Trying to Conceive after Miscarriage or Loss ~ November 2010

[Iona Macca]

GL clairesmummy at your FS appt, hope you start getting some answers and that bfp is round the corner

[kellbell]

Best of luck Clairesmummy will be thinking of you today
Another step towards your bfp xoxoxo

[minniemouse]

Melster: great to hear your line is getting darker. my family fallout happened almost 6 months ago and was over my last m/c, the short story is apart from my dh and kids i have (had) my mum, dad and one brother, anyway when i had my last m/c my mum was completely unsupportive of me, said some terrible things to me while i was still bleeding and cramping from it (along the lines of i don't know why you want another one you have 2 healthy children that should be enough for you etc), i was shocked, i was so hurt i couldn't even speak to her (this all happened in my house), so after an hour she stormed off because she wasn't "welcome here" and left, she then ran to my brother and told him what an awful person i was, same with my dad and that was the end of my relationship with them all, it has been a devastating 6 months for me, i thought families were meant to support you no matter what, i didn't do a thing wrong and ended up with my whole family turning against me because i upset mum !!!!!!

mum2romone: sorry af found you, hopefully we are all setting up for a good cycle this time around

joeve: where are you at with your cycle ?

clairesmummy: hope you are feeling ok this morning

[Clairesmummy]

Stoked - Iona - KellBell - Thank you all so much for the wishes of good luck. Right now I sit here thinking I should be in the shower and getting ready we have a 2 hour drive to my FS and have to be there by 12pm to fill out paper work and I have my appointment at 12.30pm. I'm feeling a little nervous but also very much relieved that this is ALL finally rolling along for me....I think I just wanna breathe a HUGE sigh of relief right now as TODAY is FINALLY here. I will be back late this afternoon and I will be definately letting you all know what happened and what my FS wants to happen. I expect to be feeling like a lab rat for the next cycle or so.....lol.....but whatever it takes I WILL BE THERE.
Take care all my lovely supportive BB friends and I will be back soon.
xoxoxox

[Loops12]

Hi Ladies

Thanks for asking about me etc.
Minniemouse ~ Really sorry about your family troubles. That sounds horrible your mum doing that. Really hope things improve hun.

Melster ~ very exciting, tight for you!

Clairesmummy ~ Good luck today hun, hope you get some answers and can move forward quickly to get your BFP!

Mum2Ramone ~ very sorry about AF arriving and at your sons B'day of all rotten times. You will get there again, keep hoping and trying. You've only just had your D&C so your body probably just needs a bit more time. Goodluck for this month.

Joeve and Stoked ~ hi, hope you're both well

Matthewsmum ~ glad you got some answers and can start on getting your body is great shape and then you'll be right. To find out you were low in all those things did you just have to have a blood test? The reason I ask is Im keen to find out if Im lacking in anything which would cause our embryos not to stick. All the best!

Hi to anyone I may have missed and I'm sorry if I have. Hoping everyone is doing pretty well despite our losses etc ~

AFM ~ Im doin ok despite the no baby. DH just found out last night he got a job he applied for - he is wrapped - no more milking cows for him in a few weeks, he'll be transporting them instead And everything else is pretty good too, we are getting our finances sorted, ive started weight watchers to lose a little bit of my tummy LOL and we are just trying to enjoy life and take a breather from TTC. Although I will test for O still but just have some fun

[Melster]

clairesmummy..how did u go darl? U ok?

Minniemouse....wow......i cant believe ur family would do that.....how could that be turned around on u that ur the one to blame.....i dont know all the ins and outs but it sounds like there completely in the wrong and thats such a horrible thing to say to someone when they have just lost there baby.....i hope for u that they realise there wrong and apologise to u......im sorry u feel down babe..

Loops....thanks......hope ww goes well...i have been on it before and its great.....good luck with ur relaxing

atm...been enjoying sunny qld........im so so moody tho and very snappy...i just cant help it.......and im feeling really flabby too........i know i should be appreciative that im pregnant.....and i should stop worrying about my weight........maybe its just the hormones......

