nickster--Hey! So good to see you! Wow, 35 weeks!!!! I can't believe it!! Good for you for sticking in there with work--it's gotta be getting tough getting around! Wishing you a quick, pain-free delivery (yeah, right, but we can wish, can't we? ) Keep in touch--we miss hearing from you! and
Hannah, Mannie & Larz: Thank you for you thoughts and prayer. I'm hanging in there. Still crying. hubby and I sat down lat night and talked about it for the 1st time.. he broke down and we hugged and cried together. This is the first time he cries about all this. I'm still crying today.
Issy: Welcome back, thanks for the hugs.. I need them so much.
Louise: Welcome hun. My heart goes out to you after your loss as I too suffered my 3rd loss on 9-11-08. I am here for you.. not sure if I'm strong enough to give you strength.. but know I'm suffering with you.
Fifi: About the Doppler; I thought of it and mentioned it to the doc when I was 7 weeks ..he said I could get it but I wouldn't hear anything till after 15 weeks maybe 20. Waste of time.. most likely.
I wanted it for peace of mind.. yet my worst fears happened anyways.
It's all up to you.. but if you ask your doc even the sites where they are sold/ rented they all say it works best at 20 weeks and over. SUCKS!
It's your choice to get it.. but that's what the doc told me.
Good luck.. your baby will be ok. I know that.
Nickster: Welcome back and good luck with your baby. Wishing you the very best.
Me: All I can say is I'm hanging in there. Still crying, still aching.. when will it stop??? Dunno.. just it hurts. I have 5 days not pregnant anymore. it hurts more as the days pass.. I thought it was the other way around.. I seem to hurt more.
I'm so sorry I sound winy and clingy. all this sucks. It was a big shock..all m/c are.. just I really thought this was finally my happy ending. So on Nov am not looking forward to all the stupid lab work. shots, meds, scans, more meds, ALL OVER AGAIN. But like I said.. ANYTHING FOR A BABY!!!
I'm still hopeful for a 2009 baby. Maybe it can happen still.
Fifi-Theres a doppler you can get off line called angel sounds, There really cheep and are like Ulrasound technoligy. My friend could here her babys heart beat at 10 weeks on it... :-D Fetal Dopplers. Click on that and it will show you what it is..
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