thread: TTC after Miscarriage or Loss ~ August 08

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  1. #1
    BellyBelly Member

    Jun 2008
    Brisbane
    185

    where is everyone.... been hanging out to talk to you all and no one has logged on since 2:30 this afternoon

    Get out of bed nana's !!!!!!

  2. #2
    BellyBelly Member

    Jun 2008
    Brisbane
    185

    ok.... gonna be a nana myself and go to bed... nighty night

  3. #3
    Registered User

    Apr 2008
    White Gum Valley, WA
    318

    Easha: Come to think of it, my dreams have been quite raunchy.... hmmmm, musy have been repressing them as I have told DH no dancing until 2nd trimester. Cos I'm a cautious chicken! Also, FF told me I had a low chance of concieving this cycle and my temos were wacky, but look what went and happened!! for ya hon!!

    Jenushka: Big huge massive for you darlin. Words cannot express how sorry I am that you're going through this!! But you are such a strong beautiful person, I have no doubt you will get through it!!

    Jen and co:

    Five things you may not know about me:
    1- My favourite colour is red (pretty much all I wear is red and black- mostly cos black is slimming and you can't tell if you've spilled food on it which I do A LOT! And red is happy and bright and fun!)
    2- When I was growing up my mother was Buddhist, therefore I was raised with those beliefs, even though I went to an Anglican school (where my best friend in high school told me I was going to hell and made me saaaad)!!
    3- My DH and I dated for 4 weeks before moving in together and 2 weeks later he proposed. Awwww. try not to vomit.
    4- My father is a journalist and was a Cleo Bachelor of the Year Nominee when I was little girl (much embarrassment ensued for me)
    5- I cut my own hair when I get anxious/hormonal/bored/sleepy/awake/thoughtful/breathing. DH has learned to cope and I think he's happy as I never go to hair dressers and pay ridiculous amounts for haircuts!

    Hmmm, there's probably more but I'm fairly boring.... I just re-read that and yawned, but I'm still going to continue with an.....

    AFM: My belly has popped out! Seriously!! I don't know how I'm going to cover this up for the next 7 1/2 weeks, I already look 4mths. It seemed to happen overnight. At first I thought I'd just gotten fat (despite my diet) then I felt my belly and it's all hard and looked again and it's ROUND (not fat blobby, but defined roundness!!). WHAT?! I heard you pop out earlier with your second, but at 4 1/2 weeks!! Geez! Looks like a big bubba for me!

  4. #4
    Registered User

    Apr 2008
    White Gum Valley, WA
    318

    KL: Aw, thanks hon!! Actually starting to relax a bit now, considering I'm starting to resemble a blimp! BIG And, you know, you wouldn't want to wait 3 WHOLE DAYS to poas again, so I'm just going to shout TOMORROW FMU!!!

  5. #5
    Registered User

    Jan 2008
    Indiana, USA
    400

    Morning gurlies!!!

    tut...not a boring list at all! How cute your tummy must be...picture time!

    I think our list should have been 10 or 20 things you don't know about me...LOL

    Krystie...I always though PT Cruisers were super cute BUT now I want something else...I am forever changing my mind (you just learned something else about me...indecisive *wink*)

    WTH...*wavin* glad your back!



  6. #6
    Registered User

    Jun 2008
    135

    Well having had my lap/ dye they have told me I do not have endometriosis but I do have polycystic ovaries... they have burnt/ drilled away asmuch as possible and have advised us to ttc in the next 6 months and if nothing happens to return for another op...

    I do not have to use chlomid yet and currently I'm glad as I'm so sore and upset last thing Id want is to have to swallow one of those each day. I am gutted, more than gutted.

    As for my CD I am not sure where I am now as I am bleeding but it could just be due to op... hmm

    Rach
    x

  7. #7
    Registered User

    Jan 2008
    South Australia
    522

    Hi girls,

    Ok, this is going to be short....but SWEET!!!!!!

    PBSTAR - CONGRATULATIONS BABE! Im over the moon for you right now (sorry I know you dont want us to get too excited yet....but I just know this is it for you hun!!!! )
    HOW BLOODY COOL IS THAT????? You sooooooo deserve this to be it hun, and Im saying lots and lots of for a sticky strong one for you. POAS again in a few days....im sure it will get darker for you hun, its just a bit early still. Well, you've got me and loads of other girls on here for you, so try and relax and enjoy it! (I know....easier said than done!)

    AFM - BB's are killing me, sooooooo sore, but they hurt in a different way than when im UTD, so Im thinking this is not the month for me But hey, its ok, I finish my degree in 10 months, so little baby....if your listening....just give mummy a few more months before you make my uterus your home, and everything will be just PERFECT! Ohhhh, if only it were that easy

    for all,
    Issy

  8. #8
    Registered User

    Jan 2008
    Newcastle,uk
    156

    Pbstar CONGRATULATIONS!!!

    Jen- Would say was more like monica too, Chandlers my favourite though.

    KL- you get that BFP next ime you poas.

    Joey- hope you have a fab time

    Rachelswirl- So sorry you're having such a tough time, take care and pamper yourself.
    AFM. well have poas again and BFN still no af dont know whats going on

  9. #9
    Registered User

    May 2008
    U.S.A
    186

    Smi~ sorry about AF sweetie ...

    KL~ yes I really wish to GOD I never went on that shot I have not been the same since ...

    Tut~ I'm so glad to hear that everything is going well with you and bub !!!

    WTH ~ Hey girlie glad to see your post ...