[kellbell]

Just stalking you clairesmummy for your news

[Joeve]

Hi girls
Clairesmummy - I am hanging out to hear how you went!
Minniemouse- oh babe sorry to read your story
Melster - yes be happy and revel in the pregnantness!!!

Hello everyone else!
AFM - I have the first bits of EWCM and some twinges hinting 'o' could be on the way....now to convince DH to BD but without pressure IYKWIM? I am trying to go with the flow this month....

[Clairesmummy]

Good evening all, sorry to keep you all in suspense for so long. to you all for every single one of you that are there for me through all this TTC, I just hope you ALL know how much I truly do appreciate every single one of you lovely caring supportive ladies. Sending you all great BIG hugs. So I don't keep you all sitting around in suspense any longer here is what happened to me today at my appointment. Sorry if it's long winded. Joeve- You have nothing at all to worry about with your first appointment hun.
Got in there DR typed everything he needed to know into his computer, took me straight in and had a good look at my cervix his comment was " Your cervix looks great"
He then did an internal exam and told me my uterus felt great......he then did an internal US and took measurements on my uterus and ovaries, uterus was great in my US right Ovary was great Left Ovary...his comment was have you ever been diagnosed with PCOS........I told him NO.......he kept looking at it for awhile and said I have a fair few follicles on my left ovary but it looks great as well so no PCOS. He finished my internal US and I cleaned up and went back out to him and he told DF everything internally looks great no problems there at all. He explained to us that DF was to have his SA done so we can get that out the road straight away and if his SA comes back good then we will know that we are just dealing with ME. He told us the last thing they want to do is check my tubes so he gave me a presription for Clomid and I'm to start that next cycle 2 tablets (100mg) a day from day 5-day 9 then a BT on CD21 to check my Progestrone levels. So my first appointment is over and done with now to WAIT yet again for my next cycle then start the Clomid and pray it does the trick for me and I O. DF did his SA today his not sure if he gave them enough to test though but we get the results if they can get them this Wednesday for that. So that's everything that happened and now I'm hoping I have a normal cycle this time round and AF arrives soon so I can get the Clomid into me.

[Joeve]

Clairesmummy - wow that sounds positive! I am so glad for you. FX you get on the clomid soon! Hmmmm now I am counting down the days til its my turn.....

[kellbell]

yahhhh

[Clairesmummy]

joeve~ My Dr was pretty good and he was VERY straight forward with us no beating round the bush and NO medical talk either he put everything in our words it was great. I thought that they only put you on 50mg of Clomid first up but anyhow he said 100mg so it's 100mg we shall take then....lol......first time I can think of in a long time that I want AF here before I have even O'd.......lol.....I'm still hoping and praying they don't have to check to my tubes.....I'm such a sook.....but it sounds a little scary to me.....But if they need to do that then they will.

Thanks Kell- I also have a very good feeling about this as well, my gut tells me this is the right thing to be doing for us.......Just hoping now that DF had enough stuff in his jar for them to test for us so he don't have to go back through it all again.......I felt so bad for him having to do it, he was quiet embarassed by not getting much in the jar IYKWIM.

[Iona Macca]

oh clairesmummy, that is awesome news....now fx that your body behaves itself and the clomid works and your bfp arrives in no time

[Clairesmummy]

Thank you Iona-----I really do FEEL FABULOUS TONIGHT.........Feel like shouting in excitement, I haven't felt this great in such a long long time.

[kellbell]

Your so close to a BFP i can feel it im excited for you already

[Iona Macca]

Thank you Iona-----I really do FEEL FABULOUS TONIGHT.........Feel like shouting in excitement, I haven't felt this great in such a long long time.

ur welcome sweety and don't you worry i will be stalking you all the way until you get your bfp xoxox

[Clairesmummy]

Ohhhhhh thank you so much to you both Kell and Iona...seriously ladies you have both bought tears to my eyes.....Good happy ones that is definately not sad tears. I never thought I would or could have such great caring friends that I have never even met. I love all you ladies on here you are all truly fabulous to me. Thank you

[kellbell]

we want you in the Preg thread ill be stalking you too!
Hopefully a sneaky BFP this month