Babyfever - don't know about being strong. I remember when I first found out she was pg. I was very jealous. She had a little baby, i'd just lost mine, she wasn't trying (she was actually talking about going back onto contraception), i've been trying for years. First thoughts - "should have been me". But today when her mum stopped and told me was "i'm glad it was a boy and i'm glad everything is ok" Maybe my reaction would have been different if it was a girl (that's what i think my angel was) and even though I'd dearly love to have a girl the ultimate would be a healthy bub to have in my arms - boy or girl. I don't "own" any names and probably would have used the same one as her if we both had had girls. I just don't like people to think we've copied. BTW her mum was very surprised when I said I hadn't seen her for months. This is a lady that I used to care for her kids when she went to work - I had the youngest girl from 6mo to 5 and a bit when she started school and the little boy from 6 weeks til about 10mo. I had always been invited to their birthday parties, and the kids mum considered me "mum" too (always ringing for advice if her own mum was away).

Hope you get good test results back tomorrow.