Late Loss and Recurrent M/C Friendship and Support Group - SYDNEY

Thanks girls, I am ok, just another dip in the rollercoaster ride. I think a backup plan is a good idea. Lol about the tissues Spring, I already went out and bought a big share-size box of the nice soft ones to bring along, I've already been through a few this week though! Lynn, are we allowed to post our email addresses on here? Not sure if I want to put mine online, or what I will do is open a new one and when you email me, I will then return my proper one to you and then cancel the new one...oohh, how very James Bond of me!

lol about James Bond, Bailey! I always have the tissues stocked up in my bag, never know when you need them. And I like the soft ones, otherwise my nose gets to red!!!

Bailey if you go to Cooper's website and leave a message Lynn will get your email address ;) or she may already have it.
Belly belly lets you add you email address to posts if you like - then delete or you can add into your profile and then take it off again.

Bailey I already have a James Bond email address!!! lol. Email me at lynnsydney@hotmail.com

Thanks Baby Amore - by the way, your little ones are just so cute!:D

Lynn - I emailed you on the undercover account.

Ooh, I am still bringing cupcakes!

I'm good for the brownies... Yummo.

Mmmm, now the pressure is on!!! I will have to think of something to make. I will search the cookbooks now.

Hey, a question, Lynn you said in the email to meet at the front gates, are they the gates from the train station?? I looked a map online and there seems to be a few gates so I will probably get lost :dunno:

Hey Spring and Lynn,
Just wanted to say thanks again for yesterday. It was really great to meet you wonderful girls in person. I hope we can do it again soon:D And maybe some of the others can join us too!
Kel

Hey Kel,

Yes it was great to catch up with you and Spring yesterday. I can't believe how fast the time went. We can talk can't we!!!! I guess we have a lot to say. You can only type so much.

I would love to do it again and hopefully more can join us, especially you Nat :)

Ditto from me. It was like we were old friends. I am definately up for another catch up.

Luv Spring

Hi my little possums,

Lynn and I were chatting and we thought it was about time us Sydneysiders plan another catch up.

I think last time the roll call was

Lynn,
Dream,
Bailey
Michelle and me

But I know because of previous commitments we couldn't all make it.

So lets organise another one and if there is anyone else who wants to join us, we would love to see you.

I am totally flexible with dates if it is a weekend and may be able to do a mid week catch up if I can organise some time off work. So for those of us that work on weekends, do you want to say when you are free and we can plan so that everyone can be there or we can try to organise a mid week date.

As I really still don't know Sydney yet, any ideas for locations would be great.

Can't wait to hear from you all.

Luv Spring.

PS.... a little Woo Hoo, this is my 300th post.

Hey girls,
Count me in. I work thursdays, fridays and saturdays and can get pretty much anywhere, so location is not a prob for me. I may also ask a friend of mine to come along if she wants to and if no body else minds. Her son was stillborn at christmas at full term.

Hi Bailey

I am sorry that your friend has to be invited IKWIM, but of course she is more than welcome.

Count me in!

Bailey - your friend is more than welcome.

What about a Wednesday you both have them off?

Nat - not sure if you are free on Wednesdays - hope so

Spring - woo hoo on your 300 posts!

Let me know the day and I'll try to swing the shift off. Thursdays are usually good for me. Wednesday can be done too.

Hey girls,

The first Wednesday I can do isn't until the 21st. I have an appointment at Westmead at 3.30pm that afternoon to have my booking in interview, but apart from that my day is free.

Is that too far away? It is just under three weeks.

If you want to do it earlier, how about next Sunday the 11th?

Spring

Hey Spring,
21st will be ok for me, are you thinking am or pm? I am meant to go to the Sids & Kids group that day. But if that day is good for everyone else, go ahead and I will try to get to both.
Kel

I'm easy - either the 11th or 21st. Just let me know what is better for you guys.

Hi Girls

Spring Congrats on the 300 post, Lynn and bailey I can do either 11 or 21st let me know and count me in!

Nat

Well the 21st seems to be a goer but only if it is going to fit in with your SIDS and Kids meeting Bailey. I don't want you to have to miss it or to feel rushed. Perhaps if you suggest the best time for you. I would prefer AM because I have my booking in appointment that afternoon at 3.30pm.

Otherwise, next Sunday is still a possibility.

Listen to how indecisive we all are (lol)

I don't know what someone has done with my caveman husband and where this new SNAG has come from. I just spoke to him then and he said his eyes welled with tears when he opened my email with the scan pics of Lil Spring. He said his feelings about this pregnancy are so amplified because of the fear and nervousness. What a sweetie, I just want to give him a big cuddle but I can't. I will see him on Tuesday because I am in Canberra for work but it will only be for a few hours. It is Harry's 5 month Birthday so no doubt we will both just sit in and cry. Well at least we can be together.

