TTC after Miscarriage or Loss ~ April 08 #2

[jen805]

plc--I love your thought about invading the PAML thread! Upon better inspection of my chart at FF, it's next Thurs. that I should test (or when AF is due). Not sure if I actually O'ed on the day that the calendar said I was supposed to, so I'm not sure if I should poas any sooner than that. Had been thinking that maybe on Sat. I might, but I just don't want to get too ahead of myself. Last time was so much easier--was like a week late before I realized I was a week late! I wish the week went by as quickly as the weekends! Glad to hear your feeling like your back in the game--game on!

ll80--Glad to hear about bt results! Also glad you want to stick around here for a while--I don't blame you. It's the same for me (when I get my BFP) I just want to get past that first 8 wks. then I think I'll calm down a bit--I'm already stressed about it and I'm not even there yet!

Emmy-Lou--Hope AF packs her bags quickly so you can get back in the game, as well!

mmteacher--Hope the clomid works it's wonders! Good luck!

[Baby Angels]

Still around now and then girl..... got to keep an eye on ya and sending you huge amounts of sticky vibes...... fat tummy gal

B'day Buddy...... watchin out for you to girl... how funny that you couldnt wait.... surprised you were in the first place I ve got this tune going through my head... something like..... nah nah nah nah nah nah...... getting jiggy with it... nah nah nah nah nah!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Nickster... if your anything like me then i know your lurkin... .come on... show your face and let me know how your doing

So many faces around half of which it feels like I dont even know...... AFM who knows when I will be back.... just in and out at the moment.....

[smilanatu]

8 weeks is like the magic number huh? That is when I m/c too...I think when I get a BFP I won't be at peace till baby's birthday!

Angel Babies...glad to know you are at least lurking...I miss your positive posts!

[jen805]

Feeling very confused right now. Yesterday I noticed watery discharge (sorry, ladies, tmi!) and when I entered that on my chart at fertility friend, it popped up that yesterday was probably my most fertile day. Prior to that it said my fertile days were 6th-8th, with possible O on 9th. BD'd last on 14th, which I know doesn't take me out of the game completely as the spermies can supposedly live for 3-5 days, but all I feel right now is dread. DF was very sweet and said that for a girl your supposed to BD the 3 days before, so I hope he's right for a change! (Usually it kills me when he's right, but this time I truly hope he is!). Does anyone know if the spotting I had, which I hoped was from implantation, could actually have been from O'ing instead? Now I'm really not sure when I should test, or when to expect AF! This is so frustrating! I tend to like to be in control, so the fact that it's completely out of my hands is killing me! HELP!!!!!

[Jodsan]

Ok, so I POAS and there is kinda something. I used Crystal Clear which makes a cross, I have seen a lot of negatives over the past 6 mths, usually the negative line is dark all the way across, on this one, there is a hole in the middle of the negative line. I can JUST make out an outline of the positive line. It's like an invisible line is there, but DH and I agree there is definately something when we hold it up to the window. I am only 10dpo so hcg must be very low. Hopefully I will get a proper line over the next couple of days. I am taking it as a positive so I have to go off the medication I am (that's why I needed to test so early - Drs orders).

Jen - if you did O yesterday, you are definately in with a chance, pg 4-5 days out is definately possible. But your fertile window may still be open (up to 24 hrs after O) so BDing now might work too. Good luck.

Big hi to everyone else.

[jen805]

Jodsan--Woo hoo! Congrats on the test result! So will you wait a few days to test again, or will you just try again tomorrow? I'm so excited for you! Thanks for the glimmer of hope!

AFM... This may be tmi, but I'm going to ask anyhow b'cuz I've pretty much heard it all, so I'm sure you're all used to it: I usually have discharge when I'm pg, so is it possible that maybe that's what it could be from? I had thought the other day that the spotting was possibly from implantation, so if it were would it be too soon to have the discharge as an effect of pg? Feels like I'm grasping at straws here... hope I don't sound as pathetic as I feel!

[Katiegirl]

Jodsan - that is exciting news. I used Crystal Clear - I used 3 brands - and it gave me the weakest positive out of them all and I was alreayd 4 or so days past AF. So maybe it requires FMU to get a really strong positive and a bit longer. I will keep my fingers crossed for you.

I have really lost track of everyone on this thread. Welcome to the new people - I hope your stay here is short. Very sorry for your losses, but at the very least you have come to the right place if you are looking for understanding and support. Good luck.

Bettyboop - I was so glad to hear that AF has arrived for you. You really deserve for good things to start happening now as your wait was so much longer.

EDIT - just saw Mel's post. I got a negative about 4 days past AF - admittedly I used very weak urine in the afternoon (I should have waited but the test was burning a hole in my pocket) and then the next morning i got a positive. So maybe wait a day or so to test again - when is AF due?

Have to get ready for work - so just a big hello to everyone else. Fingers crossed for some more bfps.

Have a great day.