Trying to Conceive after Miscarriage or Loss ~ September 08 #2

This is a thread for TTC after miscarriage. As such kindness, compassion and sensitivity to others needs to be the filter that is used prior to posting.

I have culled some posts as they IMO are not fitting for this thread. Lets keep on task - if you wish to discuss your sexual life there is an AO forum you can apply to. My suggestion is that you do this.

Discussions such as the ones that have been deleted with regard to drinking etc are not acceptable in this thread due to the lack of sensitivity and compassion that they represent.

Anneebee: I suggest you go back and read the forum guidelines carefully and all your questions will have answers.

Oh, I see. I was like "Wait, 2003 would have been 5 years ago not 3!" I guess when you said "3 years ago" maybe you were just thinking of the year 2003. I'm just paranoid I guess and catch things all the time that make me think Hmmm....ya know? After getting close to someone in another TTC forum and then finding out they faked having cancer (seriously!!) I have a hard time trusting people, which is probably why I lurk and don't post. Annnnnddd back to lurking now......

Leary- I know who you are. How long has it been since I was on the Site? Long ago. You guys never got to know me long enough to understand anything or gave me time or day. Please leave me alone & grow up. I never lied to you all NEVER!.. Someday one you girls are going to end up making someone kill themselfs..I was rapped in high school! And, the guy was not charged because the police officer that found the guy ontop of me said well it was her fault. I got kicked out for 30 days and the guy stayed in school I came back and dropped out. And, since the cop that was working at the school was from the Kansas Police Deparement when the other police showed up he lied to the other police & so the guy was never put in jail because it was basically he said she said stuff since the police man never came up to the matter and said she was rapped and was screaming for help. I have been bad at grammer & spelling so there for some of my posts are confusing because I type really fast without thinking and click the go button. And since my grammer is horrible everything kinda blurs together..

There you have it all... Thats why you all were so confuesed. Because my post were all over the place. And everytime I tried to explain things got worse and no one listened.

Just leave me alone! And, if you keep contiuning with this I will press charges I will find who you are and press harrasment charges. There was no need for you to come on here and bash..

Flowerchild - I apologise again. It was never my intention to offend anyone. :doh:

To all the ladies here, please accept my apologies I would never intentionally offend any one of you. I was just expressing a humourous event that I have found myself in during these crazy times we are all going through. It was just for giggles girls, not to upset anyone. But I'll make sure to go AO if I need to share any more of those stories.

Babyfever - Good luck tomorrow with your results. :)

Babyfever - I was just about log off when I saw your last post. Are you ok? You can talk to me if you need to. I'm a very good listener. Here's a big :hug: just for you.

Hi girls, thanks for all the well-wishes and for thinking of me :hug: It was a lot of fun telling my parents and I can't wait until you all get to do the same! We even told my step sons today. They were thrilled. They both only want a sister though. To the extent that they are talking about selling each other on ebay if we have a boy :ROFL:

I'll be back in a few minutes with some persies. I'm jsut going through the posts now to see how you are all doing :)

Babyfever - don't know about being strong. I remember when I first found out she was pg. I was very jealous. She had a little baby, i'd just lost mine, she wasn't trying (she was actually talking about going back onto contraception), i've been trying for years. First thoughts - "should have been me". But today when her mum stopped and told me was "i'm glad it was a boy and i'm glad everything is ok" Maybe my reaction would have been different if it was a girl (that's what i think my angel was) and even though I'd dearly love to have a girl the ultimate would be a healthy bub to have in my arms - boy or girl. I don't "own" any names and probably would have used the same one as her if we both had had girls. I just don't like people to think we've copied. BTW her mum was very surprised when I said I hadn't seen her for months. This is a lady that I used to care for her kids when she went to work - I had the youngest girl from 6mo to 5 and a bit when she started school and the little boy from 6 weeks til about 10mo. I had always been invited to their birthday parties, and the kids mum considered me "mum" too (always ringing for advice if her own mum was away).

Hope you get good test results back tomorrow. :hug:

Anna- Thanks sweets. How was your weekend? And, what you got planned this week? I'm going to Florda my first plane ride & trip out of the state I'm so excited. Me and DH are celabrating our Honeymoon since we got married in the court house while I was pregnant so we didn't get to have a honeymoon.

Molly-:hug: Exactly we don't own names, But It does hurt to hear that someone is using a name you wanted to use for your own little child. Expechally when you lost a child that you were going to name that. I thought my angel baby I lost in July was a boy myself I just had that feeling. Glad I'm not the only one who can feel what our angel babies could have been. What would the name have been for your daughter if you don't mind me asking? My little ones name would have been Preston. :-D. That's so sweet of the other mum to be so kind. Thank you for the wishes.

