Hi everyone thanks for your responses.
Ems i had to have a D&C i had it las Friday night 17/8.
Apparently the ob told DH night of D&C that everything was fine in there and no reason we can TTC immediately....
Starrysky i could imagine how frustrating that is for your family hopefully your brother will be ok and the gf isnt actually 'playing' this sort of game with him. Your mum sounds like she is stuck in a hard place though...
Decided as soon as spotting stops DH and i will TTC again - he really wants it to happen so hopefully with all the positive energy it wont take long (my fingers and toes are crossed)
Hope your all doing ok