Thanks ladies I have you guys to talk to while he is gone and its only for a few month's and then he will be working at a jail close to where we live at now and he said time to start looking for a house !!! he will start off making more money then what he does now so we will be better off now if only I could find a good job too ... I'm really going miss him but its for the best ... lol I have to keep telling myself that ...