TTC after Miscarriage or Loss ~ April 08

[Canary]

Grrr. I just spent ages typing a post and then ping! It all dissappeared!

PbStar. I am so sorry for your painful and unwanted news. Take your time to heal, be selfish (it's allowed) and remember that this is most certainly not your fault. You are NOT a failure. Plenty of women who suffer more than one pregnancy loss go on to have healthy babies later. You and I will join their number really soon, I'm sure of it. Take Care.
Jen Campsite closed? Familiar story! I once travelled many miles on a bumpy bus with an enormous rucksack only to find that the campsite had been closed for 3 years! Our guidebook was out of date! I hope that you managed to catch the egg. The distration from TTC may have helped (I always think that if you concentrate on something you want to happen, it is less likely to than if you are 'not looking!')
Tina. Sorry about AF. Our cycles must be almost in synch now- what CD are you on?
Mollycat- hope you enjoyed the pampering
Jodsan, Thanks for the advice- I didnt know those swimmers could survive for so long! I agree with panadol, by the way!
Emmylou and Tutmae For a BFP really soon
Nickster- Glad to hear that bub is behaving. Enjoy the rest of your preg. I bet you cant wait to feel those somersaults ( At 3am and 4am and 5am...!)

AFM- AF is packing her bags, but is not quite out of the door yet. I have been spoiling myself today with shopping, lunch with a friend and a hair cut- oh, it's a life of leisure! Take care everyone.

[tina_k]

Hi Canary, well, im on CD7 at the moment, and AF has gone for another month...is that where you are? Ive decided not to temp this month, and just pull back from the stress of monitoring...DH and i decided it was all too much pressure, so we are just going to try and relax and see what happens....

jen805: how irritating! i guess that i was a bit of a distraction for you anyway!

pbstar: remember we are all here and still thinking of you...look after yourself...its amazing how prevalent this terrible thing really is...

[Emmy-Lou]

Well I purchased 4 HPT's yesterday..did one last night and another this morning and both a BFN...not even the slightest line!!! sooo I presume AF is still to arrive and my body is still out of whack from m/c...this is such an emotional process, I thought I was dealing with everything really well but have cried with frustration a couple of times this weekend!!! I can't really tell anyone close to me how I really (only because I don't want to upset them) feel except you wonderful ladies on here!!! I did have my hopes up as you can see...I think constantly everyday about my angel baby and am I pregnant and temping etc etc...I think I'm going to take a step back from it all and let nature take its course instead of trying to force something to happen that I want so much too!!
Thanks for listening..