Nikilove - Did you mean that you didnt know you were pregnant until you were 20 weeks? Wow, were you on the pill or something? I have heard that if you are on the pill and unaware you are pregnant you can continue to bleed. I am sorry about your little man But you are still a Mummy and still entitled to grieve him even you were unaware - so please dont apologise for posting. I noticed from your ticker that you are almost at O day so I wish you all the luck to get a BFP.