thread: TTC after Miscarriage or Loss ~ August 08

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  1. #1
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    Jan 2008
    Newcastle,uk
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    Smilanatu- Seems strange that you had spotting on friday but have still got no af,have you had this happen before? When i got pregnant with dd had 3 neg tests.
    Thanx for the but symptoms seem to have gone may still test though.

    Babyfever- thanx to you too

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    Jan 2008
    Indiana, USA
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    chappas...I have had the pink cm twice before in the past couple of months 2 - 3 days before AF actually arrived...but this time I had the pink cm Friday and then Sunday I had pink cm streaked with red blood...and I have never had spotting every other day and no red until AF actually showed...it's all very strange. I am having some lower back ache now though...so it's amatter of time.

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    Feb 2008
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    jenushka- thinking of you today, it's going to be very hard and emotional for you. sending you extra and will be that you have the strength to get through it. we are all here for you when you are ready to chat. xoxo

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    Dec 2006
    In my own private paradise
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    tocarra - sorry to hear AF showed up - she's such a cow - not here when you need her to be, shows up when you don't want her - definitely an uninvited guest!!

    Jen - yeah, i popped into the chat room the other night (well, morning for you!) - DH's birthday, he was drunk and i was grumpy!! not usually awake that late at night - i have chronic fatigue, so it's only when i'm highly emotional that i let myself be out of bed at that time of night (have insomnia, but i force myself to at least relax in bed) - am off work for a couple of weeks now though - to give me a chance to get my head in a better space - so with no work next day, i might be able to get myself motivated to set up the laptop in bed and chat with you lot!

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    Jan 2008
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    Brigssy..... you are welcome welcome welcome....... let me give you the heads up though

    Jen Jen.... otherwise known as teach..... watch your spelling in chat...

    KrystieLove....... Takes her Smart Ar$e Pills daily...... watch out for those comments she throws left right and center..... otherwise known as Pill Girl

    Tutmae... watch out for her... she takes their side

    PLC1805....otherwise known as Birthday Buddy or BB...... she s fine.... shes my favourite....(LMAO.... I CAN PICTURE JEN JEN READING THAT..... ROFL)

    AJC AND SMI....... will there harmless but fiun


    So really the 2 to watch out for in chat are Jen Jen and Krystie...

    There you go.... pre warned is pre armed.......


    JEN JEN..... Will be on tonight..... Promise

  6. #6
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    Dec 2006
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    well "teach" will have to get over it!! i type quicker than i think - and have dyslexic fingertips!! as long as i get my message across...

    i think, after a while, i'll give Kristie a run for her money - i'm shy to start, but once i know everyone, you have no hope!

    as to everyone else, i'll get to know them as i go - if i can make it into chat late at night!!! i'm usually in the lounge earlier in the night...

  7. #7

    Dec 2007
    USA, Kansas
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    smilanatu- I hope that its just IB and not AF. Sorry to hear you have had previous cycles were you have had spotting prior to AF it really sucks when you have to deal with that & when you have had cycles with prior to AF spotting it makes it hard for us to believe it could be anything else besides AF. I hope that you get a surprise BFP hun. .
    I'm with you on the cramps. I just miscarried a week ago and I feel like AF is on her way :mad:.
    I will take yours away for you Cuz I can't get pregnant till after AF is here ..

    Angelbabies & briggsys girl, Lol you all cracking me up... .
    I'm not shy at all over here.. teehee. The other day I was talking about how my DH love's Boobies! And I got the rest of the girls talking about it too...

    I have a question, How long after a M/c does your period come (does it take) because I'm having AF cramping already. And its only been a week since my loss? Has anyone ever got there AF that soon after a loss?

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    Jan 2008
    Newcastle,uk
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    Babyfever- when i had my last m/c af came 4 weeks after bleeding stopped but hospital said could be anything up to six weeks. Hope it comes soon for you if you want to try again straight away.

    It is now nearly 2am and cant sleep

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    Mar 2008
    California
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    Babyfever--I bled for 7 days after my m/c, and my cycle that month was the shortest it's ever been at 25 days. My usual cycle length is 29-30, so probably just my body out-of-whack. Hope that helps!



