OMG I cant believe that they said she had a miscarriage Nicholas has been referred to as a miscarriage and I very promptly clarify that he was infact stillborn - there is a massive difference and I cannot believe that a person in her position could be so insensitive! But then it seems to me the way of the world, unless someone has experienced a late loss or stillbirth they just cant (or dont want to) get it... thankfully there are some decent people in the world who try to understand us.

Well at you got a response and werent blatantly ignored... will be interesting to see if you get a further response. Would love to hear if you do Deb

And I totally agree with you E's Mum - those psychs are crocks, common sense tells you although she may be able to deal with her loss in her normal environment, take her out of that comfort and it is totally different.