Hi all,

I am just wondering what advice people had been given after a newborn death (neonatal death) about when to start TTC again. Especially those who'd had a caesar.

We've been told to wait at least 6-9 months for my caesar scar to properly heal and to give my body time to recover from Nikita's birth. That was roughly the time frame we were going to allow ourselves anyway (New Year, new luck) but I am concerned about leaving it so long also.

I am worried it may take us longer this time to fall in, or that I will have another early mc. DH doesn't want to budge on the time frame because the Ob said thats how long we should wait. I feel like I want to start trying in a few months time and this is starting to cause problems.

Anyway,

I am just wondering how long people who have been in a similar situation waited etc.

Nae x x