Babyfever - What a horrible day that turned out to be for you? But guess what. This day will make tomorrow that much more fantastic when you get the good news about your BT. What time to you get the results? ATM I'm cleaning down a set of timber doors so that I can vanish them. Pretty exciting stuff. :D
anne-I just relized I have been calling you Anna for awhile. I should get my BT results in around noon. Possibly ealier. Just depends on how busy they are ETC...I'm so ready for them to find out I was right all along. I'm pretty sure I'm going to be asked for more BT results when they call be about my HCG & progesterone numbers today. But, I will have to wait till Tuesday to get another blood draw due to hubby wont be home till Midnight tonight & I hate driving and since my car isn't the best anyways I don't like driving in it with the kids in there just incase it broke down. Very old car 89. Then I'm leaving to Florda Thrusday AM I'm so excited!!! Sound's like fun, I wish I could help you with that.. Would take out some depression and sadness atm. Are you a SAHM? = Stay at home mommie?
Babyfever - Don't worry about the name thing ... I've been called a lot worse. :lol: I'm a 'stay at home wife' at the moment I'm renovating our house, but I intend on being a sahm once I can get pregnant. How many and how old are your little ones? Are you not expecting good news tomorrow???? I can only imagine how excite you are about your holiday/honeymoon, might be just what the doctor ordered. Are you taking the kids?
Anne- I love being a SAHM. I do miss work sometimes :-D. I have 2 living children and there ages 2 and 1 (so 1 year 1 month apart) Hailey 2 year old is April, And Aspen 1 year old is May. I better expect good news tomarrow, Or they have some issues with the people that deal with my blood or something. I may have to find a new OB if they say your not pregnant!.. Wow, That would make everything bad this week. I'm very exited I need to get away with DH for once and enjoy. No I'm not taking the kids. There going to be staying with there grandma. We will be leaving Thursday and be back Monday.
How was your weekend?
I think I'm going to head to bed its 2AM. Here, I'm going to send you a PM when I wake up about whats been going on. And, FYI going to be long.. Thank you for staying up/Taking your time to talk with me I aprishate it very much. I needed someone to talk to. Long day ahead of me.. :-)
Babyfever - We had a good weekend. We have my step son 50/50 and this was not our weekend with him so it makes for a much cruisey weekend. He is 8 so he will be at a really good age for when our babies come along. He so excited about them. Poor little fella gets a bit lonely being an only child (at the moment). You are going to have your hands full with another bubba on the way. You started young .... lucky girl. I wish I married my DH earlier so I could have had our bubbas earlier. We have actually been friends since I was 17 and I went to his first wedding. I was dating his mate/flat mate. How bizarre is that? I was never friends with his ex-wife though, which is probably a good thing now because I think that would make the relationship a little strange (if it would have eventuated at all). I'm not really a dating my friends ex-boyfriends/husbands type of girl. :lol:
Hi everyone,
Sorry, no time for personals today but I just wanted to stop by for a quick hi to everyone!
Angel - Thanks so much for the reply to my last post about the IVF stuff, it was very helpful and much appreciated :) but sorry it took so long for me to get a chance to reply. Hopefully it will help overcome all the wierd stuff that has been going on with my cycle :rolleyes: but I guess at least we don't have DH problems to deal with as well. Wishing you heaps of luck for your IUI today :hug:
AFM - just sniffing my nasal spray and jabbing myself with needles still :lol: But I'm not feeling too bad so far, and I have a scan on Friday to check how my follicles are going. Fingers crossed for a good result! Talk to you all again soon :)
Hi girls,
Still thinking of you all lots and lots. I have been stalking your charts to keep up to date. Jen and Vanaithi - any thoughts on a BFP or BFN coming your way? I hope it's the BFP. :dance:
I have updated my blog if any of you are interested.
Take care everyone.
Joey
xxx
Ready ... catch ... :pink-babydust::bluedust::pink-babydust::bluedust::pink-babydust::bluedust::pink-babydust:
Well ladies, i'm having the worst Monday morning EVER!!!!!!!!!!
Our managing director has just sent an email out saying that our company are making 50 redundancies. So i'm a little scared at the moment, i'm not sure if my job is safe.
This is added stress i dont need at this time of my pregnancy.
Fingers crossed that everything is ok.
:pray::pray::pray::pray::pray:
:(
Babyfever - I don't know who you think I am but I am not stalking you! Insanity! And I don't know what I said that made you think I am other than me just being paranoid because of an incident where someone faked having cancer. There's no way that could have been you? Good luck today and glad to see you have updated your ticker. How horrible to lose all those poor babes at exactly the same gestation (if I'm reading it right, forgive me if I'm not!) I had no idea you lost TWO at 19w!
Sorry ladies for the interruption. I realize that my concern has crashed into your safe-haven and I apologize. I will definitely let this go and will go back to reading until I'm ready to share my story, if that ever occurs.
Firstly can I just say its been a while since Ive been on but I have heard through fifi that sadly some of our members have had losses and can I just say.. I am so so sorry for you both (Ruthie and Toccarra). You are in my hearts girls and Ill be sending my prayers your way.
AFM... I am now 7 weeks but I have had bleeding for over a week now and so have had to take time off work and have emergency scans, my latest being this morning and I really did doubt that there would be anything there... I have been convinced with the pain and the bleeding that I was loosing... there on the screen was a heartbeat and my little 7 week old bean...
Please can you send me some sticky vibes as I am still loosing some blood and I am terrified... they can do nothing for me other than wait and see...
Megsmom-I wish you luck on your Follie scan & you have a few good sized follies growing and ready to rupture in there. :hug:
Joey-:hello: How are you doing sweets? Getting ready to read blog Just wanted to say hello.
