Trying to Conceive after Miscarriage or Loss ~ November 2010
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I am sorry AF arrived Clairesmummy. It did for me too, just last night
Things are looking up for you Melster! Goodluck!
Loops, like Forshelby said, it WILL happen one day... you'll get your baby. I just hope it is sooner rather than later for you xx
Hi everyone else
Well AF came for me lastnight. This cycle was another 25 dayer... i hope it is not a sign for things to come! Although, i guess it makes the wait shorter for the next round! Off to the Dr again tomorrow for all my test results.
clairesmummy and stoked....sorrry about af ladies.........
clairesmummy....i suppose for u its kinda a relief at least now u have finally got af and now u can moved on
stoked...yeah i had an early one last cycle...8 days...it does make the cycle come round quicker.....
atm....i am about 6 or7 dpo but not exactly sure......least af hasnt come not like last cycle.......i felt so so sick this morning but its past now......i have been peeing for the last few days but i dont think i have an infection or anything.....its been really clear.......and sorry about the info but kinda smells like fluid..........i have had creamy cm and my cervix is a bit lower.......been having on and off ovary pain.....boobs are ok...just a bit tingly at moments and a bit achy......been wanting to go to the toilet at the other end too......so its going to be very interesting for the next week........stay away af.........
Stoked - So sorry hun that AF arrived for you, I hope she is kind and leaves you quickly darl. Sending you some massive hugs.
Melster - I don't know if I would call it a relief as I was starting to take all the signs as good things about to happen, so no real relief here. The only releif I will get is when and if my gynae can tell me why I can not fall pregnant. Good luck with this cycle and your BFP is just around the corner.
AFM - Not really on a downer today trying to stay strong and hold onto hope until I see the gynae next monday. Still have a headache today obviously an AF thing nothing more than some streaking on loo paper when I wipe so far but AF has got to be on the way for me. With out living in hope I have nothing so here's to hoping and praying that this gynae can do the trick for us.
And if he can't well we will be learning to live with the things we already have in our life that we are so greatful for and moving onto other things for our future.
melster: did you test again this morning ? hope you are feeling good this morning :-)
clairesmummy and Joeve: i guess the best advice i can give you is to try and remember the drs are there to help you so don't be intimidated by them, have a think about what you want to ask and write it down before you go. like possum said it might be something easy to fix (i have lots of complicated issues but once im on the right medication everything falls into place).
mum2romone: i dont know what those pains could be, our bodies are so hard to understand sometimes !
afm: well i have bright red bleeding this morning and pain so i am assuming this is the start of my period on day 24, very confusing after the last cycle was 55 but it means i can get onto the next round of clomid, this was either going to work or hopefully get my cycle on track so it looks like it has done the latter so thats something i guess !
possum: good to see you pop in here, fingers crossed for you for the 2ww ! no there was no dtd on sun, we had driven 1000kms and i was exhausted !
matthewsmum: i hope the sore boobs are a good sign for you ! will you test tomorrow or wait ?
hi everyone, minniemouse-yes,i'll test tomorrow before acupuncture session,if it is a bfn,she'll be able to do more aggressive session,& start me on some herbs to try to flush the tubes.has the pink colour stopped this morning?....mum2ramone-might be ovulation,i'm not sure what day your on...possummagic-fingers crossed...
Melster~ Thank you for the good luck wishes for my FS appointment. Sending you lots of sticky vibes. Did you test again this morning?
Joeve~ I know how you feel I am exactly the same, never had any medical procedures done on myself before so it is a bit daunting. But I'm sure you will be fine darl I just know it. Here's to hoping for a sneaky sticky BFP beforehand though.
Possum~ Good Luck with your 2WW hun, I have everything crossed for you. Keep us posted with any symptoms darl and how you are going. And that's exactly how I feel you got it in one hun.
Minnie~ So does this mean AF has arrived for you darl? If so wow the Clomid really shortened that cycle for you. Praying you get a BFP with your next cycle darl, FX for you. Thank you for your advice I have no idea at all what to ask my FS when I see him on Monday apart from why can't I get PG? And what the hang was my last cycle all about??? I haven't even bought any more OPKs for this cycle just thought I would wait and see what my FS says and see what tests he wants to do with me.
