oh well, keep trying, you never know he might "cave"!
ive just realised that i have my cousins wedding in darwin in may next year, i am tossing up wether i should wait till after the wedding or just keep on keeping on, it took us so long last time, mind you i didnt have ff then, i suppose i could just wait a few months, then i wont be too pg to fly over there.
if i hadnt m/c it wouldve worked out perfectly with a 2 mth old and all my interstate family could have met him/her........oh well such is life