I tested at 3am this morning cos I woke up dying to pee. It was a but a very faint one. My DF could see it when I showed it to him which is good, cos I thought I might be imagining it. It is barely there. It's 13DPO for me now. No sign of spotting and my temp went up .1 of a degree. Feeling a little bit excited but I won't get there fully until I see a strong dark BFP.

LizJessie - It is quite serious surgery that your DP has had done and the seriousness may not have hit him until he was hit with all the things that can go wrong. They always do that to you in the hospital just before you go in to theatre.... they tend to tell you every possible thing that can go wrong, including death. It's the worse thing as it almost makes you want to not get done whatever procedure you're about to get done. I remember when I had my lap done they told me they could perforate my bowel and I could be on a bag for the rest of my life, or they could have to do a hysterectomy or I could die. I was sitting there scared stiff wondering if it was worth risking all this stuff just to check my fertility. I'm sure your DP will get more positive as he starts to feel better.