thank you all for your replies, been to see the gynacologist for my appointment after laproscopy and they have now told me that my one tube is blocked and the other is damaged and i have a low chance of conceiving naturally, but im confused because just after i had the op b4 i left the hospital they told me one of my tubes was a lil puckered at the end and they did not know whether that would affect my fertility..it was a completely different diagnosis..they said it was probably the surgery that i had after i gave birth to my lil man that caused it as i had retained placenta due to having no waters for 5 weeks..i am completely gutted but no matter wat i would not change a thing there was no way i could of terminated his pregnancy he deserved a chance, i just think i am being punished for what i dont know..still every month i hope a miracle will happen..good luck to you all x x x