pash, I want to give you a big hug - even though we hardly know each other. I'm so glad you took control of things and didn't settle for something you weren't happy with. Knowing what is going on will help you stay sane.

I talked to a friend a while ago who was TTC for 12 (!) years before conceiving (she's 30 weeks now). She also had times where she was told not to TTC for a year (e.g. after a ectopic pregnancy which went really badly).

She told me that it got to the point for her that knowing the answer to what's happening (even if it's not what you want to hear) is better than the waiting around and not knowing.

I hope that you'll find peace in the knowing what's going on - even if it means you have to wait for a year - than wondering what on earth's going on.

I'm glad you didn't leave BB and never tell us what happened after the m/c because
I really admire your strength through all this.

If it is 6 months, make plans for that time. Make it an amazing 6 months you never thought you'd ever have. Do something wild, make changes in your life, take up a new hobby, anything to make it seem like the time's not wasted and sitting around doing nothing. None of us know what the future will hold.

satya, not long till testing I really hope you get a BFP!!! Will keep checking back in to see what happens

Lee, thanks for stopping by... almost 11 weeks already?! Wow time flies!! Hope you're doing well

zionsmom, keep letting us know how you're doing? Thinking of you!

My friend's child of under 2 has stage 4 neuroplasma cancer. She found out about 3 weeks ago. It's awful. I have no idea what she's going through and I feel so helpless. She is doing remarkably well....maybe people get given the strength they never knew they had/could have in times like that. I'm praying her child makes it through.

BB says I'm 4DPO but I'm not sure if I have O. My chart is confusing me!

Hi everyone else I missed