thread: Trying to Conceive after Miscarriage or Loss ~ September 08 #2

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  1. #1
    Registered User

    Aug 2008
    Somerset - UK
    95

    JOEY123: Congrats on your i am so pleased for you!!!!

    Ruthie & Toccara: I still have you both in my and hope you both get your little miracles

    AFM: I have my first midwife appointment today, i'm a little scared, i know they will usually only ask all the medical questions etc and prob take some blood, but am still worried about it.

    I'm still wondering and hoping that little bub is still alive and growing by the day. I lost my angel at 7-8 weeks last time so past week or so has been very scary, every little movemment or feeling inside me, i'm wondering and hoping that everything is still alright.

    Sleeping has got slightly better, but not much and nausea is still lurking around, i can only take it as a good sign.

    Right must get back to work

    Big to everyone

    xx

  2. #2
    Registered User

    Mar 2008
    306

    Joey - congrats! great news

    Hannah - hello and welcome, don't think we've properly met yet. Couldn't go past your friend's wtf comment without adding my favourite one after my first m/c - my friend actually said to me "well, that one was probably a boy and now you can try again for a girl". Yep. Firstly, never said I wanted a girl, a boy would have been amazing too. Secondly, that baby turned out to have been a girl. Thirdly - just a completely daft and stupid thing to say! I sympathise!! How good is it though that we can come here and vent - I know I would not be functioning at half this level without this forum/thread...

    Hello everyone else

    Had a sucky day at work today ...... get ready for number one a$$ wipe boss story of the year ...... found out today at work that my boss twice removed is "irate" at me having 2 weeks off after the 2nd miscarriage as it means he has failed his target of low team sick leave for the year (and may not get as high a bonus next year - cause its all about the money). He questioned (via my boss) that I needed that much time off. He wanted to punish my whole team by not allowing anyone to have leave until January. Yes - this is a true story. I can hear you all booing and hissing in the background and I know 100% that you would all love to get a swipe at him if you could!! What a tosser! The best part is - he did not have the balls to say this to my face.... I am documenting all of this in case I decide to pursue something more serious/lodge a complaint down the track. Bit too emotional to do so at the moment.

    Off to Sydney tomorrow for Gran's funeral so will be MIA from here until about Thursday... will be thinking of you all and just wanted to say - chins up lovelies. We are all amazing strong women who WILL have another baby. Soon.



    xx
    Last edited by jenushka; September 15th, 2008 at 10:23 PM.

  3. #3
    Registered User

    May 2008
    North side, Brisbane
    754

    fifi - I'm sure all will go well. Positive thinking. Let us know the good news when you get home.

    Jenushka - what a smart thing to start logging it all. Wait till you feel better, have some additional ammo, and then go kick his hairy ar$e!
    Thinking of you and your family through this tough time. Take care honey.

  4. #4
    BellyBelly Member

    Jun 2008
    Brisbane
    185

    Hey lovely ladies,

    Sorry I have not been around for awhile... I have been trying to stop obsessing about becoming preg and have had weddings, work and everything at the moment. I have missed you all though.

    Toccara and Ruthie - I am so sorry for your loss......... you are in my prayers

    Joey and Krystielove - yayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayaya congratulations.

    AFM - got some spotting today so thing AF will arrive yet again. Saw gyno again and he wants to sit and wait for a few months and then get DH to do another sperm test. Soooooo alll I can do is wait I guess.

    to all the newies..... hope your time with us is short

    to all long term BB ladies

    Speak soon

  5. #5
    Registered User

    Jul 2008
    Brisbane
    278

    Hi Ladies Im not too sure if I've come to the right place? I've been hanging out in the TTC thread but thought I'd come say over here too. I feel I need to vent but not too sure what Im venting about IYKWIM?? Im just having one of those moments

    I had a MC at 7w3d in July and this is our 2nd cycle TTC since the MC and our 5th cycle in total.

    Anyways on a positive note Congratulations to those that just got BFP's Thats just awesome news!