He is such a wonderful man and I am just in an emotional mood. I think those pregnancy hormones are really kicking in.

Lv Spring

Ooopsie, I posted in the wrong thread.

I don't know how to move it :dunno:

Sorry gals.

Spring

Ok - then why don't we make it 21 March. Now the decision of what time. Spring is your appointment at Westmead? We could do a morning tea somewhere.

hey gals,
I don't think that I will make this one, but I will come to the next one. I would rather meet up with you guys than the Sids & Kids group, but I don't want to let my friend down either. We had already planned to go. But please don't change anything for me as I can't really even garentee I can get my little monster looked after til a few days before. I will come to the next one though!

My appointment is at 3.30pm so morning tea is fine. Bailey, is there anyway we can do it so that you can come. Even if that means bringing your little monster if that is ok with everyone else. As long as he doesn't mind being smothered with attention by all of us.

Spring

I wanna come toooooo!!!!!!!!!!!!!!:cryinglaugh:

I can't believe how many of you gorgeous women are in Sydney! I guess I will just have to be there in Spirit...

Well I am zonked today. We had a BlessingWay for my gorgeous friend who is due to birth her twins soon. We were due a week apart :cry:... I will be at the birth which is always an honour. So anyway it was a late but beautiful night.
We had to get up early this morning to take my DH to the airport. He is off to Spain for 10 days. Yes I am green with envy - I have never done Spain but I WANNA :cryinglaugh:

The bleeding has eased and the cramping has gone so that's all good. Tomorrow is Day 1 of clomid. I usually begin on cd2 but this month my obs wanted to start on cd5 due to the early loss... Here we go AGAIN.....

I hope you are all having a lovely Sunday afternoon. I am going into the garden to do some weeding. Oh I forgot! We got our girls (chookies!!!) on Friday. They are so gorgeous. Finn just loves them and sits for ages just watching them "bock bock". They have to stay in their pen for a week to "aclimatise"and then we can let the poor loves free range. I do feel sorry for them caged up but it is a big chicken coop. MY husband made it and it is truly the chook hilton. They even have a mini ladder to get into their nesting boxes!!!

Talk soon lovelies :hug:

Deb - I wish that you could come too :hug: I'm glad that the bleeding and cramping have eased and that the next 10 days fly so that your DH is back with you. That is gorgeous you talking about your chookies. I call my dogs, my girls. I think it is beautiful. And they sound spoilt!!!!!!!!

Bailey - you have to be there! Can we change it to another day that you are free or would you be able to come in the morning?

thanks Lynn, I am meant to go to the Sids & Kids one in the morning, as long as my mum isn't working and can take Ethan, but that's why I don't want anyone to change anything just for me, just in case I can't make it. I think you guy's should just set a time and location, and I will try to do everything I can do get there.

I am going to be a real pain in the behind but I think the 21st is now out for me. Is there anyway we can do the weekend of the Sat 17 Sun 18 or the following weekend Sat 24 Sun 25?

Sorry to do this, it is just that my Psych wants to see me as does the ob so it is a crazy busy day.

If it can't be changed, I'll see if I can move my appointments.

Big love
Spring

I'm ok with any of those dates but I have a BT on Saturday 17 at 8.30am so any time after that would be fine.

I just remembered that Bailey works on Saturdays, so how about Sunday the 18th? That is this Sunday. Lets say mid afternoon at a place that one of you locals can nominate. I am still a Queenslander, sorry gals.

I really hope that we can make a time everyone can come.

Luv Spring

Sunday is fine with me. I don't mind where we meet. Does someone want to suggest a place?

Correct me if I am wrong but I think Sunday is the 75th anniversary of the Bridge, or that might be the following weekend. Either way, I think we should steer clear of the city. Apart from that, I am not much use with locations :confused:

Spring

Hey Spring....what bridge? Lol, just kidding, yeah I think it is this weekend. I can make it on sunday, and I don't mind where we go, you guys let me know what is good for you!:D

What time is best? Do you want to do a lunch?

Spring - what time does DH leave? You don't want to miss any precious time with him

It is a public holiday in Canberra on Monday so DH won't be leaving on Sunday. Thanks for being so considerate Lynn you sweet thang.

I think lunch would be nice, the way we talk it will be late afternoon by the time we finish anyway. Just a thought though, perhaps we should check with Dream first, she may not feel up to it this weekend or on the other hand, it may be just what she needs.

Luv Spring

Hey girlies, off to bed for me. Way past my bedtime for a school night (lol)

I'll pop in tomorrow to see what the consensus is.

Nighty ni

Spring

Cool an extra night with hubbie, Spring!!!

I spoke with Nat last night and she said that she thinks she is available. She said that she may post tonight and let us know. I can give her another call tomorrow to see if she is up to it.

Any suggestions on where we can go?