thread: Trying to Conceive after Miscarriage or Loss ~ September 2008

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  1. #1
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    Mar 2008
    California
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    How come it seems like I was the only one that couldn't get on BB today? This is the first time all day long that I didn't get an error message!! Have to read thru all the posts... you girls have been busy... will be back for persies!

  2. #2
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    Jan 2008
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    Jen Jen....Hope your having a wonderful day...... i m off home now.. back to bed..... still sick as...... Huge hugs hun.. and I hope the fog has lifted

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    Oct 2007
    Caroline Springs
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    Toccara - I agree with the others, go back to the ER or your obs. Hopefully everything is perfectly fine with your baby. My thoughts are with you sweetie!


    As for me, I'm having a bit of a freak-out. I woke at 7am to take my temperature and it's dropped quite a bit. I'm terrified. I tried to tell myself it's fine because it's still higher than the coverline, but I kept having nightmares when I went back to sleep. I've compared it to my last pregnancy and it never dropped like this. I just don't know what to do!!! I thought that maybe my prog level isn't high enough or something. But even then I don't know what to do. I was thinking about calling my ob, but I think I would just sound silly seeings as things are so early. I'm just so worried that maybe the hormones are not strong enough to stop AF from coming and taking my baby with her!

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    Jan 2008
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    KRYSTIE..... STOP IT...... Breath girl... Breath..... Remember.. not stressin.. enjoying every second....... you will send yourself absolutely insane if you spend the next 9 months like this......... Now dont make me come down there and SPANK you... and i dont mean spank as in nice spank either....

    Step 1 Breath in
    Step 2 Breath out

    Step 3 Repeat steps 1 and 2 continually.

    Dont make me call you... I ve got your number and I know where you are.... I m sure I could be a stalker if i really put my mind to it.

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    Oct 2007
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    toccara - I really hope that everything works out ok.

    KL - I don't think I could have said it any better than Angel babies so just read her last post again & follow steps 1, 2 & 3. It's so hard not to panic I know I was there not too long ago. Try not to scare yourself too much. I actually stopped taking my temp the day I got my BFP just because I didn't want any extra stress. It's up to you by my advise is put it away and don't use it again.

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    Oct 2007
    Caroline Springs
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    *deep breaths*

    Ok, between the two of you and my best friend (who I called in a minor panic), you've made me feel a little more calm. So thank you!

    I'm heading down now to get my blood taken and I'm trying to get in touch with my obs office (I think they are at lunch, how inconsiderate, LOL!) to see if they can add some tests to the blood order, like prog etc... Not sure if they could do anything if it comes back bad, but I'll try not to think of that for now.

    Hmmm, now you girls are going to think I'm totally losing the plot... but does anyone believe in the lunar cycle stuff? If I'm honest with myself I would say I don't... but... it's meant to be my lunar peak today, and I've started getting pain from my right ovary (the opposite side I just ovulated from 2 weeks ago). I'm sure it's all a load of bull, lol, but I've actually calmed myself down a bit by thinking that maybe my temp was a bit lower due to something similar to the pre-ovulation temp dip. See, told you you'd think I was insane!! :P

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    Oct 2007
    Caroline Springs
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    Ooops, was posting at the same time as you Jen! Thanks for your message too! I think I'll pick up some pee sticks on the way home from having the blood taken.

  8. #8
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    Aug 2008
    Cairns QLD
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    Hi Krystielove,

    In regards to the lunar cycle stuff, yes your on the right track, I asked the same qustion to the ladies in the pagan thread. Go and have a read if you have some time. Also don't forget that you can bleed at 4 weeks and 8 weeks and 12 weeks in the first trimester, on the day you were supposed to get your period, so thats normal..goodluck and Im sure all will be fine, my prayers are with you and Toccara....try not to panic and stay calm...God is watching over you both....

    ciao ciap