well said TamaraP. I couldn't have said it better. My daughter was stillborn exactly 6 months ago, and I feel like I have 'dealt' with the worst of it, but I still deal with it everyday and will for the rest of my life. Most days I am ok, but any little thing can make me sad. I cannot imagine how she must feel knowing that they tried to get her to do this task after knowing her circimstances. I thought the relationship triangle they did was bad enough, but this is just gross.