    Rachel ~ I hope you get pg in the next 6 months !!! I'm praying for you ...

    pbstar ~ yay for another + test are going to get a BT now ???

    be back later I'm not in the best mood right now ...

  10. #10
    Registered User

    May 2008
    North side, Brisbane
    754

    KL - You have no idea how far behind I am in my knitting!! Please txt me if you get a BFP

    Tutmae - Those are interesting 5 facts. MINE were boring! That's so cool that you're getting a tum tum!! How cute!

    Jen - That's weird, my strips said between 10am and 8pm preferably the same time each day. I don't spose it would matter too much. Just try to stick to the instructions as best you can. Have a great weekend away... DON'T FORGET YOUR THERMOMETER! So long as the testing line is the same darkness or darker than the control line, then you're due to O within 24-36 hours. I know - how crazy is it! I got excited about my two lines too!!

    AFM - My coverline changed from CD18 (dotted) to CD20 (solid). My rating is only 'good'. I guess cause we only BDed 4 days before, and then on the day of and then 2 days after O. Oh well. Fingers crossed. It's weird though cause I am STILL getting O pain this morning (that's 3 days in a row now). Either that or I have appendicitis! It's the same side as last month, although a few days ago I did have some little twinges on my left side. Who knows. And frankly, who cares, so long as there's a little bubba starting it's journey in there!

    I am soooooooooooooo excited about our trip. Just about all packed and ready to go. This could be my last post for a while, so pleeeeease txt me on my mobile if anyone gets a BFP!


  11. #11
    Registered User

    Jan 2008
    Newcastle,uk
    156

    Jen- Thanx! Hope you have a super time this weekend.

    Smilanatu- AF was 2 days early last month and 1 day late month before.

    Pbstar- can say proper congratulations now

  12. #12
    Registered User

    Jan 2008
    Melbourne, Australia
    1,395

    easha - that is unusual for this thread, I agree! hun, if you can stay up another 20 mins or so, log onto chat in "miscarriage" room and I'm sure those wicked girls will be in there

    actually think i just missed u, not to worry.

  13. #13
    Registered User

    Oct 2007
    Caroline Springs
    2,341

    Easha and Joey - So nice to see you two back! We've missed you

    Easha - Good news about you ovulating earlier this month. I'm glad the B6 seems to be helping you. I wish I could ski. I've never been skiing, but I would love to try it on a trpical island sometime (I hate the cold!)
    Not sure what your misbehaving temps are doing...

    Joey - Oh nana! You poor thing with the 11-12 bedtimes! You must have been too tired to knit! :O Hehehe. I'm glad you had a great time.

    Mollycat
    - Yay for re-registration going well and being over now! How often do you have to have the inspections? Don't cave in with the POAS like me! Two negatives so far, grrrr!

    Tutmae
    - Honey! Embrace your pregnancy! We're all so super happy for you and I would hate for you to miss out on even one precious moment of you pregnancy. I know it doesn't help for us to tell you not to worry, but 3even if you have to let some of the worry in, remember that there is a little person inside you the loves their mummy and wants to to be as happy as she can

    Jenushka
    - Hello my little trooper! I think you are being so amazingly strong and brave and I am super proud of you. I know how hard things must be for you at the moment, and I am so glad that you found the strength to post with us again. I think seeing a counsellor is a fantastic idea, and I'm pretty sure if I were in the same situation that I would be doing exactly the same thing. Huge hugs for you sweetheart

    plc
    - Hello "special" friend

    Angel
    - Better give those strained fingers of yours a massage, this was just a practise run for the "REAL" testing day when I'm going to get TWO lines!!!
    PS. Ok I get the hint. I need to update the cycle list :P

  14. #14
    Registered User

    Oct 2007
    Caroline Springs
    2,341

    Sandygirl - Hi cycle buddy! Apparently my BFP is waiting for you to test with me! Hehehehe! Oh, and I kinda follow Angel's theory on POAS, lol. I find it kind of lets me down easy and eases me into the BFNs. But not this month I'm sure

    Chappas
    - Keep up that excessive peeing!!! No af!

    Jen - If you are ovulating soon then you better stop crossing "everything" for me!!! Uncross those legs and wrap them around your skydiving, bald headed, sexy sunglasses wearing MAN!
    Hmmm, now how could I have been so wrong about the "odd" days when I had such good reasons to back it up?! How could I be so blind as to not realise that "evens" is my lucky days?! *sigh*

    Toccara
    - Oh I've heard some horrid things about the BC shot! I hope it didn't mess with you too much, but from what you've written it obviously wasn't a walk in the park...

    Smi
    - Stupid stupid BFMFFFF!!! Sorry sweetness
    My best friend has always reallllly wanted to get a PT Cruiser. She adores them hehehe.

    Megsmum
    - Sorry you plans didn't go exactly to plan Hopefully you've snuck in a sneaky BFP before the need for IVF. But if not, then I just want to wish you all the best with the IVF and I really hope that it is a raging success and that you fall pregnant straight away!

    WTH
    - How are you sweetness? You've been mia for a while and I've missed you

    AFM
    - By bb's are a bit sorer today, so am really hoping that the testing was just done too early. Will try to be strong and not test tomorrow. But it's going to be hard considering that I'm going to have to switch over to even days, and well.... tomorrow is an even day!!!

  15. #15
    Registered User

    Jan 2008
    573

    BB.... firstly.... who are the wicked girls... couldnt be me your talking about.... and yes.. i m sittin in the room.. but i m not the wicked one.

    Krystie... nooo it wasnt meant as a hint... i dont do hints.. i would just come straight out and say something.... goodness.. you should know that by now