TTC after Miscarriage or Loss ~ Dec 07/Jan 08

[ll80]

Hi everyone,
I've been reading all your stories and you are all such strong women.
I've only just had my m/c last week and am wondering where you get the courage to try again.
I'm not ready yet and at this point not sure when I will be.
I do want to try again, after being pg again it has re-kindled the desire IYKWIM.
Just need to build my strength back up and get back on track mentally.
Good Luck to you all TTC.
..Laura

[Baby Angels]

Ohhhh Laura I so know what you mean. I lost my angels 12 Days ago, and reading what you just wrote I fully understand what your saying.

I wrote for something in a forum last week sometime and a lady who had just lost her babies told me I was so strong. I got her response and I thought..... Strong.... Nope Not Me. At the time I wasnt. It comes very gradually. Yesterday was the first day of the fog lifting and today I feel just a tad better again. I have only just finished writing a post in the TTC saying that I think, thanks to some of the people i have met and spoken to on here that I just MIGHT be at the stage where I can think about going again.

Its a slow process Laura, but you can get through just like I can, just like so many of the wonderful women... and some men I ve spoken to on here can and have.

[AJC]

thanks Bettyboop. Will be a miracle if it happens this month - we were actually trying not to fall this month until we saw ob/gyn to see what he thought of all of my post m/c tests. He gave us the green light so are waiting for af so we can officially start trying again. Chart does look good though - can't even remember when we bd'd this month as haven't been marking that on my chart. I guess there is always that slim chance but no tender breasts or any other symptoms I've experienced before. At this stage just hoping it means my hormones are doing what they're supposed to and will be in order to give me a bfp next cycle.

Your cycle looks like af will be on her way very soon. Maybe next cycle will be your lucky one too

Treelo - hope the break did you well. DH and I have had a 4 month break this time, mainly to do tests but mentally/emotionally it has done us the world of good. Also been good to get fit, eat well. Good luck to you!