Sharon- CONGRATULATIONS!!!! You go girl!

LizJessie- Yes, I am getting excited about the wedding now. I can't believe it, not even 2 weeks to go now. YAY for AF!!! You can start BDing really soon!

Starrysky- I also found out I'd miscarried at the "downsyndrome" scan (mine was at 12 weeks) and apparently the baby had stopped growing at 8.You don't need to minimise your miscarriage because you've only had 1.. As far as I'm concerned, 1 is enough. My GP was fabulous, but the first time I miscarried naturally and the second time, I went to see my Ob. I waited for the miscarriage to start naturally and started bleeding last Tuesday and am still bleeding now. Can't wait for it to stop so we can start TTC again. It shouldn't matter that you aren't with a health fund, your GP should want to help as much as possible. For my second pregnancy, she booked me in for an US straight away because of my previous M/C. Even with private health, the Ob can be so expensive, but I'm seeing one for my own peace of mind. It's an individual choice, but if you want to take on private cover, you need to find out what the waiting period is for pregnany as they may not cover it for the first year.

Beaksie-
Staying positive is very hard, but I agree with the other girls, that it helps to be in here where you can talk about everything and 'cleanse' so it's not all kept inside. It's also hard when people tell you to "relax and stay positive" because, once you've had a m/c, it's very hard not to be anxious. All we can do is try.

Littlescottishboy- :hugs: to your Mum.

Hello to everyone else, I hope your week is going well. BFP's all round!!!

Love Ems