I do have a question about turning someone in for harassment. I did pm the mod about whats going on and some of the things that happened over a year ago so, She wouldn't be lost. I don't need to lose a comforting supportive site again over some harasser. And, she/or he is scaring me and my life, I have children too & I have my myspace linked in my profile & I'm sure she does have pictures. For goodness sake its been a year I don't understand what I did to deseve this.. ..

Babyfever - Of course I will help you but I don't know what PM stands for. :redface:

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Babyfever - Of course I will help you but I don't know what PM stands for. :redface:

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I put a message on your profile vister message place. You can go to my profile and there will be a vistor message box and you can message me back. PM= Privete message.

Mollycat - What's with you and Jen sharing the dodgy thermometer? Lol, you both need to get one of the "good" thermometers hehe.
Yay for the ex-client having a boy! One of DH's cousins is due next month with her second child. She already took a name I like, so she better be planning on calling this one Madge or Clarence!

Dellydoo - I hope you are having a wonderful time at your relaxation camp :) It sounds devine! My sister-in-law just went to a wellness retreat thing and she said the food was amazing. They only cooked organically and she loved it. Hopefully your experience is just as great!

Mannie - Thanks for thinking of me sweetness! Hopefully little chyan is still growing strong. Our scan is this friday and I'm not the praying type, but sometimes I find myself praying (to someone...) that we'll see a little heartbeat.
With the brown spotting, I wouldn't be surprised if it was left over old blood from the m/c. Or it might be that your hcg level dropped low enough for you to get AF. I ovulated before I got AF after my m/c though... Not sure if it's different girl to girl though.

Emmykate - Don't lose hope yet honey! I didn't really have any symptoms before I got my BFP. My only clue was a bit of a crampy feeling on the night of 11DPO. It felt a bit like AF coming, but was too early. I'll keep my fingers crossed that AF stays away from you!!!
Oh and how cute is the name dropping by you DH? :ROFL:

Jen - I'll pack one of the wizard chick costumes when I come to see you!
And yes, sms'ing is the same as texting. I think it stands for "short messaging service" or something. We use both terms over here though.
PS. I sent you an email and tried to attack extra "strength" to it. You know how bad I am with attachments though, so not sure if I managed it. You'll just have to catch the mental strength vibes I'm sending your way!

Anneebee - Sorry, you didn't make me jealous about the cappacinos because I've never drank coffee :ROFL: Now, if you had been drinking a Gloria Jeans white hot chocolate with marshmallows... ;) Hehe.
I've noticed that you have an 8 year old step son. Me too! And I have an 11 year old step son too. We have them about 1/3rd of the time, but the 1yo is coming to live with us next year :)

Easha - Oh my! There are more pregnant girls in your workplace than there are PEOPLE in my workplace! Lol! Oh, and it you are planning on having a pity party you should make sure that people bring presents for you ;) Don't worry sweetie, I'm sure it's your turn very soon!

Issy - Overdue!!! My fingers are so crossed that they are hurting! I hope you bought the sticks that have the 2 lines! Please please please!!!

Toccara - Sounds like you've been getting to play "naughty nurse" with DH this weekend. I hope he is feeling better! Oh, and that he didn't give you any dirty germies ;)

Angel - I hope things went "swimmingly" today! :D

Babyfever - Oh mate! I don't see it coming up on my profile and when I go into yours I can read the vistor's comments, but I can't add a comment. I don't have myspace account so I can't PM you that way either. From what I've read you are right about not having enough posts. Any other ideas. :lol:

my Myspace link is in my profile still.. I think & in order to see your profile the way you see mine you, have to lick on your own name and click veiw profile just liek you do me.

Babyfever - I've still had no luck with commenting in our profiles. I can't message you in myspace because I don't have an account. Any more ideas? I've just tried adding you as a contact and it came up "pending" so I might be able to PM you once it comes through. :)

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Babyfever - I've still had no luck with commenting in our profiles. I can't message you in myspace because I don't have an account. Any more ideas? I've just tried adding you as a contact and it came up "pending" so I might be able to PM you once it comes through. :)

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Once you have 20 posts you can PM me. I did add you as friend though. But, there is a big post on your visit message thing. I had my police officer friend come over to help me about the issue. So, I have that all fixed.

I just cannot believe someone would stalk someone after a year and out of no wear. I don't get it & why that person wont give up.

Anyways, I'm feeling better. I just hope my family will be safe..

Babyfever - You poor little thing. I'm sending love and :hug:. In 4 more posts I can be there for you in a more PM way. Ha ha ha. So keep talking. Geez it must be late there for you by now?

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Babyfever - You poor little thing. I'm sending love and :hug:. In 4 more posts I can be there for you in a more PM way. Ha ha ha. So keep talking. Geez it must be late there for you by now?

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:cryinglaugh: Yes, It is 1:30Am, And I should be in bed I feel so sick to my Stomach right now. But, I'm so hurt that I cannot sleep. I'm scarfing down an corn dog..
Thanks for being supportive. Wow, Wat a great Sunday it was for me.. Geeze.. What you up to?