TTC after Miscarriage or Loss ~ July 07 #2

[Lee]

Sorry Leyla - remiss of me - HUGEST congratulations on your BFP - I think your attitude is FANTASTIC - we must all enjoy the things we love while we have them - sadly we just don't know how long this will be for. In your bubs case - probably 90 or 100 years really happy for you!

Lee xo

[zionsmom]

I will do a couple personals later...

although Treelo I am so incredibly sorry for that woman.

OK truth... I don't know why but I am not doing well Yesterday my AF was supposed to come and it didn't which is a good thing I guess but I took a test in the evening even though I said I wasn't going to and it was neg. even though my AF wasn't there it just made me so sad. I cried and cried, I didn't expect to act that way at all. My DH had a softball game last night and I went but after 5 min. I had to leave because I was starting to cry again! I went home and at 8:30 pm I took some tylenol pm which just knocks me out and slept until now and its 9:30am. I have heard that 90% of women will test positive on the day of their missed period I don't think it matters if its in the evening. So I am upset because I think that my period is going to skip a month and come in early August, BUT if it does that than does that change when I have been ovulating????? Does anyone know? I am majorly depressed right now, Sorry to be so self absorbed girls...

[satya]

Treelo - OMG - that is unbelievable - what's wrong with the woman????? Sending
Not all women get O pain so don't worry if you don't notice it. Mine is different to AF pain and is localised to one side and can last from a few minutes to several hours. It's more of an ache rather than a cramp that you get with AF. I don't get it every cycle, even though I do appear to be ovulating.

Zionsmom - Using your statistics that still means that 10% of women will test positive after their AF is due right? Stop stressing. It's very unlikely you will skip a whole AF. You will either get a positive HPT in a couple more days or your AF will arrive.... hopefully it will not be the latter. Just try to keep calm and wait and see what happens.

Hi to everyone else. Having trouble concentrating today so sorry for not many personals.



I'm feeling much better today, but I am really tired. I'm stressed about how on earth I'm going to get through all the work I have to get through today, but I'm sure I'll get through it somehow. The comments my insensitive colleague made yesterday were about how great it would to be pregnant (yes I know how great it is, I should be 23 weeks now but instead I'm back to the drawing board) and how pretty much everyone is going to die of cancer eventually (I really don't need to hear this right now when both my parents have it). I had two lots of tears yesterday, anger at the dogs, anger at my partner for something I wouldn't normal be bothered about. I'm feeling far more emotionally stable today, so let's hope it stays that way. 7DPO for me right now.