Trying to Conceive after Miscarriage or Loss ~ September 08 #3

[dellydoo]

Angel Babies - Thank you for your beautiful post, it means more to me than anything that you all understand what I am going through. Your "ugly cry" is so true, I have done so many and some days I know I don't do enough because I am being strong (not entirely sure what that even means anymore). Today is going to be tough but DP and I will make it. We are seeing OB today and FS tomorrow. We are saying goodbye today.
Love
Adele

[dellydoo]

Jenushka - Yay Freaking YAY!!!! Congratulations darling.
Meg's Mum - good luck - I don't think 1mm is too much to ask!
Jen805 - Thank you so much - I can use some extra prayers at the moment.
Milla - Damn AF darling - next cycle is yours
Toccara - Thank you for that hug!

Well guys will let you know how today goes, currently being made breakfast by DP - I am truly one of the luckiest women in the world!
love to you all
A

[larz]

dellydoo - My are with you today, no need to be strong, feel whatever you need to feel. My thoughts are with you and your DP

[AJC]

jenushka - Wow, CONGRATULATIONS ! ! ! Stick little one stick.

Take Care and Pop in and join us in PAML when you are ready.

[jen805]

Oh, Angel, I've noticed that sometimes the green light stays on for a while after you log off! So I actually wasn't home, I left at 7:50. Buggers, too, I would've loved to chat! I logged off as soon as I did the last post to you. I'm SOOOOOOOOO busy lately, I know I was telling you the other morning, but OMG, even the people that work at the school are starting to say how much I'm there and how busy I've been! I feel like a chicken running around with it's head cut off! Love you bunches! --Teach



jenushka--CONGRATULATIONS!! I'm so happy for you! OMG! At 11 DPO even! Wishing you a happy, healthy, STICKY 9 mo's!!!

[Tuesday's Child]

dellydoo - Thinking of you today hun Even though today you are saying goodbye to Charles, it is not forever. I know he will be with you always. In the meantime, allow yourself to feel whatever you feel. Hope all goes well with the OB tomorrow.

angel - Still thinking of you. You've been here for all of us, its the least we can do to be here for you...no thanks are necessary. Its comforting to know you'll still be around.

megsmum - Hoping all goes well between now and Saturday.

jenushka - CONGRATULATIONS! Wishing you a happy and healthy 9 months.

For everyone else as well as some vibes for everyone in the 2WW.

[mummy_of_3_boys]

Please no one think that because I don't do personal replies that your stories don't touch me. My heart has been breaking for some of you with what you have been going through lately.I do care alot and I am praying for you all but everytime I try to do a reply I get all muddled and can't post because I have gotten it wrong.

You all have my thoughts and prayers
PLEASE TAKE CARE
(still no A/F 4 me, did a hpt 6 days late!!!)

[tutmae]

I'm still half asleep so this is just a quick one but....

JENUSHKA!!!! CONGRATULATIONS!!!! So unbelievably happy for you hon!! Here's to a happy and healthy 9 months!!!!

Jen: I love ya, darlin, but I swear if I even see one more mop my head may explode. I've decided to stay home during the rent inspection (I usually hide), so wish me luck. Here's hoping my cleaning skills are up to scratch.

Angel: Big ... so relieved you're not leaving us!

[mumstheword]

Jen - Thanks, what are prenatal tablets?

Oh, the coverline on your chart indicates when you O'ed.

Isn't that the vertical line? I am meaning the horizontal line.

[tutmae]

MumTW: The horizontal line is used as like a marker for your temp after o. If your temp drops below your coverline af is probably on her way. You need to have 3 temps above your coverline in order for FF etc to mark you as having o-ed. I think. That's what I always thought.

[plc1805]

Jenushka - I am THRILLED for you!!! Congratulations!!

[Where there's hope]

Jenushka - that is great news, hon

Angelbabies - Will do my best to keep those clouds away

Jen - yep. When DH arrived home in a state I sure did think of your suggestion about the uniform Only, we are on IVF and we are not allowed to DTD (and DH is a bit too tender for anything in bed other than sleeping - yawn). Be a bit of a waste to dress up all for nothing, darn it!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Megsmum - Hiya. Sending you many good vibes for your next scan and IUI

AFM - my first IVF cycle is not going to well. My estrogen levels were very low yesterday in my first BT so they have upped my FSH injections in the hope that something might happen. Realistically, there is a good chance it may be cancelled, but we will cross that bridge if and when we get to it.

[Milla]

Dellydoo - thinking of you, wishing you all the courage and strength that you need darling


Jenushka - (you see, I just learned how to post symbols...

[plc1805]

Dellydoo - I first met you when you gave me an excellent recipe for chicken soup, i lost touch with you during your pg time, I am so sorry that the loss of your beautiful boy means you are a presence on this thread but your presence on this thread has already touched us all so much. I send many prayers your way today. Love to you hun.

[dellydoo]

Well ladies today was so so hard.
We said goodbye to Charles with friends and family. My darling, sweet, courageous DP was my strength and we cried together. He is buried with other sweet souls in Mater Memorial Garden. I felt so supported in the church and looked at the other mothers wrapped up in their grief knowing that we would all make it through.
Thanks so much for your incredible support
Love to you all
Adele

[jenushka]

Oh dellydoo ... great big my lovely. I can imagine that today would have been very difficult and would have left you feeling quite raw. What a strong woman though - that you could already see a positive whilst being surrounded by sadness - that is the sign that you will make it through, with whatever help you need.

You have a wonderful dp too by the sounds of it and that is a big strength. Go and give him a great big squeeze! What did he cook you for brekkie?

I am thinking of your beautiful boy Charles tonight - farwell little man...

GL with your appt tomorrow too - would love to hear how you get on

xx

[jenushka]

Also just wanted to say a huge big thank you to chappas, megsmum, larz, dellydoo, AJC, jen, Hannah, Tutmae, plc, WTH and Milla for all of your lovely messages of congratulations!

Am completely stoked and strangely not as shaky as I was with the last pg .... that will come and go I'm sure. Just feeling pretty zen - I know that whatever happens with this little bean is pretty much beyond my control so I'll just sit back and take a seat for the ride Can't believe that I have such strong symptoms already - had to do a bit of self-talk on the train this morning in order not to barf Sore bbs and heartburn too which are all very encouraging but I shall try not to over-analyse!

Off to the GP on Fri morning to request a bt and an ultrasound referral, and an ob referral too I suppose...

Masses of and to you all

xx

[jen805]

21--Hi back to Mr. 21! Hope his appt. went well, and you get some encouraging news!



Megsmum--Yay for being cycle buds again! I knew if I kept calling you that for long enough that it would happen again! Sorry you've had to have so many scans.... C'mon Fred, grow! Hope your 6th scan shows some improvement so you can move forward with the IUI on Saturday!



larz--4 days left.... counting down with you!



delllydoo--I'm so very sorry that you had to say goodbye to your little Charles yesterday! Hope yesterday's OB appt, and that today's FS appt, goes well! Thinking of you!



hannah--Hi's and Hope you're doing well!



mummyO3B--Sorry to hear AF is late, and about your BFN.... big for you!