    Yay, the link went through!!! Just have to explain a little--he's getting certified, so his skydives are solo, but assisted. Was a little shaky in the beginning, but he still passed During the dive, he's doing things off a checklist, it kinda makes him look like he's looking at his watch and repeatedly trying to grab for his parachute--but he has to do all that 3 times, then wave off before he opens his chute. It's just kinda funny because it looks like he's scared and trying to keep grabbing for it, but he's not--that's what he has to do!

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    Jan 2008
    Melbourne, Australia
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    jenushka - my thoughts and prayers are with you today - why is life so unfair ? we are here for you my sweet.

    angel and jen - u KNOW ur each other's favourites - who are you both trying to kid? hope to chat soon....

    ps. angel, don't take ur photo down hun, I'll get busy with mine.....

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    Mar 2008
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    Krystie--Where are you my latex-wearing, *whip* smashing, Magic Mountain mate? You have been awfully quiet, girl, did you lose your pills, or what? I think Angel stole them... did you see the things she wrote about us? Shocking, I tell you! You're my partner in crime (*evil*), so where are you, girl??? Will look for you in the am! *kiss*
    p.s. Did you check out DF's skydive?


    plc-- Is that why she picks on me all the time????



    Hi tut! The are starting early!



    Ok, girls, I'm off to bed so I can be up bright and early to chat! Hopefully I'm not ALL ALONE again!!!
    Last edited by jen805; August 5th, 2008 at 03:05 PM. : Krystie's p.s.

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    Oct 2007
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    jenushka - Just wanted to let you know I am thinking of you today. Sending you lots and lots of

  13. #13
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    Mar 2008
    California
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    Having problems with my computer again...took me a long time to be able to log in, so I'm hoping this will go through! DF finished making his skydive video, uploading it onto Youtube, and hopefully I'll be able to post the link in a little while here. If not, tomorrow for sure.



    Just have to say Angel, you had me Every time I think about it still it makes me What's funny is that my mouth dropped open... and then I read the part where you could picture me reading it... and I was like, damn, she knows me so well! Oh, you outdid yourself--that was great! I don't know if I believe you, since you've dogged me for the last 2 days, but hope to chat with you in the am! Thanks for the laugh before bed! Still !!!

  14. #14
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    Oct 2007
    Hunter Valley, NSW
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    Jen - are we sharing the same computer - mine seems to take forever to log in at the moment, and open on any threads. Trying to sneak in a few minutes while the kids are in bed.

  15. #15
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    Oct 2007
    Hunter Valley, NSW
    624

    Krystie - hope your doing okay - you've been really quiet the last couple of days

    Joey - Hope your doing okay too, you've been quiety as well.

    has anyone found the warmers for the mouse and keyboard yet? my fingers are near frozen.

    Van - I hope that your enjoying your break, and checking back in here every so often. We're all thinking of you.

    Jenushka - for you on this special day. You are in my thoughts

    AJC - Look at that ticker - 15 weeks already. You'll be feeling bubba move soon (unless he/she already is).

  16. #16
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    Mar 2008
    California
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    YouTube - Sean's 2nd A.F.P.


    Ok, girls--here's the link to DF's skydive! You may have to copy and paste if you can't just click on it...if that doesn't work you can just find it in Youtube under Sean's 2nd A.F.P. Let me know if you get it!



    mollycat--This is actually the second time typing this post! When I went to post the previous one, I realized I didn't copy it first, so tried to copy real quick, but accidentally cut it instead and it disappeared--couldn't get it pasted quick enough... but then it couldn't find server, so I lost my post anyway! Let's hope I have better luck this time! for you!!



    BG! No worries, my brain thinks faster than my fingers, too! Angel just likes to make me look bad She's just worried you'll like me more than her--she's really the one you have to look out for! Just look how she's stirring the pot.... Get comfy quick, if you're going to give Krystie a run for her money, then we've got lots of to look forward to!

  17. #17
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    Oct 2007
    Hunter Valley, NSW
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    Toccara - Sorry AF showed her ugly face at your house. I really wish she'd get the message and not visit any of us. Haven't we told her enough.

    Smilanatu and chappas - sorry we didn't leave you any cake - we had to eat it quickly before Miss Greedy Guts found it seeing as though she ate one all by herself. we'll be sure to hide a piece in the back of the cupboard next time.