Fifi- :hug: I really hope things stay well & safe for you. Try to have little stress darling. I have you and family in my :pray:
RachelSwirl- I'm sorry you have been having some bleeding I hope bubs and you are doing well. I most def have you and bubs in my prayers that he or she is tucked nice and strong in there and has a Heartbeat. Try to get some rest and not be on your feet to much. When is your scan?
What's happening to our safe little thread? :( All this talk of drinking when pg, harassment, stalking, committing suicide.... sounds like a soap opera! This is supposed to be a place of comfort and support, not a place to make drama!
Babyfever, while I appreciate your apologies, I have to truly say that I think the issues with you began when you shared with us that you were cheating on your DH, and that the last angel you lost (and the one you thought you were pg with at the time) weren't even his! My ex husband (DS1's dad) cheated on me with a 17 y/o--so I have no patience or respect for people that cheat on their partners! Because it was never really brought up again, I really just tried to forget about it.... I couldn't just forget about the drinking, tho.... you've done nothing but complain about your BT results, and how you just know they messed it up, and how you know you're pg.... yet you're supposedly terrified of losing another baby, but then you go out and get drunk and are bragging about vomiting on the street.... it just doesn't make sense! How is that showing compassion and support to the woman that has just m/c... or the woman that hasn't had a cup of coffee in a year because she doesn't want the caffeine to affect her chances of conceiving... or the woman that's already pg but has fears everyday of losing another child.... or the women that haven't even been blessed with 1 child of their own to hold and care for....worse yet are those women that have been trying for YEARS to conceive, only to be faced with a BFN every month. These are real women with real feelings.... you can't compromise that without expecting repercussions!
I have come to rely on this thread and the girls I've met here.... this is my sanctuary, the one place I can be myself and feel SAFE.... without the drama! You really have to consider your words before you speak--it's a sign of respect! I am grateful that Leary shared her feelings with us--she was affected by what you said and she's not even a member of our thread! Imagine how you must've made the members feel--and most of them are just too polite to comment to you about it! I'll fight tooth and nail for the friends I've made here--we support each other whole-heartedly!
Thanks at least for the apology... it does help some... maybe after time it will all blow over, I just don't know right now....
Babyfever--I think your issues with your DH should've been left between you and him--not shared in a TTC forum. While I feel sorry for you for the way your life has turned out, it's my opinion that you shouldn't marry a person simply because you've got one child, another on the way, and because "no other man would take you" due to you having kids! Marriage is a sacred vow--yet you openly admit to not loving your DH, cheating on him, and still trying to get back together with your ex, all while TTC another child!
I'm sorry for what you went thru in high school.... I would never want to see anyone suffer--I don't want you to suffer now. It makes my heart sink to hear you mention suicide... you're much stronger than that! So please--no more of that! You do have a lot of support to offer, you've given me a lot during your time here with us, and I hope that I've been supportive of you in the past. I just honestly felt shocked at some of the things you've decided to share with us.... maybe if you just stick to the issue of TTC there wouldn't be any further complications. I know that you wouldn't hurt anyone on purpose... and I forgive you...like I said earlier, I think people just need some time, and eventually it will blow over. Thanks again for the support you've given me :hug:
So sorry girls, I'll have to do persies later.... DS is home sick and wants me to cuddle with him... taking him to dr at 11:15, then have book fair, so will post later. Sorry, I know it's late! :grouphug:
Special :hug: for the Fantastic 4 :grouphug: Love you all! Thanks for the chat this am, plc! *kiss*
Jen-After talking with a close friend last night he mentioned I should not discuss personal stuff. So, No long with that and will just talk about TTC with you girls. I'm sorry for being a little to open to everyone. That's the down side about me, That I never learned to change. I'm again truly sorry for the hurt I caused you or "anyone else". :hug: I know you have been struggling in the short time that I have known you & you have a right to say what you have said. And, the reason I mentioned Suicide is because of the fact that, what happened last night which I'm going to let go becuase I already know whats going on there is no need to mess with it anymore. But, the reason I mentioned is because a girl that was 16 on myspace had a mom that was stalking her and causing her issues and she killed herself because of the emotional stress. Everyone is a person and has feelings & we all need friends to make life better. Without support its hard because there is no one to talk to.
I try to help everyone as much as possible just the same as everyone here does. :hug:. I really hope that you do get your BFP soon & a baby to hold in your arms darling. You deseve it as much as anyone else does. :hug: I thank you for the support you have givin me as well, I very much so apprishate it. I will try not to post anything out of the ordenary again.. And, if I do maybe some you girls can help me watch out for that??
I hope DS gets better sweets..
I just found out that my husband may not be making it home tonight. I really hope he does though would be nice to be able to spend time with him. I find his job really hard on me and family. I wish someone would call him from his applicants he put in for jobs and get one at home..
Wow...lots going on in here this weekend...
Happy Crappy Monday Gurlies!
BabyFever...Jen was on the money you can't be upset with her for speaking what I am sure many are feeling...
Welcome newbies *wavin* here's hoping you find comfort and support here...God knows these ladies have been my saving grace on many occassions.
Angel...I sure hope your day off went well!!!
molly...jen...Krystie...Rachel...joey...tut...the ones I've missed...:hug:
I have begun the dreaded apartment search...shoulda done it a while ago BUT I've been hoping something would change...wish me luck!
Friday was a tough day...one of the guys here at work announced his wifey was pregnant on the day I came back from m/c...Friday their beautiful baby girl was born...
:pink-babydust::bluedust:
:stickyvibesgirl::stickyvibesboy:
ATM-No BT results yet and the office is about to close. Look's like no blood results till Tuesday. I'm pretty upset because I'm so anxious. Most of the reason I'm upset is because my Husband will not be home till Tuesday=tomorrow.