.....had my 2nd m/c (a D&C at 12 wks) a month ago today. Guess who should show up yesterday exactly 28 days later? You guessed it - old af
    Start clomid tomorrow so really need to think of myself as TTC again now.....
    My history......DS who is almost 6 took 2 yrs to conceive & it was on my 4th round of clomid that it happened. 2 yrs later fell pg naturally after 6mnths TTC but had a m/c at 12 weeks. 8 months after that & on round 1 of clomid I fell pg with DD almost 3. This last time fell pg after 6mnths TTC & 1st round of clomid again but ended in m/c According to tests I do O naturally but personally I think I need the clomid to give me a 'lift'
    Anyway, I feel like I know you girls a bit so there's the lowdown on me. I really hope to be a part of the mass BFP party that is about to happen in here so feel like I am joining at a good time. It is always hard TTC in the lead up to xmas but I don't want it to be the "month that got away" so we will be trying while enjoying some xmas cheer
    A note for those about to start clomid - I have never really noticed any side effects from it (although my husband may not concur). Don't be scared, embrace it & here's hoping it brings you your much wanted BFP.
    Also, I must warn you all I am more a reader than a poster but I will do my best.
    Good luck to all & look forward to getting to know you all

  11. #155
    Registered User

    Jun 2010
    Brisbane
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    Oh girls, got AF today That means our test results better come back soon! Otherwise will have to make the decision to start cycle for frozen embryo transfer in 10 days (plus have to pay up on day 11!)... Suppose, if I don't take up the opportunity now, I have to wait for another two months, grrrrrrrrrrr.

    I hope you are all well, and looking forward to the weekend. For those in Brisbane, let's pray this rain goes away!

  12. #156
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    Oct 2006
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    Hi girls,
    Mum2Romone and Clairesmummy - SE are, moodiness, hot flushes, excessive sweating and fuzzy vision and yellow spots - if you get the last 2 stop immediately
    Oppps didn't mean to post I hadn't finished and lost all my persies...

  13. #157
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    Oct 2009
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    hi girls,

    i'll be back from a proper update tomorrow but i just wanted to say to joeve try not to worry about the clomid side effects, im sure some people get that but i don't get any (maybe slightly tender breasts in the 2nd part of the cycle but thats normal for me anyway), apart from that i wouldn't even be able to tell i had taken them !

  14. #158
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    Nov 2009
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    The side effects don't sound too bad, except tthe last two I'd be giving it a go because in hate waiting, and this ttc waiting is the worst lol..... Anything that could help, I guess

    well we are back in action lol, hopefully this will be the month! I haven't had a positive opk yet but it's not exactly close enough to supposed ovulation to show up yet...( see ticker lol) so I'm trying to relax and not be a drag,

    how's everyone else doing today?

  15. #159
    Registered User

    Aug 2010
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    had my obs app and he said i was ovulating and it needed to be over 20 and mine was 35 and i said well im actually pregnant....so i have an app for a scan in two weeks...so i will be seven weeks.........im very nervous and scared....bring on the scan

  16. #160
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    Nov 2009
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    Oh Yay Melster for having your obs appointment ! so scan in two weeks Awesome ! that will be reassuring i'm sure....

  17. #161
    BellyBelly Member

    Apr 2010
    PROSTON QLD.
    604

    Forshelby~ Hey hun how are you? Great to see you popping in from time to time hope everything is going great for you and your bub.

    Mummytotwo~ Sorry for your loss hun, great to see you have a positive attitude towards TTC again darl, I wish you all the very best of luck and sending you lots of Hope you find some great support in here and feel free to post anything we need some noise in here atm it's getting a little to quiet.

    Sweetie~ Sorry AF arrived and couldn't wait for you to get your results back darl.

    Joeve~ I picked my Clomid up the other day and had a good read of all the possible SE and WOW......but I'm still gunna give it a go, there's so many ladies that do take it and have had great success with it so I reckon it's worth a try darl. How are you going in your 2WW darl?

    Mum2ramone~ Good Luck with catching that egg darl. Hope time goes by quickly for you and you get your BFP at the end of this cycle, FX for you.

    Melster~ Good luck with your scan bet your counting down the days now.

    Minnie, Stoked~ Hope all is well with you both and you are having a wonderful week end.

    AFM~ Had some EWCM a few days ago then a few days of not much CM then yesterday and today lots of EWCM and a temp dip this morning so I'm only guessing but going by past cycles the temp dip is usually a good sign for Oing today but this is the first cycle I have had EWCM before Oing, never had it like this before. In saying that we have only DTD once this cycle and not really phased by that this month I would like to get my horse broken to saddle before my BFP. So the 2WW for me will probably only be waiting for AF to arrive to start my Clomid. I have my tablets ready and waiting now I just have to get some more OPKs. I have a good feeling about my new approaching cycle, so I have my FX for a BFP next month.

  18. #162
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    Oct 2006
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    Clairesmummy - oh good for the ewcm! You may just do the one shot wonder and get your BFP! What days are you supposed to take your clomid? I hear lots of different things but my FS has said days 2 -6. Some girls seem to start on day 5.....

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