Matthew's Mum~ Good luck with your testing tomoro, darl I have everything crossed for you for a sneaky sticky BFP.
AFM~ I have 2.5 days to go now until my appointment, we are off to Tamworth tomoro to pick up a horse and won't be home until Sunday night some time. Then Monday off to see the FS. Feeling pretty good about just getting impatient now and want answers. Whatever they throw at me I will try and find a way to deal with it. I will be CD8 when I go in there so if he does an US he should get some idea where I am at with my cycle. Would they be able to see if I am about to O on an US at CD8??????
clairesmummy-i've had internal u/s where f/s has commented on lining of the uterus as an indicator of 'o'ing ,but i have found with me they ususally do bt to get that info & usually a little bit more into cycle.Safe travels.
Melster: great to hear your line is getting darker. my family fallout happened almost 6 months ago and was over my last m/c, the short story is apart from my dh and kids i have (had) my mum, dad and one brother, anyway when i had my last m/c my mum was completely unsupportive of me, said some terrible things to me while i was still bleeding and cramping from it (along the lines of i don't know why you want another one you have 2 healthy children that should be enough for you etc), i was shocked, i was so hurt i couldn't even speak to her (this all happened in my house), so after an hour she stormed off because she wasn't "welcome here" and left, she then ran to my brother and told him what an awful person i was, same with my dad and that was the end of my relationship with them all, it has been a devastating 6 months for me, i thought families were meant to support you no matter what, i didn't do a thing wrong and ended up with my whole family turning against me because i upset mum !!!!!!
mum2romone: sorry af found you, hopefully we are all setting up for a good cycle this time around
joeve: where are you at with your cycle ?
clairesmummy: hope you are feeling ok this morning
Stoked - Iona - KellBell - Thank you all so much for the wishes of good luck. Right now I sit here thinking I should be in the shower and getting ready we have a 2 hour drive to my FS and have to be there by 12pm to fill out paper work and I have my appointment at 12.30pm. I'm feeling a little nervous but also very much relieved that this is ALL finally rolling along for me....I think I just wanna breathe a HUGE sigh of relief right now as TODAY is FINALLY here. I will be back late this afternoon and I will be definately letting you all know what happened and what my FS wants to happen. I expect to be feeling like a lab rat for the next cycle or so.....lol.....but whatever it takes I WILL BE THERE.
Take care all my lovely supportive BB friends and I will be back soon.
xoxoxox
Thanks for asking about me etc.
Minniemouse ~ Really sorry about your family troubles. That sounds horrible your mum doing that. Really hope things improve hun.
Melster ~ very exciting, tight for you!
Clairesmummy ~ Good luck today hun, hope you get some answers and can move forward quickly to get your BFP!
Mum2Ramone ~ very sorry about AF arriving and at your sons B'day of all rotten times. You will get there again, keep hoping and trying. You've only just had your D&C so your body probably just needs a bit more time. Goodluck for this month.
Joeve and Stoked ~ hi, hope you're both well
Matthewsmum ~ glad you got some answers and can start on getting your body is great shape and then you'll be right. To find out you were low in all those things did you just have to have a blood test? The reason I ask is Im keen to find out if Im lacking in anything which would cause our embryos not to stick. All the best!
Hi to anyone I may have missed and I'm sorry if I have. Hoping everyone is doing pretty well despite our losses etc ~
AFM ~ Im doin ok despite the no baby. DH just found out last night he got a job he applied for - he is wrapped - no more milking cows for him in a few weeks, he'll be transporting them instead And everything else is pretty good too, we are getting our finances sorted, ive started weight watchers to lose a little bit of my tummy LOL and we are just trying to enjoy life and take a breather from TTC. Although I will test for O still but just have some fun
Trying to Conceive after Miscarriage or Loss ~ November 2010
Really sorry about your family troubles. That sounds horrible your mum doing that. Really hope things improve hun. 
tight for you!
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