Thanks for the messages of support Shoegirl, LizJessie, megsmum, Sharon, Sweetpetite, Penny, Treelo & Las & anyone I may have missed.

KBowman - I'm not even sure I will be going back to the gyno. He said I would hear from the clinic after the lap and all would fall into place from there (heading in to IVF). Now that I've conceived again naturally though, I don't want to do IVF but I'm hoping I can get some sort of support, perhaps progesterone or something to try and keep a baby next time. I'm going to give work a go today only because my work is going to be hugely behind. There's only one other admin in my team and she will have done pretty much none of my work. She had a sick day on MOnday as well (I think she went for a job interview as I know she's looking for work) so it will be absolute chaos. The longer I leave going back will just make it harder to go back. If anything is going to make me crack today it will be walking in and seeing that my workmate hasn't bothered to finish off the reports that were left on my desk. All that needed to be done was bind them but I can almost guarantee she won't have done them even though our guys always want them ASAP.

Pash - You know, I still agree that it's better to fall pg than not - at least I have hope. What a shock that must have been when your old work mate died so quickly. It is awful when such a young person goes like that. I'll be telling my DF that story tonight - he's just given up smoking again but maybe his story can be the thing that stops him from smoking ever again. Good luck with the chemo when it does start. I will be thinking of you.



Well we got through the difficult day so hopefully it will be onwards and upwards from here. The hardest part was waiting for the result from the doc. Once I'd got it and managed to walk out of the clinic & get home & had some tears I started to come good again. It was not unexpected news but still hard to deal with just the same.

I've passed some clots and had very little bleeding overnight but it's just started up again. Had a little back pain but that's about it, pretty much the same as last time.

We are basically TTCing straight away. There is no time to waste.

Couple of questions ladies:

For those of you who temp: When did you notice your temp go down after your m/c? Mine's still up and I wasn't temping when I had my other m/c so I don't know when to expect it to go down again.

My doctor did not ask me to come back to get my HCG levels checked again. Shouldn't I make sure it's gone right back to zero in a week or two?