Hi Deb,

Thank you for your post. I was so very grateful for all the info you have posted here in relation to recurrent m/c - it has really helped me out, and I was so glad to see you back here again!

As my GP was so totally useless, I ended up finding my own referral to an RE that was recommended to me. I went to see him the week before last and posted about the appointment in the miscarriage & loss thread under 'My RE Appointment'. He basically went through all the possible reasons for it and said that I can do testing now if I want, but said that he thinks it is just bad luck and there is an 80% chance it won't happen again. He also said that there is only a 20% chance of actually finding something wrong which surprised me. As some of the testing sounded pretty awful, we decided to get the tests done that they can do by BT, and I am getting some of them done today. Then we will see him again in a couple of weeks and will start trying again if all is ok.

I am also seeing a counsellor which I hope will help, as although I am a lot better now than I was, I am definitely not my old self yet and need some extra support.

You guys here are just fantastic - the most supportive site I have found and the knowledge and the support has been life-saving.

It is just awful that so many people have to go through this, and that they don't seem to know enough yet about what to do. I am very happy to see you back and hope that soon we will both be enjoying the pregnancy journey for a whole 9 months!

Thanks again for your support,

Bun xx